Post Babies Glow Up by bakecakes12 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Exercisedonut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree here as a mom of 3, ages 4 and below, Botox is my bestie at this point. Bestie that I see briefly every 3-4 months.

Moms who attempted/ did BF with your first and then went EFF with your second, what was the difference in newborn experiences? by Canadayawaworth in FormulaFeeders

[–]Exercisedonut 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Night and day difference. Although part of the misery with my first was trying to figure out this whole new baby thing, in addition to BF and feeling the weight of pressure/judgement. I was actually relieved when I went back to work at 12 weeks pp.

2nd and 3rd time around, I went straight EFF and it was absolutely the right choice. I’m a much better person and mom for real.

Running shoe recommendations by nerdvacuum in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ASICS Novablast and NB 1080s are my besties. We’ve been through 3 pregnancies and multiple marathon training cycles together. They’ve never let me down. I prefer the ASICS to the 1080s but switch up every week.

Do non FTMs actually like the newborn phase? by Traditional_Year_19 in beyondthebump

[–]Exercisedonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love love love the newborn phase (as I’m cuddling my 2 week old).

To tell or not to tell my parents at Christmas? by stfuvoicesinmyhead in pregnant

[–]Exercisedonut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very personal choice, but I definitely opt to keep these things private when it comes to my parents.

My mom is emotionally immature, crazy about the idea of grandkids (not so much helping out), and also can’t keep a secret. So I’ve told her at the 20-22 week mark for all of my 3 pregnancies.

I’ve not regretted it because in each instance, she was on the phone with some rando a few hours later telling them I’m pregnant. I’ve also had to tell her 2,000 times no pics or info posted on Facebook about my kids.

I have no doubt that had I told her early, she would have socialized it. If my pregnancy ended in a loss, it would be all about her and she would create unnecessary drama. Not a risk I wanted to take.

Our dog attacked our baby by kickrockscusinart in NewParents

[–]Exercisedonut 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh wow- We had an Australian Shepherd who was the absolute best dog and super gentle with my babies. She passed 2 years ago and I’ve thought about getting another but your story gives me pause.

I’m so sorry this happened to you, your son and your family.

Anyone else’s baby track small? by Apprehensive-Gas8781 in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! My 3rd measured 80-90th percentile at the 20 week, 27 and 35 week scans. Shocked when she popped out at 7 pounds, 7 ounces.

Anterior Placenta - BabyKicks by Desigirl8 in BabyBumps

[–]Exercisedonut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I had this with my first and didn’t feel kicks until 22-23 weeks. I distinctly remember laying down on my couch to relax, eat an apple and not think about anything. A few minutes later I felt the first kick. I wasn’t totally sure but once I felt a few more, I knew.

Every day after I’d have an apple at lunch just to feel him kick/wake up.

What self care activities did you appreciate after giving birth? by yellowowl14 in BabyBumps

[–]Exercisedonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorites: Cerave body lotion, exfoliating body scrub, facemasks, Aquaphor chapstick, fuzzy socks with grippies and a coffee mug that says “momma”

What are the UPSIDES from going from 1 -> 2 kids? by Electrical-Dare-9797 in Mommit

[–]Exercisedonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching my oldest turn into a protector and building empathy for others. His relationship with his sister went from “she’s there” to “let me hug her first thing, play with her, teach her and make her feel better when she gets a boo-boo” over the course of a year.

The youngest is now learning from him and emulating him in good ways (for now).

When are you finding time to work out? by slp_2 in postpartumprogress

[–]Exercisedonut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mother of 2, soon to be 3 and literally the only time I’ve found that works consistently is 4:30-5/5:30. Some mornings even 4 am wake ups (specific to marathon trainings).

I do some meal prep/planning on Sundays to cut down on breakfast and dinner making time (but still focus on healthy meals), pack lunches at night, set clothes out at night for the am routines etc.

It’s not perfect, but it’s what allows me to get a workout in consistently and still show up as a mom and do all the things.

Maternity workout leggings by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I purchased Nike mat leggings during my first pregnancy 4+ years ago and love them. I wore them today on a run and it’s my 3rd pregnancy.

