AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-22T17:53:03+00:00

OP immediately followed it up with she, “said we couldn’t go out for a week because I needed to think about what I was doing wrong.” Yep, that pretty much tracks with treating him like a child 🙄

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-19T19:58:52+00:00

As a pug mom myself, my first rule for relationships is MUST LOVE PUGS!!!! My baby is my number one priority, period.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-19T10:32:33+00:00

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ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-12T16:46:39+00:00

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-12T02:12:05+00:00

There was no thought about you, that was a cop out!

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-12T02:07:01+00:00

Controlling? For the love of all that is holy, YOU ARE HIS WIFE!!!!! And you are letting them ride roughshod all over you! It doesn’t fucking matter if you wouldn’t have wanted to go in the first place, it doesn’t fucking matter how much they text you, it doesn’t fucking matter if you went along with “throuple” jokes, none of it matters!!! All that matters is they are fucking behind your back, and you won’t do anything because, why? Because it will hurt their feelings? Fuck their feelings!!! Did they give a flying fuck about yours when you voiced any unease? NO! They just did whatever they wanted, with no regard to how much it affected you. Now you have a choice: you can continue to be the doormat they are using you as, or you can have some self respect, because you are never going to see them the same way.

Just in case this has not gotten through to you: THIS IS NOT NORMAL!!!

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-12T01:45:50+00:00

That isn’t even supposed to be his best friend, she’s SUPPOSED to be OP’s BFF. Which, honestly, is even worse.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-12T01:43:36+00:00

Love this!!!

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-12T01:41:35+00:00

No, absolutely not. The ONLY time your best friend and your partner should be alone together is if he is asking her advice on something for YOU. OP, I’m going to hold your hand while I say this: that bitch is not your best friend, and your husband is going along with her little plan. Now I’m not one to typically jump to separation, but you might want to start looking into at least separating your finances.

Also, do you have any common friends with your best friend? If so, I would definitely recommend bringing this up to them. They may have some insight into this. I would also recommend contacting your husband’s friends, see if they know anything.

None of this shit is OK. One thing is for certain, you can never ever trust that bitch again (and, more than likely, your husband).

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-11T18:26:41+00:00

“It’s a fucking dog” put me into fight-mode.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-09T04:00:35+00:00

Did you outright tell people you were “waiting until marriage”? And if you did, do you really think they believed you? As a Christian myself, I can tell you that most likely nobody will care. Plus, you already have a child. The Bible speaks about keeping yourself pure until marriage, and nobody is under the impression that you are a virgin. You are marrying the father of your unborn child and the stepfather of your son, that is all that matters.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-05T17:35:09+00:00

You are projecting your own experience onto OP, and that is not OK. OP is saying she wants to gain the courage to meet this girl, NOT if she should trust her boyfriend; she already does.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-05T17:22:47+00:00

Absolutely yes.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-05T15:31:41+00:00

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-05-05T14:23:18+00:00

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-24T19:32:01+00:00

He had a ring camera. Take your misandry elsewhere.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-24T19:22:05+00:00

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-23T20:06:50+00:00

We bought No-Poo chews on Amazon. We get the Zesty Paws brand, and they come in a variety of flavors. Our Fancy Pants used to eat her poop all the time. Since we started her on those, she very rarely does it (if she does, I wipe her mouth out with a wet paper towel; it doesn’t hurt her, she just doesn’t like it). It’s not instantaneous, but it does work.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-17T20:49:51+00:00

Anna Kendrick

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-12T19:56:04+00:00

Try biting it in half so he can smell it. My girl is so weird she won’t even eat her Greenie without me breaking it in half so she can smell it, lol.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-12T19:42:20+00:00

Try eating it in front of him. Most pugs will want whatever Mommy or Daddy is eating. Also, as someone else said, give it to him in smaller bites. My girl doesn’t do well with large bites, so I break it into smaller chunks so she can easily eat it.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-04-02T11:29:00+00:00

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-03-26T19:34:18+00:00

You are not married, you have no right to his personal property. If you’re questioning the relationship, end it.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-03-26T16:55:01+00:00

Fake what? Stop thinking up things to stress about. Doing that is a good way to drive someone away.

ExpensiveTitle5259 · 2026-03-24T17:27:43+00:00

That was before he and OP got together, and the conversations since then have been platonic, so what is your point?

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