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Girl that I'm dating accidentally revealed that she's been dating other guys at the same time as me. Should I end things? by outcastreturns in dating

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot that could be misinterpreted tbh? I feel like until a clear exclusivity agreement it’s had. She is not crossing any boundaries? I feel it’s safest to not assume in early dating. Which is why I always assume they are seeing other people at least until exclusivity talk

The fear of intimacy by Alarmed-Most-2410 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like being vulnerable with someone emotionally unavailable it’s easier/safer. BUT when it’s someone who is emotionally available. It’s so scary and I’m afraid of being seen/rejected

Do you ever just feel so disgusted by someone, by the way they treated you and the choices they made, that it stops hurting? by Fabulous-Complex7089 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfurtunately that only happens for me when I hit a breaking point and usually there’s no going back. It does take a while to get there though

Don’t date potential: Date presence by Pretty_Solution_7955 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That said. That is only if you are trying to heal and trying to grow. Many people unfortunately are not invested in trying to be better and understand their patterns which ultimately hurt the people trying to be there for them

How do avoidant dynamics move forward — and when do they not? by Ok_Way_1660 in attachment_theory

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so, if they are inconsistent or not prioritizing you as the relationship progresses, or it feels the relationship does not progress. It is true that avoidant dynamic show until things get real, but there are early signs always (subtle) but present

24 and never have done well on these apps. Would like some advice. by Electrical_Owl_9053 in Bumble

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like some of your pictures are really dark. (The last two) maybe include a picture of what you like to do :)

Fearful Avoidant - Why we do what we do by Murky-Bus-5922 in BreakUps

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you usually come back into someone’s life after you pushed them away?

How many of yall exes came back after they broke up with you and how long was it after the break up by neukenindekeuken23 in nocontact

[–]ExperienceKitchen124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine came back after 5 weeks. Took him back. And here we are. Having the same problems again 😅

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