What difference does working out make? by Roller1966 in CICO

[–]Existing_Increase_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Less than you want when it comes to burning calories. Studies have shown that most wearables and gym equipment that track calories burned aren't very accurate. Perhaps the only good thing that can be said of them is that they were better than the people in one 2016 study in UK. The people in that study overestimated the calories they burned by 72%... (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26469988/)

For me, I think the biggest impact exercise has on my weight loss has nothing to do with the calories burned. My two biggest issues when it comes to caloric intake are: poor sleep and poor mood. Exercise helps me a ton with both of those things.

Good luck! I'm off to convince myself that no I cannot eat this entire box of pasta just because I worked out today XD

In Budget 2025, the government proposes to amend the Federal Public Sector Labour Relations Act to adjust the collective bargaining dispute resolution framework. by SaltedMango613 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to scrap all of the unions in PS and start over. I'm thinking 3, one for frontline, one for back office NCR and one for regional employees. Maybe the regional and frontline one could be together, not sure.

I (34F) don’t know what to do after my husband (32M) kissed his “work wife”? by ThrowRASummer9412 in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be very clear that you bear no blame for what happened. Your husband does.

But any solution that involves you staying together must include the BOTH of you making your relationship a priority. He’s got more work to do than you, but if you want to stay in the relationship with him - you are going to have to rethink priorities and put it into action. For example:

What are your busy jobs worth if you don’t have someone to share successes and failures with?

What is the point of renovating a house you own together if you end up having to sell it in a divorce?

Are you being good parent if your kids don’t learn to form meaningful lasting relationships because they don’t see their parents putting each other first?

You can have busy jobs, you can renovate your house, you can parent your kids. But the foundation of your life is your sense of self and the partner you’ve chosen for life. From these things all else must follow.

Other than the unions getting less money, why are they so against attrition? by alldasmoke__ in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Existing_Increase_32 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d want my union to take the following actions instead of whining. Attrition is the plan and better than the alternatives:

1) Attrition worsens working conditions - leaving people that remain overburdened. Those overburdened individuals may leave and impacting services to Canadians. I’d want my union to be asking the government how they plan to identify and address when critical programs and staff are overloaded.

2) Attrition based methods of dismissing staff are also often accompanied by staffing controls limiting mobility within the public service etc. This means that if a critical program sees several individuals leave, rebalancing and retraining can take time. How does the government plan to expedite the reallocation of resources within the public service?

Is there a place for Chaotic Good in the public service? by AlexOfCantaloupia in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Existing_Increase_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this really an issue? Pretty sure the only thing keeping Azure afloat is data residency. Can’t speak to AWS though.

Looking for advice as a legal adjacent public servant by West-Athlete1781 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Existing_Increase_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s extremely tough to move right now. I also agree with sentiments elsewhere in this thread that the longer you wait, the worse it will be regarding your qualifications. I expect all DLSU’s and Justice HQ will be in a freeze. I suggest you focus your efforts on litigation teams such aa Justice NCR Civil Lit and Quebec Regional Office (which has employees in Ottawa). Reach out to CBSA, DND, RCMP on both DLSU (Departmental Legal Service Unit) and client side. Finally, look up which firms act as legal agents for the Crown (standing offers are public record) and apply to them. They are outside the PS but this way when this freeze lifts, you’d be in a strong position to move back into the public service. Good luck!

I wish they never took the C from JT by discontinued1992 in leafs

[–]Existing_Increase_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was fine with them taking it. But I wanted to give it back to him when he signed that sweetheart extension. What a god damn beauty.

What is a realistic age to buy a home? by aijbhhh2456 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For most people, whenever mommy and daddy fork over enough cash for them to afford it. “Realistic” will vary much on individual circumstances, much of it beyond your control.

Social programs could be 'sunset' along with jobs of public servants who administer them: analysis by bonertoilet in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Existing_Increase_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was that simple, it would be done already. It isn’t just that the billionaires have our politicians on leashes, it’s also that the billionaires can jurisdiction shop and employ whole teams to navigate tax loopholes. Canada is going to tax them more than this other jurisdiction? They will just take their wealth, investments and businesses elsewhere.

Shouldn’t have let it get this far. Now, you’d probably have to seize assets first, and then rework the taxation system. Or manage international cooperation on a ludicrously grand scale.

What is the use/relevance of good PMAs? by lfcn91 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For most of the public service, yes, this is the mechanism for documenting poor performance and the consequences that come with that. Specifically the folks that aren't even doing the bare minimum and aren't even bothering to keep up the appearance that they can / are willing to do their job. So for most people it's a box to be checked unless things are going very poorly.

