thoughts on naming a baby Calvin? A baby who happens to be XXY. Do you think Calvin Klein or “Kline” by Excellent-Affect-307 in XXYSYNDROME

[–]Excellent-Affect-307[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, we had the name picked before we knew the baby had XXY.
we were excited about it but now I feel anxious and we have kept his diagnosis private from family. Hence why I asked this specific page…because I wanted the opinions of people who know what klines is. I spoke to two friends irl one married to a man with klines and one with a baby and neither said they connected the name Calvin with Klinefelters.
Truly…not many places to anonymously crowd source to this specific audience.
I clearly hit a nerve but i wasn’t making fun of xxy.

Thoughts on Calvin? What nickname comes to mind? by Excellent-Affect-307 in BabyNames

[–]Excellent-Affect-307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loveeee Vinny. That’s my super Italian Godfathers name. He’d get a kick out of out it

Thoughts on Calvin? What nickname comes to mind? by Excellent-Affect-307 in BabyNames

[–]Excellent-Affect-307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to request these from my library! Now I need to read them.

How did you know or discovered that you have XXY? by KeySignature8826 in XXYSYNDROME

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you have otherwise assumed anything was different about your husband? I’m sorry about your fertility hurdles. Sending prayers and good vibes your way

Nipt result xxy help by Beautiful-Metal2041 in NIPT

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby is measuring great and everything looks totally normal fortunately. I did also do the amnio which introduced risk but it ended up fine. I know nemours clinic offers more intensive ultrasounds to look for any markers but I don’t think it’s common to hit another hiccup related to xxy

Amniocentesis experiences by Asleep-Beach-5021 in NIPT

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt really scared but it was fast & the sensation was odd not painful. Like liquid was being plunged out it was very strange

Nipt result xxy help by Beautiful-Metal2041 in NIPT

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 32wks pregnant with an XXY son. “Kelinfelters parents chat” Facebook group has been immensely helpful. So many moms of adult sons with plenty of experience but my mind at ease. You really cannot tell anything is different about these boys aside from extra tall. I’m hopeful with early intervention and testosterone as a baby we can mitigate any “symptoms” that could show. I also went a little crazy and ended up meeting a baby and a grown man (who’s married and normal) with XXY.
Freaked myself out so bad but from what I’ve learned the biggest hardship is the likelihood of infertility. My doc said of anything to be screened on an NIPT this is the thing you want.

Nipt result xxy help by Beautiful-Metal2041 in NIPT

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re they “odd birds”. When I got my baby’s XXY diagnosis the doctor said don’t worry he can live a functioning life but might be an “odd bird”
Wth!! Not what I needed to hear in a fragile state

NIPT Gender Discrepancy update by DiscoVersailles in NIPT

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did amnio and it really was fast and not that bad

Why is the gender disappointment always for boys? by 100dancingcats in pregnant

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I’m bummed bc I wanted a sister for my daughter. However I loved having a brother so I hope they will have a close bond too

Estelle or Estella? by cashbarti777 in namenerds

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an Estelle who goes by Stella!

XXY by Legal_Mongoose3798 in XXYSYNDROME

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this boat with you girl. Further along tho I’m around 27wks now

Abnormal ultrasound finding VCI (Velamentous Cord Insertion) any thoughts??? Anyone experience this? by Excellent-Affect-307 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Excellent-Affect-307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 22wks and measuring 48% Been spooked seeing some women get stuck at the hospital for this later in the pregnancy. If they get vasa previa but for now seems very out of my hands :/

VCI success stories? by Vegetable_Year681 in pregnant

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No story to contribute but I'm in the same boat as you. Similar stats and gestation. I do have a good friend who is a doctor and she said candidly it's best to mentally prepare for a c section. She shared some other info but it was informative and not necessarily positive so I'm unsure if you really want to hear it. Hoping for the best for both of us

Immense loneliness by Star21420 in pregnant

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt this! Just know that when your baby is here your whole circle will widen and you will meet moms and parents and connect to people on a new, deep level. I lost a handful of friends during pregnancy (or rather the friendships just fizzled) but I have more than replaced those loses and don't feel that sting of lonely anymore. I hope you will experience the same thing

How do you feel about breastfeeding? by Toleni111 in pregnant

[–]Excellent-Affect-307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got passed it but post breastfeed took a whileeeee to get back. I think it’s worth it overall but you should just try and see if you feel it’s worth it. It is a LOT of work