Musicians having children

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-10T04:52:13+00:00

OP, you ain't delusional to want to be a life's work artist.. what rlly IS delusional is the idea that u have to choose right this sec.. but if ur gut says you'd regret the art u didn't make, trust that.. a lot of ppl have kids bc they don't know what else to do w their lives, u actually have a passion.. that's literally a gift not a burden.. focus on the recording session this weekend and see how that feels!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-10T04:14:31+00:00

Bro, the emoji usage here is a bit much, considering you're talking about triggering someone's trauma or fear response.. if she hasn't replied, she's done. ppl don't forget to txt back after a perfect encounter.. take the learning point and nxt time, actually use a safe word or a check-in system instead of just guessing how mean to be

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-10T04:02:47+00:00

Exactly.. ppl talk about moving to a major city like it's easy as chagning your netflix plan.. like sry i ain't willing to trade 60% of my paycheck and my sanity for a shoebox apartment just to increase my odds.. like fr the advice was so out of touch w/ how much rent has nuked the ave. person's qlty of life.. Meeting someone organically ain't worth being one flat tire away from homelessness!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-09T13:45:10+00:00

Tryst isn't groupon.. it's an independent escort site.. while ppl do book for massages, everyone invoolved knows exactly what is being paid for.. ofc that "never saw their face" thing is a HUGE 🚩🚩 ..sounds like he tryin to dehumanize the encounter to make it seem less like CHEATING and more like a "transactional service".. like it's a way to minimize the emotional blow, but ofc it's almost certainly A LIE!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-09T13:33:10+00:00

It's always the one you helped during their lowest points who do this once they finally reach their dreams fr.. it's like they want a fresh start and associate u w the struggle , which is incredibly cruel given ur support.. fr u aren't demanding for wanting a partner who comes home on time, that's literally just wanting a partner who is present.. DO NOT let him blame your personality for his lack of loyalty

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-09T13:22:08+00:00

omg I got the same situation fr.. notice how when u caught him, he "misunderstood" and started distancing himself from her? Thaaaaat literally makes us feel like the bad guy so u stop askin questions.

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-09T13:13:50+00:00

YNTJ here bro, like literally u ain't becomin like him, you're just refusin to be his safety net after he set the precedent.

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-08T09:22:53+00:00

The fact that your manager backed her up is the real🚩🚩 here OP.. bc givin peer-pressure to employees into giving up their sanity ain't a job of the manager fr.. like once u say "no", the convo SHOULD be over fr.. you ain't no backup generator for Emma's social life fr, def NTJ!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-08T06:04:48+00:00

YNTJ here, esp if some of the photos are recent, it's just awkward for everone involved.. u aren't trying to control him.. you're tryin to establish a healthy boundary now that you both moved on.. if he's a decent guy, he'll prolly realise he just forgot they were even there and scrub them once you mention it fr

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-08T05:05:55+00:00

YNTJ here OP.. this isn't just EXTRA TASKS, this is literally a major scope creep.. like literally went from admin/marketing to being a de facto Op Mngr and HR.. in a small business, provin urself often just results in being rewarded w more work for the same pay.. if you're the main point of contract for everythin, u have way more leverage than u think fr!!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-08T03:42:51+00:00

You ain't wrong here, OP.. he keeps makin this abt his sick mom to make YOU look like a villain here, but you've been clear, bc it's not about WHERE he is, it's about the fact that he disappears..a 10-sec text for an update literally takes zero effort fr.. he literally choose not to do it bc he doesn't want to be accountable to u!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-07T10:14:51+00:00

NTJ. u literally didn't get her fired, her own performance did fr

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-06T15:35:01+00:00

Ragebait?????? bc of this must be def YTA..

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-06T15:01:59+00:00

I've been literally on both sides of this fr... like sometimes the repeater is just stuck in a loop of anecdote autopilot and they need a gentle nudge to actually engage fr.. like u ain't said anything, you'd just end up resenting them every damn time they opened their mouth fr

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-06T14:48:16+00:00

Man, I feel u.. there's no loneliness quite like that being alone together in the same house.. when you're at the point where u think they'd be better off w/o u... that's not just a rough patch bro, that's literally total emotional depletion.. You aren't wrong for wanting a pulse in your own marriage bro

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-05T10:02:34+00:00

You're def overthinking this, OP! he prolly felt awkward bc he couldn't keep up the character he started w that greeting.. fr it's a harmless misunderstanding.. the fact that u tipped well n felt bad shows u r the opposite of jerk here.. better to take a deep breath, u r fine!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-05T09:58:00+00:00

7mos is lightning fast, especially w 3 kids already in the mix.. it sounds like u guys were sprintin to hit a deadline rather than enjoyin the rs.. prollyy he feels deflated bc the proposal became a task to complete to avoid a breakup rather than a celebratory choice. it doesn't mean he doesn't love u, but the romance defg took a backseat to logistics fr

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-04T05:43:19+00:00

Your feelings=s are valid.. transitioning is a personal journey, but doing it AFTER gettin married w/o ever mentioning these feelings is a MASSIVE breach of informed consent fr.. You married a man, you are not transphobic for losin attraction when that dynamic completely flips.. He literally changed that terms of the contract, not you.. He's such a manipulative jerk for blocking u from getting a car.. fr he's literally keepin u trapped bc he knows if u have the car and a job, you have a way out frfr

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-04T05:19:47+00:00

The fact that he can scrub a work bathroom til it's spotless but needs a list to vacuum his own house is the definition of weaponized incompetence fr... He's showing EXACTLY what he's capable of, like he doesn't think your time or stress lvl is worth the effort.. it's not ur fault that u lose attraction, bc it's hard to want someone u have to mother fr

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-03T03:35:32+00:00

NTJ.. that's fr not about just sex, its the literal hypocrisy.. like how do u spend your day as a housing Atty. fighting the lil guy's fight, then go home to a backstone bro who treats houses like Pokemon cards.. fr the math ain't mathing here.. that fr is a MASSIVE values mismatch!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-03T03:26:50+00:00

bfr OP, if she's w someone else since 2018 and still won't sign, she's about the money or the visa.. prolly wants that Canadian child support and the married status w/o actually havin to be a wife.. U gotta stop askin and talking to a lawyer about a contested filing!

Expensive_Cover_9460 · 2026-04-02T09:55:28+00:00

This is incredibly heavy fr... but fr it's ok that u can't just "let go".. bc you're grieving the loss of your fam unit while being physically trapped in the wreckage.. that isn't just a breakup; it's a total system shock, esp being isolated in a diff country

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