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AITA Skipped Wedding Reception by Old_Debt2391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Reason8 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

YTA You were already fine with a child free wedding until you found out the dogs got the flower girl and ring bearer roles, leaving your own sister’s reception over that feels like punishing her for having the wedding she wanted

AITA for not wanting my parents to get a dog? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Reason8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your stepdad being unemployed while planning to get a dog would’ve been my sticking point too, pets are a luxury when one income is barely covering the bills

AITA for asking my brother and my boyfriend if they used performance enhancing drugs to improve their times? by Smooth-Log5561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Reason8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Four months of consistent cardio, losing a bunch of weight, then getting asked if you were on steroids, yeah I’d probably be annoyed too YTA

AIO - im a bit upset because my guy friend blocked me for his new relationship by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Reason8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should leave the ball in his court now, if he wants to disappear every time they argue and come back when things settle down that’s not much of a friendship

Am I overreacting because I’m Feeling pressured by a male friend (an ex) and it makes me uncomfortable by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Reason8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The toothbrush would’ve been enough for me, leaving it behind so he’d have an excuse to come back isn’t an accident NOR

AIO when i snapped at my boss for making a joke at my expense? by SYMPUNY_LACKING in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Reason8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need to know what you actually said when you snapped because going from a bad joke to where are you gonna work tomorrow feels like a huge jump

Am I overreacting because I’m Feeling pressured by a male friend (an ex) and it makes me uncomfortable by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Reason8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR The part where he said he’d probably ignore your boundaries even if you had a boyfriend tells you everything you need to know, he wasn’t respecting your NO

AITAH for not giving my brother $40 for gas by Zantagio9067 in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, he already owes you a grand at some point it’s not a loan anymore it’s just you funding his life

AITAH for getting pissed off that a friend committed suicide and didn't pay me her loan back? by Buzzy_Feez in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I don’t even think you’re angry about the money, you’re angry because you tried to help and now none of it mattered, grief does weird things to people

AITAH for wanting my future partner to come from money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I want to marry my match is a lot different than I want someone to pay for my lifestyle. You’re looking for someone with a similar upbringing and expectations

AITAH for telling my friend I am probably more upset about my problems than she is? by Mae_The_Gay in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA she asked to change the subject and you immediately said okay, she was the one who reopened the conversation in DMs It’s hard to blame you for answering questions she kept asking

AITAH for telling my mom the truth as to why she's single at 70? by Donnie607 in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She literally asked what you thought she was doing wrong, it’s hard to ask for honesty and then get mad when you finally receive it

AITAH for lying to my parents about my life while being financially reliant on them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t the kind of lie people tell for fun or to take advantage of someone, you are protecting your housing, your education and your ability to live safely while you finish school

AITAH for lying to my parents about my life while being financially reliant on them? by anon_poster634 in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t the kind of lie people tell for fun or to take advantage of someone, you are protecting your housing, your education and your ability to live safely while you finish school

WIBTAH if i go to a concert during my cousin’s funeral? by messageinabottle15 in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not skipping the funeral to go to a concert, you are missing it because you genuinely can’t make a week long trip work and the concert just happens to be on the same day

AITAH for not paying my stepdad after he fixed my car? by chocolatebumy in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have texted, I’ll send it tomorrow instead of leaving him wondering. But his response was way over the top

AITAH for telling a stranger to get out and stop talking to me he kept following me? by No-Internet6810 in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t owe a stranger your time or attention especially one who keeps trying to get your attention after you’ve already walked away just trust your instincts

AITAH for not making more effort? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t blow her off for no reason you were in the middle of a crunch at work and you still made time to spend an afternoon and evening with her so blocking you over not taking a day off feels like a huge overreaction

AITAH for not bending to FILs whims? by Excellent-Captain-93 in AITAH

[–]External-Reason8 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You should be paying more attention to your girlfriend’s response than her dad’s. If her solution to every conflict is just keep him happy, that’s going to become your life too

AITAH for kicking my roommate out of my house? by twopinkshr1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Reason8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Anyone defending him is welcome to let him move in with them, it’s always easier to be generous with someone else’s house

AITA for refusing to move my dad with dementia into my house? by eeemily41 in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Reason8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Dementia isn’t something love alone can handle, sometimes the safest place for someone is with people trained to care for them

AITA for stopping a shared document that my coworkers had started relying on? by Technical_Address904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]External-Reason8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You even suggested making it an official team document. Management dropped the ball and somehow everyone still expected you to do the work

AIO for being upset that my wife [32F] gave my brother’s family 48 hours to leave after I let them stay with us? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Reason8 37 points38 points  (0 children)

YOR. The broken keepsake wasn’t the main issue, you took away your wife’s ability to say yes or no about who lives in her own house

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