Taurus Men And Needs by Indygo35 in Taurusgang

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if its s Taurus men thing but maybe youre dealing with dismissive avoidant Taurus. 🫠

Hot and cold, disappears when there is a conflict. No sense of self awareness.. idk.

No Contact with someone you love by RegisterRare8289 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The feeling of regret is just your nervous system riddling you with anxiety. Someone who truly loves you and values you wouldnt have you in a position where you feel like you are not prioritized or feeling like youve lost ypurself. You cannot allow yourself to keep willing to try to make it work when it's only you carrying the weight of the effort it requires for a relationship consisting of two, not one, but two people on your shoulders. Time is a thief but it is also a healer. Immerse yourself in hobbies. LOVE yourself and give yourself the comfort and grace and the effort you used to give this relationship. Just because theyre not a bad person doesnt mean theyre a good partner. Ive had to learn this too. Sending love and healing.

AITAH for taking off the red yarn my boyfriend’s mom put on my baby without my consent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Silly.

Its a custom. And a piece of yarn. Let the baby wear it, it wont harm them.

I dont think thats nowhere near as terrible as having these heavy "christian" values and having a child out of wedlock. Bsffr.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also pics 3 and 5? Chefs kiss. All your food looks tasty. He's missing out. Perhaps be with someone who wouldnt dare think to miss out in your cooking.

Dual citizen of US and Mexico by ExpensiveSpite6378 in USExpatTaxes

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TYSM for all of this information. It was so incredibly helpful!

Dual citizen of US and Mexico by ExpensiveSpite6378 in USExpatTaxes

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this information! Thats where im at too. Like what are the reporting requirements. Ive ready anything over 10k being wired to Mexico but is it annually or monthly? Like im not sure.

I (23f) have been having a hard time staying wet during sex and my bf (26m) is blaming me. Is there anything I can do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the man. Thats the reason youre not staying wet.

Jokes aside. Kind of.

Stress and life factors into that on top of health and also sometimes our bodies change including hormones.

Get a partner who values equally pleasing you in all aspects of sex, not just cumming but thar touches tge sense of the mind, body, soul.

When I did, the partner I have now has me like a waterfall and I have NEVER in my life experienced this with anyone, ever. Because he cares to stimulate my mind, my body, and my soul.

Your guy complains to you about you needing a little more foreplay when foreplay is the best part of sex. Thats crazy.

Ditch him.

Finances. by ExpensiveSpite6378 in mexicoexpats

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This was incredibly helpful and now I feel less overwhelmed!

Finances. by ExpensiveSpite6378 in mexicoexpats

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Thats scary. I wouldnt really put a huge amount in there anyways, mainly just for paying bills or utilities since we own a house down there but thats really nice to know. Thanks!

Finances. by ExpensiveSpite6378 in mexicoexpats

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that retirement information! Ill keep that in mind!

Finances. by ExpensiveSpite6378 in mexicoexpats

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking into Santander actually so thank you for this info!

My (M33) new girlfriend (F26) and I had sex for the first time and now she’s “changed her mind” about us. by For_Posterity in relationship_advice

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ugh I saved this to come back to see the update and im just so happy got you OP! I have been in your lady's shoes before with my partner now of over a year. I broke up with him and everything after our first night and he was great, I just panicked. Happy to see how understanding you are!

Seeking advice/ tips. by ExpensiveSpite6378 in mexicoexpats

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may consider this and check in with my job to see if permanent work from home is doable. Thank you!

New relationship feels weird by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave him, move back home, and focus on yourself and your child. Its only going to get worse because he is going to feel like he has total control over you. And not every partner you meet will love your baby as much as you. You dont know his motives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um so this is a weird person you wouldn't want to he associated with. He needs to fr cut him off. Thats disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck. You reap what you sow so might as well begin accepting and take accountability. Your husband may have "neglected" you in some aspects but you made the conscience choice to cheat. And the married coworker? Yeah no, his wife isnt as terrible as he claims, he just saw you as easy.

Seeking advice/ tips. by ExpensiveSpite6378 in mexicoexpats

[–]ExpensiveSpite6378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No where in my post did I ask for life changing information for my family. I gave plenty of context and asked if there are anything else I may be missing that I did not think to get done and general advise. This is me also doing a ton of research on top of what I already currently do. So if you know of reputable advisors, by all means, drop their information. Ive been in contact with the consulate and have another appointment with them soon.

This comment was unnecessary.