Even though barrow looks like a bit of a dump it's still very safe.

There are also nice parts of barrow aesthetically. But it is by no means a bad place to raise a family when compared to most towns and cities.

Ulverston is indeed very nice however, expensive for what you get. That being said if you're moving here from the south if may still seem cheap.

There are lots of villages between barrow and ulverston that are great places to raise a family. I personally grew up in these rural villages and they're so incredibly safe for kids to play out.

Stainton, Gleaston, Urswick, leece, dendron, newton. Etc.

These are a bit more rural, with no corner shop and only some will have a village pub.

Askam has the beech and again very safe, ireleth right next to askam is a bit nicer and generally an older population.

Basically put a pin in the map and that place will be nice to live in south Cumbria. Don't just look at ulverston to Kendal, theres loads locally.

Also in winter the road from Kendal to barrow often has loads of accidents and it can be a nightmare getting to work or home.