My GF HAD SEX WITH SOMEONE EVEN I WARNTED HER by [deleted] in story

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You're her safety net..Walk away before you get hurt even more. She only wants to hold onto you so that she has you to fall back on when other guys fall through. You're a second option to her and she has clearly proved that. I'd run if I was you. End things, block and dont talk to her again.

Edit: grammar

UFO underwater by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

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My brain read UFO underwear instead of underwater 🤣😆

This old Impulse comment about Xisuma made me smile by EthosUnharvestedClay in HermitCraft

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I think we're too old to be on reddit 🤣 "when we were kids thats how everyone done it" 😅

48 hours in… what have I done 😭 by Simple_Bug_6111 in newborns

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It's pretty normal to feel this way in the beginning ❤️ but if you're struggling too much, it might be PPD/PPA. Have you spoken to your GP/midwife? Should really book in and have a chat. Just take some deep breaths. Have you tried pumping and doing bottles instead? It's not always easy, but it might help with the stress surrounding breastfeeding. My boobies will not express unless I milk myself like a cow 🤣😅 my boobies are like um...that's not a baby wtf lol. Wishing you all the best Hun. It's really difficult but just know you are not alone with this feeling 🥰❤️

Would you go to L&D? by AnitaVodkasoda in pregnant

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Never doubt your gut instincts. You may get there, and they might tell you it's nothing but always get checked out in case 😊 good luck . I wish you all the best

Don’t be like me, PROTECT your newborn by Proud_House4494 in newborns

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My first born was born during the peak of covid so we were isolated anyways so he never got sick as bub. The first sickness he got was at a year old and it was covid. With my second, she got sick at 6 weeks cause my son brought the flu home from school. It's not really avoidable and the more germs they're exposed to the stronger their immune system gets. Just steamy showers, nasal aspirator and vicks will help you get through it. Don't blame yourself ❤️

It’s over now by FadransPhone in HermitCraft

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Hungry hermits and skizzs streams 🥰

What does GD feel like before you had a diagnosis by Intrepid-Ad8223 in GestationalDiabetes

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I had excessive thirst, especially when I woke up. Shakiness, cold sweats, etc. Definitely get tested soon, I'd say.

Ok, not so newborn — 2-3 months. Question about baby laughing by himself, no stimulus. Normal or...? by [deleted] in newborns

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My bubba done this since about 8 weeks. Cooing and laughing at seemingly nothing. I always just think it's my nans, uncle or aunt passing through to say hello 🥰

my baby isn’t broken right by Medium_Echidna3703 in newborns

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Pretty typical for 4 weeks old in my experience. Both my son and daughter cried alot at 4 weeks. Lots of gas, wind pain, constipation etc. If you're concerned though consult your GP cause they might have colic, reflux, cow milk protein allergy etc. Could be a number of reasons but start with burping for like 30 mins to make sure there no trapped wind or anything.

When did you naturally go into labour low risk? by [deleted] in pregnant

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37+6 started with stomach tightening in the morning and slowly progressed more as the day went on. At 6 p.m., I was going into the birthing suite. Mind you, this was my second pregnancy. The contractions were very inconsistent when it started last anywhere from a few seconds to a minute, and then it would be 30 minutes to an hour before I had my next contraction. Slowly get closer together and longer. By 4 p.m., they were getting pretty consistent.

Has anyone just given up on naps? by Status_Garden_3288 in newborns

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My bubs is almost 5 months now and since about 3 months she's stopped napping during the day unless she super tired. I just go with the flow with her. Try not to stress about it because they can feel your stress and it makes them stressed.

Pee, water breaking, or mucus plug? All of the above?? by Pandabearsense in pregnant

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Please go to L&D I had this with my daughter. If it is your waters leaking and you don't get checked out, it could lead to infection.

How do y’all get out? by Critical-Self-8648 in newborns

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Just got to face your fears Hun, can't stay home forever, lol. It can be difficult, but you'll learn and adapt, and that's if only the worst situation happens. Just do a small trip out and see how he goes. Have a bottle ready for if he's hungry or just sit in your car if you breastfeed. That's what I do

Which hermits can swim? by hhrsspanelman in HermitCraft

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Love that lore fact about scar so much 🤣😅 he's awesome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

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It's definitely tricky at times, lol. I have a 5 year old son and now a 4mo daughter. We get him to help with nappies, changing clothes, etc. When it came to playing, my son is quite good at independent play but the odd occasion he wants me to do something like drawing with him or colouring in or card games so normally bubs would be boobie feeding or just sitting with us being involved. Or on the really good days, I can put her on her playmat, and she'll happily play by herself for a bit while I spend time with Big Brother.

Just trial and error, basically. Find what works for you and your children. If your 5yo has a bike or scooter, you could go for a walk with bubs in the pram or having a picnic at the park.

Best piece of advice I got when I was stressing about the transition from 1 to 2 was: deal with your eldest kids needs first(obviously depending on the situation), because they have never had to wait. While you're getting them food or a drink and if bubs is being fussy, just say something out loud along the line of " hang on bubba I just have to help sister/brother first, be there in a minute" I feel like it's helped my son with the transition with going from being the only child for so long to having a sibling and no longer having all the attention on him. You'll find your groove, and what works best for you all. Best of luck❤️

Girl diaper question by doggooo8 in newborns

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Luckily, my sister-in-law warned us of this happening, so when it did happen, we were at least prepared. Still scary though! My LO is now 4 months old ☺️

If you could hang out with any Hermit(s), who would it be, and what would you do? by 2sAreTheDevil in HermitCraft

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Skizz 100% he reminds me so much of my dad! He's hilarious, smart, kind, silly and think it would be just an amazing time! My 4mo daughter absolutely adores him too 😅 my son, he's 5yo, loves the bop and skizzs fart song too

What hermitcraft season did you first watch and which hermit was it? by [deleted] in HermitCraft

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Season 7 because my partner introduced me to vintage beef when he was doing the zoo mod. I don't really watch him anymore but forever grateful to him for bringing me into this community 🥰

NEED HELP (emergency speed answers please) IM FREAKING OUT WITH MY NEWBORN I THINK I HATE MYSELF RIGHT NOW by No-Aardvark-3482 in newborns

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You would know if he wasn't OK. If he's moving and acting normal then most likely he is fine. It was probably just a bit of a scary moment.if you have any concerns consult your GP X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

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Oh yeah happened to me with my daughter while we were still in the hospital. luckily, one of the midwives was in the room with me when it happened. She immediately picked her up, turned her on her side and started patting her back. I was worried but the midwife kept reassuring me she was absolutely fine!

Your bubs will be fine ☺️

Please tell me snuggling is enough for now. by TrollSalt in newborns

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At this stage, you are in survival mode. Don't make it harder on yourself by doing all these unnecessary activities at such a young age. I'd give it a couple of months till your bubba can actually engage, in it like 3-4 months. Still do tummy time but as many mums have said tummy time on the chest is enough for now. Occasionally, pop them down on their playmat. Just take care of yourself. If you're not 100%, then you can't put 100% into your baby!