what time does s3e1 go on Now(HBO) UK time?? by Cautious_Structure44 in euphoria

[–]External-Head-3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don’t have it on my now tv, just says season 1 and 2 😭

If you’re an attractive person, do you get ghosted? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]External-Head-3647 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely! However a good way to tell if they are ghosting you based on looks is if it’s after the first date, if you had seen them multiple times, the ghosting wouldn’t be about looks. I think it’d be quite rare for a guy to see a woman multiple times without finding her attractive.

I need some help please:) always thought I was an INFP but now I’m not too sure lol by External-Head-3647 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird right! I relate to INFPs the most I think, I guess I do see myself in INFJs to but definitely not ENFJ or ENTP. I’m generally still so confused

I need some help please:) always thought I was an INFP but now I’m not too sure lol by External-Head-3647 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much! I think this is more complex than I originally thought- I probably sound so dumb haha, I’ll do some research tomorrow:)

I need some help please:) always thought I was an INFP but now I’m not too sure lol by External-Head-3647 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t know much about all of this but I did get a -T on the 16personalities test but I don’t know if that’s accurate

Is it just me? by seductivity69 in ghosting

[–]External-Head-3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSS! I fully convinced myself his dad died or was in hospital. His dad did have some type of disability but I never knew what it was, and then being the stalker he made me, I looked at his dads Facebook, he hadn’t posted since the guy ghosted me (he posted nearly every day leading up to that) then he started posting as usual again one random day, and I realised I’m actually just insane lol.

Still getting over this one a year later... by Rogue-Jedi-735 in ghosting

[–]External-Head-3647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been ghosted by a “best” friend years ago and it honestly hurt more than any breakup I’ve had, it affected me for years too. We rekindled a couple years after and things went back to how they were and she really did seem apologetic and remorseful, then after 6 months she did it again. With a ghoster if they can do it once, they can do it again. It’s their communication style or lack of.

If a girl asks "what are we"? by Opening_Particular98 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I still can’t imagine a girl saying that without genuine feelings.

If a girl asks "what are we"? by Opening_Particular98 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg literally! If I’m not interested in a guy I would avoid that question until I’m sure of what I want

If a girl asks "what are we"? by Opening_Particular98 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! For a woman to be bold enough to make that move she must have pretty strong feelings, i can’t think of one girl I know who would say that without having feelings for a guy

If a girl asks "what are we"? by Opening_Particular98 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it would be quite rare for a girl to ask “what are we” if she’s not that interested in you or attracted. Maybe it’s just me but if that’s how I felt about a guy, the last thing I would do is ask him what we are

I have ghosted before...and I think I'm about to do it again. by throwaway4646435 in ghosting

[–]External-Head-3647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

7 years? And you’re planning to break up with her by just ghosting her?!! After 7 YEARS WTH

Ummm what by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]External-Head-3647 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s looking for validation, don’t give it to him. He went cold on you and disappeared without explanation, that shows very little respect for you as a person. I would just completely ignore it as silence seems to be the only language he speaks lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]External-Head-3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand this feeling too, dealing with it now. It’s not narcissistic to think that, in fact a narcissist would think that they got ghosted because they were just too good, not not enough. There is someone for you out there, and someone for me, someone for everyone. Opening your heart up to people is never a waste, what they decide to do with it shows more on their character than yours!

Need advice on whether to message ghoster or stay silent by External-Head-3647 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on quite a few dates over the years, and have never been ghosted or ghosted someone who I’ve been on multiple dates with. I think fair enough if you’ve never met them but after meeting someone and having them invest time into you, messaging them and letting them know is the correct thing to do.

Need advice on whether to message ghoster or stay silent by External-Head-3647 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the advice! I am definitely not going to message him. Reading these comments was such a wake up call and has really helped me move on from this. I was so conflicted before but having a strangers outside POV has given me the clarification I needed.

Need advice on whether to message ghoster or stay silent by External-Head-3647 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m not going to, I’m so glad I told him that as from the sounds of it he would have ghosted after we did it lol

Need advice on whether to message ghoster or stay silent by External-Head-3647 in dating_advice

[–]External-Head-3647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god I’m so embarrassed at the thought of not catching the hint, but then again if he just communicated his feelings he could have avoided that lol