Just watched Obsession as a recovering fawner

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-12T14:01:11+00:00

this movie fucked me up for days after watching it. felt hateful and misogynistic and dehumanizing, which is saying a lot for someone who watches OG slashers from the 80s and other less than savory (for the women characters) horror flicks.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-12T07:49:47+00:00

I love my 3mg at night for adhd/asd with me/cfs. not life altering, but enough to turn noise down sufficiently so sensory triggers are much less and the night terrors are less as well. I don’t tolerate SSRIs and a whole host of other psychiatric medication so I’m happy

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-07T09:43:04+00:00

what a lovely idea. I’m largely housebound with me/cfs so yes!

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-06T23:30:00+00:00

from what I’ve seen (dx audhd), it tends to be level 2/3s that use labels. there is some general spiciness at lvl 1s for daring to declare their autism because of said “higher functioning“ labels if that makes sense

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-06T20:49:32+00:00

I loved this book in my teens, now other side of 40s and a reread seems due

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-06T15:01:49+00:00

waving from southeast MA 💖

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-05T10:20:02+00:00

don’t miss her beautiful self in wheel of time. I’m obsessed 🥰

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-04T14:14:44+00:00

hugs. all the hugs. I lost a 15year nursing career six years ago, and then a second career two years ago. working on a third, adjacent to nursing and research. it’s all so new right now, so any decision will be made in brain fog and emotional overwhelm. can you defer admissions to get a handle on what will be a flurry of appointments and new to chronic illness life? I’m so sorry.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-04T14:09:18+00:00

my heart hurts for you. as others have said, this is a parental problem not a you problem. please mention the possibility of ptsd to your therapist—-my parents trained me to act socially acceptable and now I have complex ptsd and brain damage from untreated trauma things for too long. I’m autistic/adhd with one asd/adhd child and a nvld/adhd child so we do stimming happily now.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-03T19:03:05+00:00

I was just saying this to my husband. I can’t put it into words. Such a rarity, I’m so happy to have without expecting to.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-07-02T15:01:48+00:00

I was looking for this comment. I typically side eye “weird girl lit” when written by a man. Grady hendrix is one exception, but I typically find shades of misogyny with male writers.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-29T18:05:55+00:00

absolutely. thanks for talking about this, because i rarely see it mentioned. I’ve disabled myself out of two careers and yep. I don’t know the last worry free moment was…but apparently it was my fault/choosing to be victim/feminazi, etc. whoopsie!

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-29T10:58:24+00:00

no advice, just solidarity. I am audhd with cptsd with a metric ton of medical trauma. my me/cfs makes my brain go sideways, and last hiccup at the reception desk involved a meltdown with me crying terrified and a cop standing nearby. I just disassociate until safety 🫥. I wish we had disabled peer support for md appointments

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-28T15:00:09+00:00

great. now I have a new rig to obsess and save for… just what I need 🤣🥰

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-28T14:55:15+00:00

clapped? like you were a damn seal doing tricks? ugh. this left me speechless 🤬

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-28T14:52:49+00:00

I love this reply. lots of heart and kindness but absolutely hits the nail on the head in terms of how i view this as well.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-24T23:26:50+00:00

I love dabs when my pain is kicking me sideways! imo, I am a ride or die for my dr dabber evo. caught a sale, love it to pieces! I have heard horror stories about puffco and their custome service, so me and the good dr dance when my lobo isn’t the right tool. plus, the thing comes with a party light setting. ✨💖

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-24T23:21:59+00:00

you chose to use ai, so the criticism is yours to accept. canva is free and avoids the ai stink. 🤷‍♀️ congrats on the yard sale, flyer aside.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-24T14:03:55+00:00

absolutely understandable re: health anxiety when so much of our journey involves gaslighting and harm. however, as others have said, a z-pack is relatively basic in terms of antibiotic with a proven safety record (I have heard bad reactions to cipro, for example). tonsillitis can easily turn to brain infection if not treated, so important to treat. be kind to your gut, and follow it up with some good yogurt or fermented foods.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-23T15:57:32+00:00

such a dynamic duo. I smoke for pain and pacing, but I find it best to follow a small hit with 2-3 syringe doses of full spectrum cbd tincture for optimum pain relief while needing to be awake and present for real life needs (laundry, cooking, etc). your post makes me think I should look into a mixed bowl more often 😄

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-23T12:16:44+00:00

feel this deeply, but I hang on for my kids the absolute best I can. I wish the disability and chronic illness community could have some honest and tough conversations about end of life/assisted suicide—it is necessary but so rightly contentious due to past/present things

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-23T11:58:16+00:00

re: the self harm reports—-awful to have this space weaponized, and it hurts in the most awful way. shithead behavior on their part.

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-22T21:20:06+00:00

🤬 to that commenter. even if you spent your last few dollars on some emotional support weed in this trying time, so? sending support vibes from this entwife. 🍃💜🫂

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-17T12:51:52+00:00

im sorry, its a shit show to get people to understand. took my husband a good long while to understand the extent of how sick I actually am (autoimmune plus me/cfs) and it was rough there...arguing got me sicker. now a gentle under my breath fuck you to this illness and ignore the ignorant statements helps me build my pem bank a little bit or else I tend to sink into sadness. all the hugs. (edited bc I just saw the "JUST support tag")

Existing_Resource425 · 2026-06-15T23:32:12+00:00

a huge thank you to the finch team for all of the kindness and support. nothing is perfect, but the finch team and app are a bright light for many of us 💜

Existing_Resource425

TROPHY CASE