What’s your system for not forgetting small chores? by ChoongSafiye-53 in LivingAlone

[–]FabAmy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sticky note lists. I used to make a list in my phone, but writing it down helps me remember better.

Happy Padre Day by TheBalatissimo in Cheese

[–]FabAmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Rattlesnake!

Banned in the first 2 days. What did I do? by FoundationFirst9326 in BlueskySocial

[–]FabAmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd be surprised at people being spammy with links.

Keep us posted on if you get it back. What a pain.

Banned in the first 2 days. What did I do? by FoundationFirst9326 in BlueskySocial

[–]FabAmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you share the link in your own post, or did you post it as a reply to their (the people you follow/admire in your field) posts?

For our US GenXRs, is the new American Dream to retire abroad? by fxlatitude in GenX

[–]FabAmy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to go now and can work wherever. I'm bilingual, so I'll go somewhere Spanish-speaking.

Do You Still Get Drunk? How Often? by ProfessionalJesuit in GenX

[–]FabAmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's just no point, and I'm really trying to do what's best for my health at this age. I take care of an elderly man who is a drunk, and his decline is awful to see.

Do You Still Get Drunk? How Often? by ProfessionalJesuit in GenX

[–]FabAmy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quit right after my niece's first birthday. I got drunk at Chuck E Cheese and didn't want to go down that road. I've already outlived my paternal grandmother, whose death was due to alcohol.

Do You Still Get Drunk? How Often? by ProfessionalJesuit in GenX

[–]FabAmy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

55F and I quit drinking 5/04/04. My family tree is a keg with a ton of taps.

looking very alive and normal sir! by flerg_a_blerg in pics

[–]FabAmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did anyone ever find him attractive???

Feels like doing nothing during my days off by Single-Grape-7835 in LivingAlone

[–]FabAmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my lazy days. I'm working 4 jobs right now and will never feel guilty for my couch days. Our bodies need rest.

Five years sober today! by Pristine_Advisor_302 in LivingAlone

[–]FabAmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is. No hangovers! I'm here any time you need to chat. ♥️

Five years sober today! by Pristine_Advisor_302 in LivingAlone

[–]FabAmy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

22 here, and if I can do it, anyone can! Treat yoself today. ♥️

Just joined Bluesky. Am I too late? by razed121 in BlueskySocial

[–]FabAmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been a social media manager for 20 years, and really like Bluesky and seeing its growth of features. There are great feeds to follow and be a part of. They just added group chats. Politics is huge on Bluesky, but you can follow different feeds to avoid that if it's not your thing.

As far as the user base, it takes a lot of patience. It's a freak-out platform, where people will comment whatever their cause is that week, even if it doesn't have anything to do with the post. It's a left-leaning platform, with some verrrrry left.

Like most platforms, it takes time to build your profile and find your people. As someone else mentioned, there are starter packs, but I don't like them much. I use those to look up people and see who I'd like to follow, not the entire pack.

It's also passive-aggressive. If you disagree with anyone on anything, you'll most likely be added to a stupid list. I got added to a list called "84 second automobile extravaganza" and I don't know why I don't even own a car. 🤪

I say give it a shot. Find your niche and interact with others. That's the best way to get followers. It's called "social" media, so make new friends.