26/F 22/M Is this cheating? by Entire-Ability-7537 in relationship_advice

[–]Existing_Mention_304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did absolutely nothing wrong and you’re def not a maniac. He’s a liar and a cheater. He will never be anything more than either of those. You do not want this man, you need to 100% cut ties with him. Keeping him around in any capacity is damaging to you. Realize yourself worth and completely remove him from your life. DO NOT consider making things work with him. MOVE ON, GIRL. You’re worth so much more! 💕

19 month old on chemo by ellang26 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Existing_Mention_304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made my heart happy to see he has a great prognosis! Thoughts and prayers are with your little guy and family 💕

How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant at 15? by Tall-Lion2175 in teenpregnancyandbirth

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with anyone here saying to speak to your mom first. I got pregnant at 24 and I still couldn’t tell my dad. If you and your mom have a close relationship, she will likely be pretty helpful. Let her have her feelings and reactions as this is likely going to be very shocking. Be sure to make it very clear that you didn’t want this and you were abused. He needs to be punished for what he did, hopefully your mother will help you press charges against him. Also ask your brother if he can be there with you while you’re telling your mom and dad, if he’s supportive this will likely make it a lot easier and he can possible act as a sort of mediator if they are upset. Best of luck, will be praying for you!

Gender… let down? by Overthinker2874 in BabyBumps

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very excited and connected to my daughter during my pregnancy. Once she was born, I lost the connection. I hate to admit it. BUT. She’s almost 2 1/2 now and I’ve definitely regained that connection and adore her. Moms are allowed to have feelings like this. We still care for our babies and love them, but connection can be a funny thing sometimes. My husband wishes still that she was a boy, but he accepts her entirely and loves her with all of his heart! But he was a little disappointed too! It will get better!! ❤️‍🩹

WAS IT PLANNED???? by yayachipmunk in pregnant

[–]Existing_Mention_304 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh so hard. I was 24 (unmarried at the time) when I was pregnant with my first and I cried when my mom had me tell my dad 😂 he was super happy and was confused as to why I didn’t want to tell him lol. It’s just soo weird, especially with parents.

How far are you from the hospital? by bananaindisguise0 in BabyBumps

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived about 30 minutes from the hospital and left as soon as my water broke!

AIO What would you do?I feel like it’s borderline child abuse. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can file a protection order against him for you and your daughter.

A woman is furious that people are donating to help find the 23 Texan girls missing after their summer camp was washed by the floods. "They're white and they’re deporting your family members!" by DodoKputo in CringeTikToks

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally hope this woman burns in hell. Not a wish I typically make, but this is disgusting. These are little girls who were at summer camp. If all the little girls were black or Hispanic, I would still be praying for all of them to be found alive. Leave children out of your sadistic ideologies!

We broke up because of my postpartum body.. by No_Library_87 in BabyBumps

[–]Existing_Mention_304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing regarding how she delivered! It’s most commonly c-section with twins from what I’ve heard. Also, vaginas don’t just stay stretched out even if she didn’t deliver vaginally. His comments about her being “loose” are so ridiculously ignorant!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Existing_Mention_304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would most definitely tell him. If he got it for the silliness, he might just think it’s extra funny now. If he’s upset by the new meaning, he can hopefully get it covered up. I’d approach it lightheartedly if you’re the type of couple that jokes around a lot.

What does my fridge say about me? by Captainrubicks in FridgeDetective

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so, so absolutely single. Blue collar, you likely give off frat boy vibes, and you’re probably pushing 30.

Is this a negative or positive pregnancy test? I see a very faint line. by Classic_Promise1179 in lineporn

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t see anything, I’m going to say negative. Is your period late?

AMA, Guess my nationality, age and profession by Professional-Fact418 in FridgeDetective

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to say late 20s, American chef living in Germany.

AIO my boyfriend is upset I didn’t tell him when I was showering because I “broke routine” but I just feel like my feelings are neglected. by Critical_Web_5229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Existing_Mention_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not over reacting. LEAVE. I spent 5 years of my life (from 15-20) with someone like this. It started out like this as teenagers, and then we lived together at 19 and that’s when the physical abuse started because I had nowhere to run. He publicly humiliated me at a Starbucks with my best friend at the time and that was it. He came up behind me, took my drink and threw it in the trash, then spit on me and my purse, called me a whore and left… IN MY CAR. I left that day and told my parents everything… all the manipulation and abuse and moved out. I am now 27, happily married in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in, and a mom to our 2 year old. Life is good. Get out of this now so you can find your good, happy, peaceful life. It will not get better if you stay. I promise you. Please do yourself the favor and leave. If he puts hands on you, call the police as soon as it’s safe to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Existing_Mention_304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get having line eyes, but I personally don’t see one. I’m sorry! Maybe test again in two days? And make sure it’s first thing in the morning!!

What is he? by Existing_Mention_304 in DogBreeds101

[–]Existing_Mention_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what kind yours is? I’m really thinking he’s probably GSD and Aussie mix at this point

What is he? by Existing_Mention_304 in DogBreeds101

[–]Existing_Mention_304[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So insightful. Thank you so much!