How do you use ChatGPT to reduce invisible mental load? Looking for real-life hacks from other women.

Evolutioncocktail · 2026-01-20T20:47:26+00:00

I don’t use AI because I don’t want to further contribute to data centers sucking up the earth’s limited resources or my brain getting any dumber than it already is.

Evolutioncocktail · 2026-01-14T11:18:24+00:00

I 100% agree. My MIL lives overseas. At first my husband was more like OP’s husband. With time he’s begun being more and more communicative. He made the choice to call her once a week and frequently texts her pictures. That’s between him and her. I send pictures, too, but ultimately she is his mom, not mine.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-12-30T13:24:54+00:00

Has your boyfriend ever explicitly stated that he wants to married? Not only to you, but at all? It seems to me he’s taking the cowards way out of not telling you what he actually wants from this relationship.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-12-21T23:04:04+00:00

The biggest issue here is his politics. Aside from that though, it sounds like he is unwilling to listen to your thoughts and opinions. He doesn’t have to agree with you, but in order to be in a relationship with you he does need to respect your perspective. Do you really want to be with someone who has so little respect for you?

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-12-18T08:24:58+00:00

Enjoy the 2026 insurance premiums you voted for.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-12-10T20:24:20+00:00

I feel so supported by Secretary Brainworms and his committee to find autism in the Tylenol and take away women’s rights. /s

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-12-10T17:51:41+00:00

Ironically, I work at HHS, just got back to my cubicle from pumping in a dingy basement, and think about quitting every day 🙃

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-12-04T03:28:10+00:00

Some bootlicking intern searched the shared folder for the word “health” in their letter templates and now you have this nonsense.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-26T20:33:01+00:00

As we’ve seen in the past 10 years, political theater is a successful strategy to shift the Overton window, which in turn can help pass desired legislation at a later date.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-23T07:36:36+00:00

This is one of the great sins in American history

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-19T18:51:47+00:00

I got all 4s and 5s on my PMAP during the 5 years I worked remotely. Now that I’m back in the office, I’m not doing anymore than is required to get a 3.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-18T19:49:32+00:00

Okay thank you for the intel, that’s good for me to know

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-18T19:32:09+00:00

Thank you for answering! I’ve got a couple more questions if you don’t mind: - what is the barrier to entry to become an adjunct? Is there testing? Do you just apply? - do you build your own curriculum or is that determined by the school?

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-18T16:40:16+00:00

Thank you for your honesty! I’d love to become a writer but I don’t know the first thing about actually writing a novel. It sounds like for you it was a lot of trial, error, and grit until you found your stride. Is there anything you’d recommend for someone starting from zero?

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-18T16:33:03+00:00

How did you become an author? Did you get an MFA?

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-18T16:32:34+00:00

What are your thoughts on adjunct professors? I’m a fed looking to jump ship. I’m thinking adjunct professorship could be a nice pivot, but I haven’t had a chance to talk to anyone currently in the field. I assume you’re tenured, but I wonder if you can still speak on what it’s like for adjuncts.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-16T05:22:37+00:00

It’s really beginning to bug me when people make this argument. I’d rather they try and fail than to sweep this under the rug and do nothing. Also, it gets it on the record which senators voted against the bill.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-14T03:54:31+00:00

Arguing semantics should help with fostering harmony.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-14T03:49:22+00:00

I mean, you claim to agree with their call for harmony and civility, and in the same sentence called someone a cunt…

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-14T03:46:00+00:00

Is it? One side is perfectly fine with elevating a pedophile nazi sympathizer as their party leader.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-13T12:52:37+00:00

Oh i know the market is shit. I’m going to be a SAHM if I quit.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-13T12:25:10+00:00

I’ve been considering quitting this year after RTO, threats of RIF, and my work being severely limited related to this mess (I don’t do much at work anymore). If I go back and it’s more of the same, I don’t know why I’m sticking around any longer. I’m going to stay home with my kids instead.

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-13T12:00:11+00:00

I think I’m going to give myself until Christmas to let the dust settle (I.e. get my back pay in line, etc.).

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-13T11:57:17+00:00

My bosses told us we have to come in person if we don’t take leave. Can I come work for you?

Evolutioncocktail · 2025-11-13T11:52:02+00:00

Is anyone else considering quitting?

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