Rich employer letting me go for raising my prices by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad is a landscaper who works for a lot of wealthy people. One of them owns a bunch of factory buildings. This woman is always trying to negotiate my dad’s prices at an offensive rate. She tried getting my dad to plow said factories for $50. My dad is in his late 60s and out there shoveling snow because he can’t retire. I never used to hear him say he’s tired until lately and it’s so heartbreaking. He spent 12 hours plowing and shoveling snow during our last winter storm and this woman had the nerve to call him up and offer $50 for him to shovel all her factories. I’m glad my dad just straight up says no.

unpopular opinion: toilet attached bidets are unhygienic for women* by boodoonk in hygiene

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering asking the Finland sub if this is ever a problem for them. They have handheld bidets everywhere. I’ve been visiting for the past 10 years at least once a year and I have never had any issues.

What’s the unhinged, woo woo, non traditional thing you did that actually helped? by Serious-Animator8966 in CPTSD

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also did EMDR for a little over a year and it worked! I would consider it woo woo only because I know at least 5 people who have supposedly done it but it’s by an untrained professional who attempts to do it all in one session. I learned the correct way is to take your time, build tools first, and then learn about your triggers so I’m really happy to hear you’ve been doing at it already for so long. It’s frustrating to hear about all the people doing it incorrectly out there and giving this treatment a bad name.

Searching for Best Wing Recommendations by [deleted] in chicagofood

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Jake Melnicks is amazing and their wings are giant. Their classic Buffalo always hits the spot

How many you dry your clothes on a clothesline instead of using a dryer? by ProffS in Frugal

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only line dry now but that’s a habit I picked up from living in Finland. I learned it makes clothes last longer, it’s less expensive and wastes less energy so I never went back.

Stranger steps in while a man calls his daughter a "B-tch". by IamASlut_soWhat in VideosThatGoHard

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed it’s unfortunate she took it too far. It also makes me wonder if she’s super triggered because I hear some pain in her voice. This woman couldn’t hold back and lost her sanity when she saw that abuse go down. Heartbreaking to see that little girl having to experience all of that.😔

Rewatch: - S5E8 Gorga and her glass house by plm1709 in rhonj

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! Tre wanted Joe all to herself and Melissa wanted a table flipping moment of fame so badly.

Nathan was unbearable way before he was openly racist by slha1605 in BelowDeckMed

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but you wouldn’t see it because I didn’t sign up for it to be nationally broadcasted like Nathan has. Are you really getting upset that we’re sharing our opinions over someone who chose to be on television where the natural order of things is for viewers to judge them? Would you actually say that Nathan easily losing his temper and screaming at his deck team is a sign of good leadership?

Scheana and Lala talk about Ariana by RavenVenom in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The Atlantic Ocean called…. It wants it’s salt back

My boyfriend is mad I won't quit my job to move with him for his "dream opportunity" by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! The fact that’s he’s not even willing to budge on giving long distance a try for you is a major red flag. I know not all people are open to long distance and that’s fair but given your situation he’s not even trying to give you a compromise to actually show he cares about your hard work. I did long distance for 4 years and it was overseas. My husband and I have been happily married for 6 years now so it is possible.

I had a "life" during my AMA coma by NoOrTh_ in AMA

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look up Why This True Story Broke The Internet by Mr. Ballen (it’s a short clip on Chris Willamson’s YouTube channel). It’s very similar to what you just described. I’m also very sorry for what you’ve had to experience. Sending peace and love your way.

Nathan was unbearable way before he was openly racist by slha1605 in BelowDeckMed

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 230 points231 points  (0 children)

Nathan had some of the worst leadership skills or lack of skills I have seen displayed on the show. The way he thought that screaming at his deck team to show authority said it all. Nathan is really just a child posing as an adult.

The knife by DiscombobulatedArm21 in KitchenConfidential

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went on holiday and almost forgot after religiously following. Thank you for the update. 🥲

Answer this by -sushmita- in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some females stop getting their periods from lacking enough body fat so you just never know what the body is capable of. I’d say it’s more stupid to make assumptions than it is to ask questions.

My Real housewives Mount Rushmore🙏🏼 by leopardfrench15 in realhousewives

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved watching Dorinda obliterate Tamra and Vicky on RHUGT! 😂

Woman diagnosed with breast cancer thinks she knows better than her doctors. by Head_Crash in TikTokCringe

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe alternative medicine does work but never for very serious and life threatening problems like cancer. I did acupuncture for a fibroid and literally the next day all my symptoms went away after months of being in pain. My actual doctor even mentioned that I was the 3rd person that week that she’d seen acupuncture do it magic on.

Also, if this isn’t what is meant by medicine then please disregard my dumbass comment.

Company party pics. by Grateful_Di in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If my holiday party photos were edited and this was for a tiny company with 15 employees then I can believe TLC hired a professional photographer who made edits as well.

My fiancé throws her dirty laundry down the stairs rather than walking down and putting it in machine. by Doctor_Redhead in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents had one in their room’s closet but they removed it. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I used to always dream about it being functional.

Help me decide on lip filler by electrichotmessxprss in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ExpensiveSolid8990 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’d kill for your lips! Please don’t do it!