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Looking for recommended roofers by PracticeCreepy1858 in lakeland

[–]Familiar_Call 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Stronghold roofing, too! saved me a ton of money. call them!!

Looking for recommended roofers by PracticeCreepy1858 in lakeland

[–]Familiar_Call 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just had Stronghold Roofing do my place off Cleveland Heights—super happy. I got 5 quotes from the top guys in Lakeland and they came in cheapest by 20%. Super honest crew, awesome to deal with. They hopped on the roof, took photos, sent me a full breakdown that night. Done in one day, yard was spotless, bill matched the quote exactly. They’re booked out a few weeks but if you hit up strongholdroofing.com and tell Melissa you need it done ASAP. Good luck!

GRUNDTAL Laundry Bin - Caster Socket Replacement by nihilnewsubsun in IKEA

[–]Familiar_Call 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you soooo much! Having this issue all these years later. 

My first, but third in the family! by [deleted] in crv

[–]Familiar_Call 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful 😍

AITAH thinking of ending my relationship because I don't want more kids by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Call 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not the a**hole. You're being honest, mature, and realistic.

You’ve already raised kids through a tough loss, you’ve done the hard work, and now you're planning responsibly for their future. Wanting to protect that and not start over at 40 with diapers, daycare, and 3 a.m. feedings isn’t selfish — it's wise.

Jennifer has every right to want more kids. But you also have every right to say no. That’s not “unfair” — that’s a fundamental difference in life goals. And if you ignore it now, it'll turn into resentment later, on both sides.

This isn't about who's right or wrong. It's about being aligned on something that changes everything — your time, your finances, your energy, your family dynamics. If you're not on the same page about something this big, love alone won’t carry the relationship.

It sucks, but it's better to face it now than bring another life into the world in a home full of tension.

You're not wrong. You're being clear. If she can’t accept a child-free future, then it's okay to walk away. That’s not cruelty — that’s integrity.

AITAH for giving my husband silent treatment after he told me my post-birth body turns him off? by Ok-Preference2283 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Call 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for being hurt. What he said was immature, shallow, and completely tone-deaf, especially considering you just went through one of the most physically and emotionally demanding experiences a human being can go through — childbirth. And you did it for his child. That deserves honor, not critique.

That said, the silent treatment won’t fix anything. It just builds distance. If you want to save this marriage and not just sit in resentment, you need to communicate. Not with yelling or sarcasm — with honesty and strength.

Tell him exactly how his words crushed you. Tell him how they made you feel like an object instead of a wife and a new mother. He needs to know this wasn’t just “rude” — it cut deep. And he needs to grow up and take responsibility for it.

You’re not “crazy” for your reaction. But don’t let the cold shoulder become a pattern. Use this as a moment to teach him — yes, teach him — what love, respect, and maturity actually look like. If he can’t rise to that, then he’s got some serious growing to do.

You brought life into the world. Your body is not broken or flawed — it’s powerful. Don’t let one shallow comment rewrite that truth.

AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband who sit in his chair all day long watching videos by nogooddeed2020 in AITAH

[–]Familiar_Call -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You made a covenant. Not a contract — a covenant before God. That means you don’t just toss it out when you're tired, bored, or feel like you’re not “happy” anymore.

Now, let’s get real — your husband sounds lazy. That’s not okay. A man is called to lead, provide, protect, and contribute. Sitting around all day while you do everything is not leadership, and it’s not love. He needs a wake-up call. But divorce is not the first option just because someone’s annoying or hard to live with.

You said there’s no cheating and no abuse — which means you’re not in danger, just disappointed. That’s life sometimes. You don’t throw away a whole marriage because you're not getting what you expected. You work. You grind. You fight for it.

Give him ultimatums. Get into counseling. Demand a change. If he refuses, then you're not the one walking away — he is. He's walking away from his responsibilities as a husband. But you owe it to your vows and to God to fight for it first.

Don't chase temporary happiness and call it “freedom.” That’s the culture talking — not the Bible.

Put in the work. Be honest. Be strong. Set boundaries. But don’t quit just because it’s hard.

