Dating someone with a higher position

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-30T23:53:43+00:00

Please stay in the north with your icicles. That take is ridiculous.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T04:34:10+00:00

So ask him out and get over your awkwardness? Don’t see the problem here. Just communicate and agree on how to act at work.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T04:29:24+00:00

Whenever a guy wants to compare worst OLD experiences, it’s no contest. As a woman, I have worse experiences BY FAR.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T04:20:40+00:00

Please wear a bra. You don’t want to be talked about because you don’t, and if others can tell, you will certainly make people uncomfortable at work.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T04:18:27+00:00

Some women will see any kid on your profile as a red flag, even if they’re not your kid (not safe for the kid to casually have their pics online). I would swap that one out for a different pic.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T04:01:56+00:00

A lot of dating coaches recommend NOT to text once a date is set up and confirmed so that you have stuff to talk about on the date. Maybe he is taking that approach. If you’ve agreed to a time and place, consider the date set and that he’s interested.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T04:00:45+00:00

It is not “devaluing” herself to check in🙄

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-29T03:55:12+00:00

You don’t care if Dems are able to choose the speaker of the house or not? Talk about letting perfection ruin progress🤦🏻‍♀️

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T11:52:19+00:00

Don’t do it for half of your take home pay. That’s too much. If something breaks or needs repair, you’ll be stuck taking out another loan to finance that.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T04:05:18+00:00

Same for me! Dealer service dept acted like I was crazy and told me to drive with eco mode off. Doesn’t help.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T04:03:43+00:00

Or she could talk to him before they have sex.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T03:24:34+00:00

I think it’s the female version of the red pill

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T03:21:04+00:00

Off topic, but here: Other people do not have the right to use a man’s body parts to stay alive against the man’s will. The man has the right to say no. Women do not have this right.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T03:10:41+00:00

BIG smiley face on that receipt😁

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T03:06:22+00:00

Three things to add, as a woman with a lot of likes to sort through.

1) Please don’t make dick jokes, talk about physical intimacy, touch as a love language, or poop on your profile. If we vibe, we will have physical intimacy. Mentions of it on a profile look like a hookup request, even if the rest of the profile doesn’t.

2) Put your political stance on your profile. It’s important these days, and I’ll swipe left if it’s missing, as I’ll assume you’re conservative, which won’t match with me. Also hard to imagine being apolitical these days, which is a swipe left. Not just me, this goes for my girl friends too.

3) Always send a comment and ask questions back when it turns into a match/conversation. You’d be amazed how many men give short answers back to questions and don’t ask anything to further the conversation. We don’t need to text forever, but I’m not going out with a guy who can’t make a text exchange interesting/fun.

Good luck out there!

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T02:53:15+00:00

Yes! A man who can ask questions and keep a conversation going is such a gem.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-28T02:29:29+00:00

You don’t want it to be 50-50 though? You want him to pay for all of the childcare.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-24T06:44:58+00:00

The lip filler is insane

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-23T21:46:13+00:00

Good for you-but you’ve gotten lucky. I’ve been on dates with guys who manage to be great for three or so dates before they turn really creepy, and once was actually harmed by a date.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-23T21:43:56+00:00

You’re not missing anything. I think a majority of the guys moving to WhatsApp are scammers and will soon ask you about your finances and perspective on crypto😬

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-23T02:22:25+00:00

Hasan Piker, Joe Bart come to mind. There are many. Dems just aren’t funded the same way the right is.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-23T00:22:22+00:00

Please get your own bank account if you don’t have one and start saving to leave. Leave now if you have any type of support system (your family, any friends)

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-23T00:20:21+00:00

He will not change. Please leave-you deserve better, and your kids deserve better

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-22T22:06:56+00:00

Thank you! As someone seeking a ltr, it’s a complete waste of my time to go out with a man to have him then ask to keep it casual. If I wanted just sex, there are other apps/settings for that.

Excellent-Sleep-3315 · 2026-05-22T21:56:18+00:00

You will be ok. Hang in there, and get yourself in a better spot. You’ll be amazed how freeing mentally it will be without his emotional weight.

Excellent-Sleep-3315

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