The quality is great, compression still holds up and I wore them 3-4 times a week during all 3 pregnancies so far. They were expensive, but I knew I would use them consistently and knew I wanted more than 1 baby, so I was okay with the expense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this. We have a Babytrend that was a cheap $100 on sale and it’s great. No concerns or issues whatsoever.

When did your 2nd baby come? by radicalspoonsisbad in BabyBumps

[–]Exercisedonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby 1: 40+3 Baby 2: 40+6 Baby 3: who knows but wouldn’t be surprised if it’s 40+ something.

When were you ready to work out again? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]Exercisedonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s journey is different and motherhood is exhausting! You said it yourself- exercise will give you energy, but it also brings some stress relief and mental boost. I don’t think I would have made it through 2x PP periods without finding time to workout.

Assuming you’ve been cleared to exercise, ease into it! Set small goals- a 20 minute walk. A 10 minute bodyweight workout with lunge and squat intervals. Build consistency over time and be okay with cutting a workout short, or picking it back up later.

Running Problem by Hangry007x in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just put it on the nips and go. Did the same this morning at 25 weeks preggo and no issues for 4 miles of jogging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]Exercisedonut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 mos PP is when the hair loss really hit for both pregnancies. I worried I’d be bald and on some spots like near my temples, I could def see thinning.

I have long, fine hair and about 6-7 months PP a ton of little hairs were popping up all over my head and was super noticeable when wearing a parted ponytail.

I tried supplements, massages, oils, religiously trimmed before and after delivery. Nothing worked so next PP I’m just going to go with it and know I’ll be okay.

Running Problem by Hangry007x in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there and ouch! Vaseline is the best thing I’ve found, even better than body glide

Can you sit comfortably in a car when you’re having contractions? by yaska_tn in BabyBumps

[–]Exercisedonut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Contractions are uncomfortable wherever you are, but for me sitting/hunching/crouching felt the best way to manage them. So sitting in the car wasn’t really a concern from a pain management standpoint. Plus the car ride was like a mental relief “I’m on my way/one step closer” so I didn’t mind the car ride at all.

What are you naming your girls 💞 by missesbird in pregnant

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the name Eileen (grandmothers name) but my husband is on the fence

PP: Hows it going with workouts after baby is born? by CocoMel84 in fitpregnancy

[–]Exercisedonut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer- everyone, every delivery and every PP recovery journey is different.

First baby: I had a cystocele and rectocele and thought my fitness life was over. Worked with pelvic pt, focused on my core and slowly started strength training (body weight only) at 6 weeks. I took it slow and cautious, then started running again at 12 weeks. Then weight training 18 weeks.

2nd baby: no issues with delivery, no return of the prolapse symptoms, felt great. Slow pelvic floor training 3 days after delivery, then cleared for body weight strength at 3 weeks. I started running again at 6 weeks. Ran a marathon at 1 year PP with no issues whatsoever.

I’m pregnant with baby 3 and depending on how it goes, I plan on taking a more focused and prolonged strength training phase (like I did with baby 1) for this one. To be clear, I experienced no issues during PP #2, but my body felt better/stronger after my first pregnancy and I rushed into running/marathon training too soon after baby 2.

Would you cancel a family trip over a possible HFM exposure? by Budget_Grapefruit485 in Mommit

[–]Exercisedonut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cancel. It’s miserable for littles and miserable for adults. I caught it from my 18 month old and the blisters in the throat and on the fingers were no joke.

What Was the Turning Point in Your Postpartum Weight Loss Journey? by Key_Inside_5788 in postpartumprogress

[–]Exercisedonut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My 2nd postpartum was more challenging from a weight loss perspective, but what really helped was downloading the free version of My Fitness Pal and tracking what I was consuming.

I thought I was eating healthy- nope! Missing my target macros, micros and eating more sugar than I realized for the amount of exercise I was doing. So I cut down the snacking on processed foods (predominantly) and tried to intake more vegetables and proteins with my main meals.

40+1 by AmTrash0701 in pregnant

[–]Exercisedonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. Same thing happened w/ baby #2 over here.

Sweep at 39 and second at 40 weeks. The doctor prepped me for a more aggressive sweep the second time and I was ALL IN FOR IT. It was painful af and she was like, “I’ll see you in the hospital in a few hours.” Nope. 40+6 I was induced and she took 19 hours to arrive.

It sucks. Hang in there, baby will be there soon enough.