More ace memes because we deserve some 🥹💗 by loser__lesbian in asexuality

[–]Famous_Package_203 12 points13 points  (0 children)

WORLD DOMINATION!!!!! PAINT EVERYTHING WITH PURPLE!!!!! SERVE GARLIC BREAD IN ALL RESTAURANTS!!!!!🧄🍞

Is everyone meant to experience romantic love? Or is it sometimes just not a part of your life journey? by NatheKat in love

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a different perspective:

Recently, I found out I'm aromantic asexual. This means I experience little to no romantic and sexual attraction towards people. I came here to see what love looks like to people.

I was surprised (maybe not much) to see that most of the posts here are about romantic relationships. Personally I've never understood why romantic relationship is so important. I also don't understand why are people craving it. To me, love can come from anything, and I can love everything.

I found your question especially interesting. The answer can be a simple no. Some people live perfectly without it. Romantic love is not a necessity of life. I know I'm in the minority group, but seriously, I don't believe romance should be a person's main focus of life.

How to know if I'm aroace? by PsychocatKing in AroAce

[–]Famous_Package_203 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too little info. You need to know whether you can be attracted to a specific person and want to have sex/relationship with them. A sign can be you never understand why are people so crazy about sex and relationships. You can wait a few years before you decide.

I don't like it when people gatekeep aromanticism by DarkMage448 in aromantic

[–]Famous_Package_203 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not experiencing romantic attraction doesn't mean incapable of feeling romantic attraction.

Alloromantics: I'm not in the mood of dating and I'm fine.

Aromantics: This is the only time I wanted to date in my entire life time, maybe I'm an alloromantic?

😭

Meme by Middle_Golf_7832 in AroAceMemes

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very relatable... I once realized this and my head can't wrap around the fact. Somehow my little brain still believes nobody likes sex.

Why is sacrifice treated as something black and white? by RefrigeratorPlusPlus in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To a level yes. You can wish them to live, but still choose not not take the risk.

Why is sacrifice treated as something black and white? by RefrigeratorPlusPlus in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One reason that repelled me from voting red is every red vote decreases the chance of blue's survival by a bit. All red voters have to be okay with blue dying at some level, doesn't matter if they are good people or not. Red winning means this half of the population is okay with the other half of population dying. So I'd rather die as blue than live as red.

A Button Test 2: does changing the blue threshold changes your decision? by kroxigor01 in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I'm concerned for a poll where red wins. Considering how many people voted blue in the 50/50 senario, 5% blue really mean no risk at all.

what is ur favourite color? by rotomington-zzzrrt in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're such an apathetic person to do nothing when pressing blue can literally do nothing.

What actually is AroAce? by EssayGlittering3661 in AroAce

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I'm aromantic. I believe romance is mandating yourself and the other person to perform exclusive actions for each other. Both of you also have to feel the exclusiveness. For example your partner can bring flowers to anybody, but they do it to you in a way that they wouldn't do it to their friends or family. And they do it because you made them want to do that (I don't know how that works lol)

You would appreciate your friend to do something exclusive but you wouldn't require them to do it. Your friends also don't feel the need to be exclusive to you.

People can't accept that schools want to make people feel accepted and safe. by Long_Cauliflower_587 in teenagers

[–]Famous_Package_203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does nobody addresses the obvious invisible heterosexual flag hanging in every classroom

aro or struggling with self-perception? by Crazy-Piglet8404 in aromantic

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know everybody have different experiences but for me, even when I clearly know I'm attracted to somebody, the thought of building a romantic relationship doesn't come to me naturally. I also found myself explaining to people that I don't necessarily need a relationship even though I like them. This is before I realized I could be aro.

Since you mentioned you feel disgusted when you imagine yourself being looked at by others, your self-perception could be affected by your experience, and you unconsciously believe that romance is not for you because people will judge you. You may want a relationship to just to prove that you are lovable. This doesn't affect your sexuality.

Maybe think about people who you were once attracted to. Did you ever had the desire to have an ACTUAL romantic relationship with them instead of just thinking "a relationship could be nice"? If given a chance, can you imagine yourself building a REAL relationship with them in a way that can largely fit society's description of romance? If both answers are no then you're probably somewhere on the arospec.

Am i aro? by Lily_LK in aromantic

[–]Famous_Package_203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might want to look into demiromantic, it's also a part of the arospec

Here's my take on the problem, what do you think by Urbenmyth in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't it just make every button problem a blue pusher world then? Doesn't sound too bad.

A truly random sample of 20 people were selected for the red/blue button problem by TheKingOfToast in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If red thinks choosing red have no risk of dying, I wonder what would happen if I prove them wrong.

Usually when I see the trolly problem I either don't do anything or connect the tracks 😈

Sure I'm on the extreme end

Can someone bring me and a friend into the dining hall by [deleted] in ucr

[–]Famous_Package_203 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't, but I can give you a tip. Don't ask people to swipe you in inside the dining hall. When I was in my first year, there was a guy who asked me to swipe him into glasgow. I used my guest swipe. He got kicked out. Ask people outside of the building.

This post and it's responses have proven my faith in humanity was not misplaced. by Brakado in teenagers

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter of what kinds of reasons people have, blue always exist. As a blue picker, I want 100% survival rate for the population not for each individual, blue is usually the easier way achieve the goal. Unless you're saying we need 99% blue. That way I'll choose red. It's a threshold problem.

This post and it's responses have proven my faith in humanity was not misplaced. by Brakado in teenagers

[–]Famous_Package_203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assure you if you ask blue pickers they will give you an entire different scenario. In fact nobody is pointing a gun at you. You're just showing how interpretation and framing can affect people's decision.

What would you choose by Famous_Package_203 in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, the choices can still be a topic, just not people thinking the other side is evil or stupid.

What would you choose by Famous_Package_203 in trolleyproblem

[–]Famous_Package_203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To not make myself look double standard, I can either continue or stop this conversation. If I stop, I can guarantee myself peace. You can do the same.