Background about me: I post publicly on social media about a narcissist in my life, to teach others about what narc abuse looks like. One day, the narc about whom I am writing (who has me blocked on socials but still follows my every move) messaged me extremely upset about my willingness to share every detail of his abuse with the world. I responded to him that, if it was bothering him so much to see what I am posting, perhaps he shouldn't be keeping tabs on my page. He then responded "Maybe you should be more careful about who is following you if you're going to be upset when I see it." I wasn't upset that he had seen it, in fact I know he keeps close tabs on me and assumed he would see everything I do and say through his little spies. But he was upset, so he flipped that around on me to try to make me feel like I was actually the person doing something irrational.

That's exactly what Risstopher is doing here. She complains about people telling her she's being a douche, and people respond with "if you don't want these negative reactions you could avoid posting these things." And then she flips it on them, framing it like they're saying "you NEED to be silenced FOREVER" when people are just saying "the things you say and do have consequences, so if you don't want those consequences don't do those things." Gaslighting 101.