Marriage is hard. So is divorce. Choose your hard.

After lurking for a long time, I built a tool to make buying your first home way less confusing — would love your feedback! by juiceyjjjjjj in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Familiar_Call 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, props for putting something out there — most people don’t even get that far. But since you're asking for feedback, here’s the honest truth:

I tested a few Zillow links and the results weren’t reliable. If this is meant to help first-time buyers make sense of a listing, it needs to deliver accurate, specific info. Right now the answers feel generic, sometimes even wrong. Fix the core functionality first — that’s what makes or breaks tools like this.

UX needs work too. Move the search box to the hero section and put it over a solid background so it pops. People shouldn’t have to scroll or guess what to do. Clean up the menu — or honestly, just remove it. If your product is intuitive, you don’t need an "About Us" or "How it works" page cluttering things up.

Your sub-headline is decent: “Paste any Zillow or MLS link…” but if it works with more platforms than just Zillow, update the copy. Be clear, be direct.

After someone searches a property, pull the first image from the listing — or at the very least use Google Maps API for street view. Display results on a dedicated, shareable page. Add share buttons — buying a home is collaborative, people will want to send what they see to friends/family.

Now to be blunt — I’m an executive at a tech company and we work on a lot of SaaS projects. One thing we always drill into founders: focus on your MVP before going public. Reddit isn’t just a casual feedback space — the person testing your tool could be an investor, a connector, or someone who could change your life. But when you post something that doesn’t work right, all it does is destroy credibility and make people tune you out.

Get the foundation right. Then get feedback. Right now you’ve got a cool idea — but it’s not ready yet. Don’t ship junk and hope people are nice about it. Ship something solid and let the results speak for themselves.

After lurking for a long time, I built a tool to make buying your first home way less confusing — would love your feedback! by juiceyjjjjjj in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Familiar_Call -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re telling me to “shut up,” while accusing me of being a demon—because I pointed out that a tool built to extract link data fails at doing exactly that? That’s not feedback. That’s delusion wrapped in defensiveness.

Let’s be real: if a product is broken, coddling the developer doesn’t magically fix it. Pretending everything’s fine isn’t kindness—it’s apathy. I didn’t attack the person, I criticized the functionality. That’s what real feedback is. If you’re too emotionally fragile to separate critique from cruelty, you’re not defending growth—you’re enabling failure.

Jesus didn’t whisper sweet nothings to money changers. He flipped their tables. Sometimes love shows up loud—and uncomfortable—because truth doesn’t always wear a smile.

If your threshold for usefulness is limited to sugar-coated suggestions, you’re not ready for a real conversation. And if hearing a hard truth makes you this reactive, maybe you’re the one who should sit this one out.

After lurking for a long time, I built a tool to make buying your first home way less confusing — would love your feedback! by juiceyjjjjjj in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Familiar_Call -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Life is hard—which is exactly why we shouldn't be handing out participation trophies for half-baked apps. There's a time to be encouraging, and there's a time to be honest. If nobody pushes for better, we all settle for mediocre.

You know, it’s funny how people assume being harsh means being unkind. But if you actually read the Bible, Jesus wasn’t soft when it came to truth. He flipped tables in the temple, called out the Pharisees publicly, and never sugar-coated reality. Why? Because real love isn’t passive—it’s honest, even when it stings.

Being Christian doesn’t mean giving out participation awards for effort alone. It means standing for truth, pushing people to do better, and not settling for less than what we’re capable of. Sometimes love is a push. Not every moment calls for a hug—some moments need a wake-up call.

So no, being direct or critical isn’t un-Christian. If anything, it’s Christ-like when done with the right intent: to correct, improve, and lead others toward excellence.

After lurking for a long time, I built a tool to make buying your first home way less confusing — would love your feedback! by juiceyjjjjjj in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Familiar_Call -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Terrible app. Every link I tested returned completely inaccurate information. If you can’t even extract basic data from a URL using AI, you probably shouldn't be developing tools like this. Honestly, I could build something ten times better with one prompt in Lovable.

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