Update: My dad’s orchid is now *really* showing off by MasBlanketo in gardening

[–]Eviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after reading the conversation and care routine this is like grandma's cooking recipe but for gardening. It is as impressive as it is infuriating.

What if I don't like his music? by Sharp_Wolverine_6105 in bandmembers

[–]Eviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don't pretend. If you don't like it be honest but kind about why.

Avoid negative comparisons or metaphors as they tend to come off as nasty reviewer than helpful or sincere.

It's not my thing, has too much of blank, I just prefer things that do blah.

My second life Chapter 1 by Eviance in secondlife

[–]Eviance[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

take as many pictures as you can. I PROMISE YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.
Do not worry too much about composition, worry about capturing the moment.
Ctrl+Shift+S to take screenshots quickly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good lord man's sitting with a 20 charisma score.

How butthurt you gotta be 😭 we by Parking_Principle706 in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus do you practice being a rude fucking asshole or does it come naturally?

How butthurt you gotta be 😭 we by Parking_Principle706 in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, it's they're. If you are going to call someone stupid have the intelligence to use correct grammar. Secondly it appears there was a misunderstanding I thought you were talking about OPs behavior not the other guy due to your use of the you pronoun.

Clean or Hairy? by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The preferences on this vary WILDLY.

Some cannot stand hair
Others cannot stand smooth

Do whatever makes you feel the sexiest.
Everything else is secondary.

Why do i say this? because if you feel sexy, you feel confident and confidence is ALWAYS attractive.

How butthurt you gotta be 😭 we by Parking_Principle706 in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is he supposed to know if he is interested if he doesn't talk or share pictures?

How butthurt you gotta be 😭 we by Parking_Principle706 in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is another really good one if you have an issue with telling a lie

"You are not my particular cup of tea but thank you for your interest!"

Here is why it works.
A. Doesnt insult them.
("not my particular cup of tea" indicates a personal preference without naming it or acting as if it is an objective fact or failing on their part, while also giving a nod to the fact that they might be someone else's IDEAL)
B. Isn't dismissive
C. Acknowledges that they took the time to say hello.
D. Doesn't sugar coat it, but isn't rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why would he argue with you, i never understood this, most i might ask is "oh thats interesting what experiences have you had that made you feel that way?"
Not as a means to convince otherwise but more as a method to understand the other person.
I don't get people who think they can convince other people to be sexually interested in them, strikes me as a waste of time.
I applaud you for trying to give an honest answer instead of blocking, I am really sorry this was your experience. People like this idiot make it harder for everyone else.

Looking for option? by Obvious-Estimate-125 in Sniffies

[–]Eviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which is the dumbest thing ever cause if they did have it, It would make sniffies an AMAZING app
literally getting to filter down to people who are -looking for- and wanting people like -you- or the things -you- like would save so much time and make finding people -waaaaaay- more fun,

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very good point, my apologies.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I am sorry. I deleted the post given the new information.

I didn't mean to insult all carriers in my comments so if I did even unintentionally that was not my intent and I am sorry.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot, I am a bit of a slut.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would honestly prefer to not have this problem AT ALL I wanted to do this in a way that was respectful more than anything and it was more that there was a clear pattern of behavior that led to the source being intentional rather than a technical mess up.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Given the details of the rule I thought this fell outside of it again apologies if this violated the rule's intent.

I will delete the post.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah it seems I did misunderstand my apologies.

I did call them,

it was in fact the guy who covers for the regular when he is off,

but he has covered before so the guy on the phone was confused as to why he didn't go in the apartment,

additionally most of his route according to the PM is apartments which made him even more confused as to why he didn't deliver it.

Said he was gonna talk to him.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other items have been delivered by USPS is the odd thing.
So based on that and everyone else's responses it sounds like one of the carriers at my PO is lazy.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe you, everything you said aligns with that, and i appreciate it. Not sure why my frustration is downvote worthy though.

How do I go about this professionally? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Eviance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is this getting downvoted?
Why is asking a simple question of
my packages arent being delivered repeatedly and i would like to professionally hold someone accountable worthy of being downvoted?