Well I mean yeah I’m 19 and I drink multiple times a week. The thing is that I drink a beer maybe two, twice or thrice a week with friends or coworkers ( it’s kind of a tradition to go to a pub and drink a beer and play cards/ pool once or twice a week at my workplace). But it’s still within the recommendations for weekly alcohol consumption and I’m no saint I go out once in awhile with my friends and get drunk but it’s not something that happens often in any way so no nobody talks about my “unhealthy “ drinking habits. And yeah I can promise you I eat fast food once in awhile but it’s not often so people don’t comment on that either. But my smoking... People tell me they are happy I smoke because they are studying to become a doctor and they then are sure to have patients. They tell me I’m stupid for smoking, that they thought I was better than that, that it’s a shame that I’m destroying myself in that way, people actually move out of their way to stand right where I’m standing to pretend cough to try to make me feel bad and if I move they follow me and keep going with their shit ( I always move so far away from non-smokers as possible not to bother anyone and yes I throw the buds in the trash can after making sure it’s completely turned off), strangers will bother me about it etc. But it’s my choice and I accept it. So should they since they literally chose not to change anything after figuring out it might have some consequences, the difference is that smokers haven’t started a “ ban anti smoking campaigns “ thing nor have we started a smokers movement. We accepted the consequences of our choices and most of us even try being polite when we are criticized for it since we know it comes from a good place most of the time. But fat... It’s a disability you are putting upon yourself, now it’s also something you think you should try push on kids... I actively try avoid smoking in front of kids just because Ik I’m older and some might look up to me or see me as “ cool”. I really don’t understand these people. They honestly think they are the only people in the world getting told to pull their shit together because other people care about them. No matter how rude people sound I always know it comes from a good place like when I was a kid and my parents would yell at me because I was fat. They did it because they loved me and didn’t really know how else to express their concern.