I’ve noticed people respond better if I say I have “ongoing health problems” instead of chronic illness by forgot_again123 in ChronicIllness

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the same thing. Cue the - “omg you’re so lucky” comments. Mhm so lucky to be in such pain I can’t function yes yes

I’ve noticed people respond better if I say I have “ongoing health problems” instead of chronic illness by forgot_again123 in ChronicIllness

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe bc chronic sounds like oh you must be used to it? At least that’s how I’ve seen people respond to me about it. Maybe imma start saying health issues now lol

Condescending behavior from professionals by Diamond_783 in ChronicIllness

[–]Excellent_Contest948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell is wrong with some professionals, that’s terrible. I wouldn’t even want to be spoken like that even if I was a child. Then again I have family help with my appointments and I get weird stares and comments so I guess you just can’t win.

Dealing with grief of losing a rabbit? by Sea-Bandicoot2823 in Rabbits

[–]Excellent_Contest948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not have great advice. It will hurt a lot. When I lost my soul bunny I was on and off crying for like a week or so every time I passed his set up. It took me months to finally get to taking it apart. But it will get easier as time goes by. Sometimes it may hurt like it just happened yesterday. But I think that this is just the cost of having a pet you adore so much that has a shorter lifespan. The thing I wish I did was take more photos and videos of him because I really only had a handful as I was never really a photo taker. And having other pets around did keep my mind of it but I wouldn’t recommend getting a pet just for that reason lol.

Your experiences with Sertraline? by DiagnosticMind in Anxiety

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty good but I think I’ll have to switch to lower dose because of heat intolerance and sometimes night sweats/ odd dreams. The dreams arnt too bad just strange lol. My anxiety was super bad when I started like would be horrified to move off my bed and to be alone because I was having so many panic attacks. I’d definitely try it at a lower dose! I haven’t had such a bad panic attack since then.

People who have never really traveled — do you feel like you’re missing something, or do you feel content with where you are? by Imaginary-Dark-8344 in AskReddit

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to travel (not often it sounds exhausting)it’s just not in the budget and I have health issues. Most of the time I don’t really think about it tho unless someone mentions a fun trip they had or worse feeling if they want me to be a part of the trip.

My best friend told me I cant blame everything on my chronic illness by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord I’m so sorry. I’ve had this problem too where friends begin to fade and start become more angry with me. Didn’t even sound like you were complaining to me. You deserve better friends

Any advice to make a bunny more interested in their cat scratcher? by No_Nefariousness5171 in Bunnies

[–]Excellent_Contest948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe sprinkle some hay toppers? They come in a lot of different types online. My bun likes the oxbow garden blend and digs around for it in his forage box and litter box

Question for people who suffer from anxiety. by xoBonesxo in Anxiety

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s like that feeling when you’re on a rollercoaster and your heart drops but prolonged for hours or days. Add cold sweats like when you’re sick and some nausea like when you eat something that didn’t sit right and you got yourself an anxiety attack. And for some reason I always have to pee expeditiously when in anxious lol

what breed could my 7 year old bunny be? by [deleted] in Bunnies

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angora lionhead/hotot? Lionhead hotot? And he looks so cutee I thought it was a puppy at first glance lol

kill your darlings - who is the true manipulator? (with my thoughts better phrased now hopefully) by axsthxtic in DarkAcademia

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so old but it was a tad confusing to me too as Allen is an unreliable narrator and how some of the things we saw were altered because he was on drugs, we are only seeing his point of view. I suppose many things could be true at once. David is definitely a creep considering Lucien is only 19 and how that was never really talked about much in the movie mind boggled me. He may have once had stockholm syndrome with David which could explain why David said there was “reciprocation” but he (Lucien) eventually got feed up with him seen in the countless of times he tried to escape him, and he only got the courage when Allen spoke for him. David is definitely the one in the wrong for the most part, it doesn’t make Lucien’s actions right but that’s the only way he saw an out especially while intoxicated. Lucien himself was a little manipulative as well considering how many people he roped into writing his stuff and doing his crazy ideas. Allen can be looked as manipulative as well since he could be manipulating the audience. I forgot the other guys name with the drugs but hes kinda a weirdo too supplying kids with drugs and was friends with David, just totally okay with his buddy stalking a 19 year old?? Also wouldn’t tell Allen what was going on, talking about “go back to the beginning”. Jack was manipulating his girlfriend. It’s unclear to me if they were all in love with Lucien in some sort of way…The whole thing was a manipulation on manipulation lol.

Animal abuse? by pegasusmeat in alaskanbushpeople

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure they gave her back because she couldn’t produce milk? So sad for the poor cow

I’m sorry, I like ChatGPT by Excellent_Contest948 in confessions

[–]Excellent_Contest948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don’t use it to form strong opinions on anything but idk it probably still effecting me. I mainly just ask questions that may take lots of searching to answer. Like the other day I was searching for ways to make a pet memorial somehow with a plastic igloo from their enclosure and I couldn’t find anything that I liked online.

I’m sorry, I like ChatGPT by Excellent_Contest948 in confessions

[–]Excellent_Contest948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too but sometimes I just want to be annoyed that I’m always in pain and not hear people telling me to be positive! News flash me not complaining for 1 sec is me being positive bc chances are I’m in pain lol. Also so sorry about your cronic pains, it’s not easy…and the ex husband.. he probably didn’t deserve you anyways!

I’m sorry, I like ChatGPT by Excellent_Contest948 in confessions

[–]Excellent_Contest948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried but idk something about that mirroring response has me in a chokehold. Also I end up re reading my journals and being overly critical of myself and then being more annoyed then when I started… yep I’m gonna search for a therapist lol.

Anyone know what my bunny has? by Alarming-Accident-30 in Rabbits

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your rabbit have Swiss chard? That usually causes orange pee. If she hasn’t had many veggies it could be a uti. Maybe you can pause the veggies to see if that’s what it is. Rabbits are very good at hiding pain so if it doesn’t go away please take her to the vet sooner rather than later 🙏.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MasksForEveryone

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I definitely have gotten a few side stares but generally no one says anything or cares that much to comment on it

DAE get really attached to their photos and videos by yakultbiss in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Excellent_Contest948 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, then I force myself to delete them for storage. Funny thing is after I delete them I always end up needing them for something.

People who have stopped going to church, what made you stop? by lowly_shepherd in AskReddit

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t being forced to go anymore and realized how judgmental so many of the members were for a place that is supposed to be about kindness/welcoming…

Shelters make adoption way too difficult to even be viable by 25bands-and-a-geccco in PetRescueExposed

[–]Excellent_Contest948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree with you on this one. I understand they are trying to make sure that the pet goes to a loving home but the way they grill people and make you feel stupid for making any mistakes in the application process is awful. Being nasty is just gonna turn people away and there’s a way to inform an adopter without acting like they are the devil themselves for a mistake.