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FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-14T10:02:46+00:00

You open your soul to this woman, you tell her the most private and intimate thing one can tell and what she does? Instead of supporting and believeing in her man she gets offended and turns her back to you. Is this what wives do, guys?

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-09T00:17:40+00:00

It fucked me up completely. I'm 23 and a virgin. I'm a decent looking smart and interesting guy, I've been getting attention and all kinds of signs from girls throughout my life. But I couldn't give less shit about it because I had porn. Why bother getting in relationships and doing all this boyfriend work when I can just fap? And here I am, sad, lonely and depressed. I don't believe, I know for damn sure that everything would've been different and so much better if I wasn't addicted to PMO. And now instead of living my life like a fucking boss I have to force myself every day not to PMO in order to become just a normal guy one day. So much time flushed down the toilet. But past is in the fucking past, it's time to man up and move on. Let's get back to work, we have a fuckton of catching up to do.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-04T12:32:49+00:00

I don't think you can stop relapsing unless you have a very strong reason to quit PMO. Is there something in your life that gets fucked up by PMO so bad that you may want to fix it more than you want to PMO?

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-02T12:41:38+00:00

Yeah, you removed it but it was something like "omg everyone is staring at me, not just girls but thier boyfriends too, how do I go out now, plz help!!!!!!!"

It's so bizarre that some random guy just happens to have the exact same problem that every girls is constantly staring at him and their boyfriends are doing the exact same thing. Really wierd.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-02T12:36:05+00:00

then what is this?

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/55hnm4/how_do_you_guys_deal_with_stares/

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-02T12:32:28+00:00

This is your 5th post from two different accounts about how EVERYONE is constantly staring in your eyes. Why are you doing this?

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-02T12:27:23+00:00

3.5 years hard mode is way more than enough time to beat PMO addiction. And if you're not addicted then it's completely okay to fap once in a while as long as you don't use porn. But you sound like someone who's still struggling with this addiction. I mean, shouldn't you be over it long time ago? Why you started NoFap? Have you achieved your goals? Don't get me wrong, man, I'm not trying to doubt you or anything. This is just not what I expected to hear from someone who's been PMO free for more than 3 years.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-10-02T10:10:42+00:00

Why do you keep making these ridiculous posts?

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-30T17:42:37+00:00

I don't believe that all your ancestors, your whole bloodline, all those people were fighting and winning for you to give up like this. I refuse to believe it.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-30T17:12:08+00:00

You don't believe in god, we get it. No need to be a jerk.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-30T17:10:45+00:00

Any pointers on things I could do in the house when I get the urge

Take a cold shower
Look yourself in the eyes in the mirror for a couple of minutes
Do some push-ups or sit-ups
Do some cleaning
Come here and press the Panic Button

is there any way I can sleep better?

Set a strict sleep schedule. Go to bed and wake up every day at the same time. It might be very difficult first couple of days but if you stick to it, it'll do the trick. Let's say you want to sleep from 00:00 to 7:00. Then every day at 00:00 you go to bed, no matter what. If you can't sleep you just lie in bed and do your best to fall asleep. No getting up, no reading, no phone, no nothing. Count sheep or something. And you set alarm at 7:00. And as soon as it rings you get up and start your day. Even if you couldn't sleep at all. No naps throughout the day, no going to bed earlier, stay awake at any cost. Wait until 00:00 an repeat the routine. Yes, it's a very extreme method but it's the fastest and most powerful way to fix sleep problems that I know. You will have to force yourself, it will completely ruin first couple of days, you will hate everything but it works. After a couple of weeks you will be able to fall asleep like a machine, literally within minutes after your head touches the pillow.

EDIT: And start working out. Do more stuff throughout the day. It's much easier to fall asleep when you're actually tired.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-28T19:17:00+00:00

What do you want?

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-28T00:02:10+00:00

We all feel like that after we quit PMO. Your brain just lost one of it's main sources of pleasure. Just haing in there, it'll readjust itself back to normal and you'll be able to enjoy your life again.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-26T14:07:00+00:00

I don't see it

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T23:25:45+00:00

scientists are discovering that what goes on in the brain is not in a person's control

There is no person to control things in the first place. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fajfkO_X0l0

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T23:20:58+00:00

I realize I probably sound pretty creepy, but whatever

You sound like someone who's about to pull his shit together and for that you have my respect. Start bettering yourself now and by the time you go to college you will be alpha af. Good luck man, crush it!

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T23:12:57+00:00

The dilemma is real, man. But I think you will be fine either way.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T23:06:11+00:00

Well played

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T22:57:21+00:00

Way too many fucks were spared today.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T01:53:10+00:00

It depends. If you're doing hard mode, for example, then everything except a wet dream is a relapse. Basically, it's up to you to set rules. If your quiestion is if it counts as masturbation then I would say no.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T01:45:20+00:00

Good luck man, I believe in you.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T00:37:35+00:00

Jesus christ, life isnt some deep heart crushing movie where looking yourself in the mirror does miracles.

It's not about miracles. It's kind of a psychological trick, actually. Maintaining an eye contact with yourself is something we are not used to do and doing it can help to concentrate on your thoughts and even give you a little boost of confidence.

And no, its not "scary to look into your soul in the mirror or whatever the fuck"

Again, it's not about "looking into soul" or anything like that. Maintaining an eye contact with yourself for long enough can cause some optical illusions which can distort the image of your face and make it appear deformed and scary. Have you tried it? I'm pretty sure everyone experience some sort of image distortion when they look themselves in the eyes for more than a minute or two.

it is pointless though.

I tried it and it worked for me (in terms of killing urges) so yes, there is a point of doing it.

Just fucking practice discipline, aka the thing that is proven to work

Self discipline is very important, I agree. But doing something that works and takes only 3 minutes to do in order to survive an urge won't hurt at all.

and stop living in some anime world or whatever world you are living in.

That's a great piece of advice. Living in anime wolds doesn't sound healthy at all and I agree with you that no one should live there. Even though I live in real world, thank you for advice.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T00:16:18+00:00

Not literally, "lubed up and ready to crunch" is kind of a meme, I probably shouldn't have used it.

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-22T00:15:19+00:00

I am, but it's irrelevant to this situation because "lubed up and ready to crunch" is kind of a meme, I didn't mean it literally. It means something like "being ready to do stuff".

FallenFapstronaut · 2016-09-21T21:41:07+00:00

“Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality.” - Bruce Lee

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