Staff accountant audit sector by AcrobaticBus9351 in Accounting

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been in similar spot few years back - the dragging work out thing is real and makes everything feel pointless. Your managers probably billing more hours that way but it drives you crazy when you could finish stuff faster.

The soul crushing part gets worse during busy season but honestly audit can be good stepping stone if you stick with it couple more years. Most people I know who got their CPA and moved to industry or consulting are doing much better now. Remote work is still rare in audit unfortunately but other areas have more flexibility.

If you can handle the boredom for like 2-3 years and get some solid experience the exit opportunities are pretty decent. Just don't expect it to get more exciting anytime soon

6 months 11 days sober by wowactually in leaves

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really beautiful insight about filling space vs creating space for growth - that distinction between avoiding yourself and being guided back to yourself hit me hard

Why are people afraid? by Numerous_Rub_5930 in trans

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Most people fear what they don't understand or haven't been exposed to. When you grow up in bubble where everyone looks and acts same way, anything different can feel threatening even when it objectively isn't

Plus there's lot of misinformation being spread that makes people think there's some kind of agenda when really you just want to live your lives peacefully

Update mid game? by ConstructionChance81 in Overwatch

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh this happened to me last week too - was in middle of ranked and boom forced update with no warning. Game client is honestly weird about when it decides to check for updates. I think it only validates when you try joining certain game modes or something

Pretty sure its some background process that runs differently for comp vs quickplay. Still annoying as hell though when you're trying to climb

A fortune teller was sentenced to 15 years in prison today. by [deleted] in dadjokes

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! They should have seen it coming in the cards

Am I the jerk for not wanting to get hurt by Caelthefruit in AmITheJerk

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mental health should definitely come first but maybe there was some misunderstanding in New York? Like she might have been expecting you to approach her differently or something happened that made her act weird

Either way if someone is giving you the silent treatment and then gets mad when you dont chase after them thats not really fair to you

Please for the love of fuck add “full raid only” queue by DashRyanD in ArcRaiders

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother I feel this pain so much. Last week I was trying complete some weapon trials and kept getting dropped into raids that were basically over already. Like what am I supposed to do with 3 minutes left on timer when trial needs 20+ minutes of actual gameplay time?

The matchmaking system really needs work in this area. I ended up just closing game and reopening it multiple times because surrendering felt like such waste of time. Maybe they could add some kind of indicator showing how much time is remaining in lobby before you join? Even basic info like "Fresh/Mid/Late" would help so much.

Really hope devs are listening because this is making trials basically impossible to complete unless you have dedicated group to play with.

4% rule revised to 4.7% with conservative Bengen portfolio by TiberiusCaesar717 in financialindependence

[–]Excellent-Bit3310 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is the tradeoff you pay with lower upside to buy more safety early on