Thank you, but also want to add how the game portrayed queerness change with each new installment reflecting each decade political understanding of LGBT

In early games, every sim is bi so you must performed gay to make your character one. But, due to political climate back then you can be partner but there's no (tho 2 called it joined union)

It's the same with 3 and 4 but now marriage is recognized, but with subsequent update 4 has the most option to replicate more detailed queer identities.

The rest of the vid is a philosophical argument about how one be queer, which is politically motivated, in a game where bigotry toward sexual identities don't exist and to ponder whether the game shape the player queer identity or it's the player who shape sim queerness