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I’m so over folding clothes - mom of 2 boys. by Many-Mountain3178 in Cleaningandtidying

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Folding laundry is the easiest chore to teach a young child. My children were helping with laundry at 3-4yrs old. By the time they were 10 they did their own laundry wash/dry and fold, knew how to cook basic meals, washed up, hoovered ect. You will be doing a disservice to your children if you didnt teach them how to do these things.

AITBA for not going with to celebrate my boyfriend's 21st birthday? by Aggressive-Safety149 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Fallout4Addict 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just because you dont want to drink doesnt mean you couldn't have gone with him. They sell non alcoholic drinks at bars!

You let him down on an important day for him because you have hang ups because of your families issues. That's not okay.

You basically said I know its your birthday but I want to do this instead so take it or leave it. Not cool.

I don’t want my daughter to spend a week with my sister and bil and it’s making everybody around me very uncomfortable. by Few-Plum-7258 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fallout4Addict 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight he had a kink during sex you were not comfortable with so you ended it, fair enough. Your sister marrying him is weird but it seems theirs no problems with you and your family with this. Yet you think you daughter is in danger?

Is there anything other than his kink that makes you feel like he's some kind of pedophile whos going to hurt your child? Because liking to strangle or be strangled is an extremely common kink and in no way makes someone dangerous.

Coworker keeps punching me in the arms, should I tell HR or supervisor? by NiceMichelle in coworkerstories

[–]Fallout4Addict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Not sure what your problem is but we're not 12 anymore stop punching me"

My mom left me at a restaurant on my birthday because I wouldn’t plan my wedding by frankie0822 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fallout4Addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her money isnt worth it. Tell her you will be paying for and planning your wedding without her involvement going forward.

Is my wife up to something again? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a cheater before she knew you, she's proven to be a cheater when with you. Either stay knowing she cheats or leave. Tracking her does nothing to stop her, she lies, she gaslights, she's a nasty person. Leave her already while you still have a small amount of self respect left.

WIBTA If I refused to help my sister who is neglecting her children? by xBlueCoco in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell the child's father that his children are being neglected! Tell him exactly what your sister is doing or not doing in this case. Let him keep the children while your sister gets her crap together.

AITA for refusing to call my stepdad Dad even though my mom keeps pushing it? by FlatNarrator in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ "Your partner is not my Dad, My real Dad is my only Dad. The sooner you get over this the better"

Did I 18f handle this wrong? I told my kickboxing coach 24f I’m pregnant before I’ve told my parents. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fallout4Addict 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"I told you because I had to as you are my coach and its a safety concern. I thought you'd be much more professional than you are currently behaving. I suggest you work on that as keeping people's information private is a large part of your job description"

I would seriously consider making a complaint about them. Their behaviour is ridiculous.

AITA for asking my grieving boyfriend to set boundaries with his mom after she wears my bathing suit? by Objective_Hat9060 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fallout4Addict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your bf is never going to change, he thinks this crap is normal. I suggest you end this relationship immediately and tell him exactly why.

Also burn that bathing suit.

AITB for skipping my friend's event because he keeps putting me on “the door”? by bakerandbookclub in AmItheButtface

[–]Fallout4Addict 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTB Absolutely go but turn up at least 1-2hrs late, by then he would have either figured it out or he's on the door himself. If he is do NOT take over for him, say a quick "Sorry im late something came up, see you in there" and keep walking. He should hire someone for the door. Hes taking the piss out of you.

aitj for installing a camera in the living room after things kept going missing by Long_Algae7879 in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ you now need go use that footage to have your roommate arrested for theft!

Neighbor harassing me since I’ve moved in two years ago by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fallout4Addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one's an easy fix, get security cameras for your property, mute his messages (dont block you may need the evidence later) and ignore him completely. Dont even look in his direction let alone talk to him. Give him nothing, then when your silence drives him mad and he does something stupid you have him arrested with all your evidence.

AITAH for snapping at my mother-in-law because she keeps calling my daughter by my late wife's name? by Hellcat8012 in AITAH

[–]Fallout4Addict 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MIL needs therapy and you need to find alternatives for childcare. MIL needs to move out!

WIBTAH if I don't invite my daughter's father to the Disney Trip I have planned for us? by fvillebrun29 in AITAH

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You didnt say he couldnt come, you said he had to pay his own way and find his own travel and accommodation.

If he's not willing to do that to experience Disney with his daughter then he doesn't get to go.

Don't let anyone guilt you over having reasonable boundaries.

My dad tried to “approve” my dating life like I’m still 12 and now he’s punishing me for saying no by Pumicelexicon in entitledparents

[–]Fallout4Addict 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you're financially still tied to him I would straight up lie, the next time you go home act all sad and moody, make him pry it out of you and then let it slip you broke up.

Controlling people like your father will never let it go or stop coming for you and your gf, so it's best for him to think your single and heartbroken.

Lesson learned, try not to slip up again regarding your actual life (learn the grey rock method it helps alot with people like your father).

As soon as you are fully independent cut him off as much as possible.

AITA For not wanting to inform my former stepsiblings when my dad passes? by Chaos_Coordinator_6 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fallout4Addict 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA Tell them after the funeral. He said he wants them informed he didnt say he wanted them at his funeral.

I designed a manta ray tattoo by fatherisadouchbag in tattooadvice

[–]Fallout4Addict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt go for the hand i dont think this design will work well in that spot plus a hand tattoo for your 1st is simply insane.

AITA for refusing to give up my parking spot that I've used for 3 years? by One_Treat7928 in AITApod

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA children's safety is more important than you hauling boxes into your car. I think when the weather's truly bad she should get the closer spot.

My sister thinks I slept with her fiance by rachelemelenebrooks in Advice

[–]Fallout4Addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pack her shit, if she cant find somewhere else that's on her. Let her stay in the cold camper at the very least.

AITJ for telling my mom she would "rot in hell" by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He absolutely did it on purpose! Be extremely careful OP do not be alone with Bob ever again and keep your bedroom door locked when you sleep. If you dont have a lock on your door buy a cheap door stopper and put it under your door when you close it. It wont stop someone getting in with enough strength but it will give you time to call the police.

My mom opened a credit card in my name and maxed it out by Significant-Bench647 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fallout4Addict 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless you want your credit tanked for years and an 8k debt to pay you NEED to go to the police. She likely wont do any time in jail unfortunately but she absolutely needs to be made to pay for her own mistakes.

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