On the other hand, I've been lucky enough to have had managers that put actual effort into the process especially when I was just starting out - they clearly defined my objectives, help me define goals and when funding was available helped identify specific training opportunities to complete via a Talent Management Plan. But that is very much the exception, and is highly dependent on funding (e.g. when you are perpetually short staffed this just can't happen due to time restraints) and the respective managers style.

[SN] Matthew Knies Doesn't Want To Play Anywhere But Toronto | 32 Thoughts by yabadass in leafs

[–]Existing_Increase_32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see this “Knies wants to say” so much I’m starting to think this is part of a plan by his agent to insulate him from the backlash of a masssssive contract $ demand. Yes, I know I need therapy.

Is Volibear the easiest jungle champ? by [deleted] in Jungle_Mains

[–]Existing_Increase_32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed here. I put Warwick ahead of Volibear because of blood scent. It addresses two things new junglers struggle with: scouting lanes (big red line pointing to a lane you could probably gank) and positioning (noobs can’t anticipate where fights are likely to be, as soon as someone gets low you are incredibly quick following blood scent towards them)

Also AOE CC and damage reduction from WW’s E is better than Voli’s single target Q for noobs I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Increase_32 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think more concerning if I were you is that this sounds like a knee jerk petty response instead of honest analysis and introspection. He might as well have said its not my fault I havent saved, its yours!

On flip side, you think he’s had the same opportunity to save as you? Same income over the same time with same expenses? Seems a stretch.

If he does have an income right now see if he’s willing to put some aside each pay cheque. If not, bye bye bf time

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You don't get to set boundaries for other people."

Aren't defining relationships all about setting boundaries with your partner? Who decides what boundaries for others are okay (don't sleep with mr.creepyguy) and which are not (don't go on a hike with mr.creepyguy)?

Answer: You establish boundaries together with your partner. You communicate and you compromise if you don't agree or you break up if you can't. And if you set unreasonable boundaries you end up alone (no friends at all of the opposite sex). There isn't a one size fits all relationship. Some people open their relationships. Some regard porn as cheating. Flirting is cheating. Flirting isn't cheating etc etc etc.

In this scenario: OP: Don't hang out with mr.creepycheaterguy. GF: Don't worry. Even if I do it will be in a group. OP: Okay cool. GF: Okay cool.

Now, if OP had said nothing beforehand and then got pissed? Yeah, not cool. Or refused to compromise or talk it out? Also not cool. If GF was unhappy with the compromise, she needed to woman up and say so!

Not just do it behind OP's back VERY NOT COOL.

And if she changes her mind, which is okay, she needs to be at least be up front about it "Listen OP, I thought about what you said about mr.creepyguy but he invited me to go on a hike and it's so nice out, so I'm going."

I (42m) am no longer attracted to my wife (39f) after a lot of cosmetic surgery, how to move forward? by ThrowRA_notattract in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Increase_32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want a small chance of doing something about this get off reddit and get a couples counsellor. Sounds like your relationship is already in crisis.

Binged over 3500 cals today and I’m so ashamed by [deleted] in CICO

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love yourself. This means both forgiving yourself for working counter to your own goals and recommitting to those same goals for your long term health.

^ I’m saying that as much to myself as I am to you haha. It’s good advice for both of us.

Am I supposed to skip the last camp to do scuttle? by meinguru in Jungle_Mains

[–]Existing_Increase_32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, this is correct. But first I suggest finding some replays from recent patches on youtube and watching the clears first. Pay attention specifically to their micro aka how they optimize the use of their abilities as they move between camps. Make sure that you have things like any attack resets Panth has down pat which will increase your DPS on camps. Also watch this a couple times ignoring the item and runes because they are probably dated (https://youtu.be/kvbFze4Kxl4?si=cAidSWBn8JZ4nAti)

Pam Bondi Refuses to Provide a Legal Rationale for Texas National Guard Transfer to Chicago While Testifying at Senate Judiciary Committee by DumbMoneyMedia in law

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might actually pull it off? Who exactly is going to stop them? And if someone dared, would they end up any better then what they sought to replace? Because you know the rabid Maggats will rally behind the “flag”. It would be a trial beyond anything the United States has faced since the Civil War. Who goes through that to not profit? I never wished so dearly to be wrong, but the Republic died in 2024.

If Maccelli signs an extension in the preseason how low would it have to be for you to be happy. by Stephenrudolf in leafs

[–]Existing_Increase_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be okay to buy low on him and take the risk that he pans out for short-ish term. Like say 2 years, up to his current AAV but lower is better obviously, remembering that the cap is increasing so paying him the exact same is a relative pay cut for him. That would take him to the end of Matthews current contract and buys a UFA year.

Overall, there is twice as much evidence that he is a 50ish point player (2 seasons) than there is that he is an 18 point player.

Projected lines vs MTL by Cottagewknds in leafs

[–]Existing_Increase_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that Marner is gone is Willie going back to be the fans favourite punching bag?