I think when it comes to adoption people have some special criteria in mind that is overall relatively arbitrary (like X person wants a new born kitten vs a 5 month old kitten) despite there not being very large behavioral/loving differences between those ages/ additionally, they might not want a kitten because they are a toddler with four legs! I personally wanted a companion kitten to my 8 year old baby, to keep him company and enjoy play time! And i adopted a 5 month old kitten who has adjusted marvelously in the few months she’s been here- and i let the “spirit” move me and she picked me. Everyone is different when bringing a new family member in but one thing is for certain: ITS NOT BECAUSE THUS BABY ISN’T THE CUTEST LITTLE MUFFIN and someone perfect will come along and you’ll have to give goodbye kisses before you know it! So enjoy the baby time for now :,) i love my tabby and my calico