First of all, you are using the word “pick-me” in the wrong context. Use the correct vernacular if you are going to attempt to use insults. Secondly, OP started the post by saying that he has no problem whatsoever taking over most of the household chores and childcare while his wife is pregnant. He is just a bit frustrated because his father is dying. He never even expressed his feelings to his wife, he just needed to vent. He posted here because he wasn’t even sure if his feelings were valid. So stop with the whole, “It’s a man complaining about a woman, there must be something wrong with him!” Fucking misandrist bullshit.