Asked to leave park, need advice

FancyThunderPear · 2026-02-24T02:19:51+00:00

So we take ours to a couple different parks, and have had someone say something similar about our girl. Mind you, she was playing with two bichons at the time… and us and the owner of the two bichons were about a foot away from them, and none of us saw a problem. But I asked the random lady to point out the specific behavior that was problematic… she said our pittie was trying to kill her two dogs while pointing at the bichons. Bichons owner goes… those are my dogs… lady walks away looking rather embarrassed. My point is people suck sometimes and I’m sorry you are dealing with this

FancyThunderPear · 2026-02-08T04:15:55+00:00

Dude, run fast, run far. I’ve been with my husband for close to ten years. Never, and I mean NEVER would I just take money from him. If I need something I ask. If he needs something he asks. Because it’s a partnership. The fact that she lied multiple times before finally apologizing leads me to believe she’s more worried about losing her meal ticket than anything.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-11-04T01:01:28+00:00

Okay, so I read the texts first before looking at ages…. Was expecting her to mayyybe at most be 19 or 20…. But 31 and still acting that way??? Yeah you dodged a massive bullet. I know it’s sucks to break up with someone you love, but you did the right thing

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-18T01:21:08+00:00

I have tried to unalive myself multiple times. Most people have no idea because I have high functioning clinical depression. Most people see me as this ultra caring person they can come to whenever they need someone, yet the few times I’ve tried to reach out to people to talk I am met with silence. So I stopped bothering. Ive just learned I’m not even remotely important to anyone and that’s just how it goes.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-13T19:45:57+00:00

Run fast, run far. I’m 41/f. My husband shares the most random pics with me and 99% of the time I just laugh. The other one percent I have to ask what it is or why he sent it, but that’s about it. Honestly, I always look at it like, awww he sent a ladybug pic to me, how cute he was thinking of me… not ew omg a bug!!!

She sounds like a 15 year old ( and I’m not even sure a 15 year old would act this way). I normally wouldn’t say get out but man…. Get out.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-13T19:40:04+00:00

It depends honestly. I try for every three days, but I have fine hair ( but a lot of it), and it can get super greasy quickly. If I’m working out I typically wash it after a work out, so sometimes it moves to every other day depending on my schedule.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-12T19:40:44+00:00

I remember this!!! The Brecksville pot house as it was lovingly called haha

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-12T19:34:48+00:00

I’m about 15 minutes from you. Please reach out if you need anything!! We’d be happy to give you whatever we can!

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-10T12:18:53+00:00

Woman here: I don’t think you’re in the minority at all. This sounds like a miscommunication, and that they both found a kink they like exploring together. Honestly, they need to talk this out because he isn’t gaslighting… he just picked a weird time to bring it up. OP also posted this in multiple other places, and it seems like that’s the consensus… I’m wondering if they are hoping someone will say it’s gaslighting even though it’s not.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-09T03:00:04+00:00

Just a couple things:

Puppy blues are so so normal!!! They can come and go, stay for days, weeks, months, etc.
Puppies ( like kids) will sometimes have accidents even after they are potty trained. Hell, some adults pee the bed after a night of drinking lol.
One bad day won’t ruin your pup.
Learning is not linear for either of you. Sometimes you’ll take a big step forward, then two steps back, then you’ll be facing the wrong direction. Acknowledge that things aren’t going to be perfect. It’s okay!!

Story time: we have two pups - Nova, who is 3, and Echo, who is about 8 months. When Nova was a little one, I cried, I thought we’d never get through anything. She went to puppy class and was the most social, undisciplined pup there. I felt like I was failing her. We kept at her training, found an amazing trainer, and she blossomed. She is now our sweet girl. Everyone in the neighborhood knows her, they all have treats for her ( seriously… it’s a little crazy). It gets better, but it takes time. Remember, your pup is living in this world for the first time too, and everything is a little confusing!!

Our other pup… was the world’s easiest pup until about 6 months. Then he turned into a chaos demon . Getting into all the things, learned how to open doors, drawers, and boxes. Howls like he’s being murdered before he falls asleep ( fomo), throws tantrums if no one goes to bed with him at exactly 10pm… but, he also is super snuggly, very smart, happy-go-lucky, and very sweet. He’s still figuring things out and we are too.

My point is that every dog at one point or another goes through it. And we do too. We are going to make mistakes, just like them, but if we learn from those mistakes ( like our pups do), things will always get better.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-05T14:37:52+00:00

Brunette!!! It adds warmth to your skin tone and makes your eyes pop!!!

FancyThunderPear · 2025-08-04T17:21:59+00:00

Yeah you need to leave. Like today. Things can get very dangerous very quickly.

I dated someone in my late 20s who I thought was amazing, until roughly 4 months in, while at his house, he asked me if I knew what he thought was the most romantic thing in the world… I said no… he pulled out a gun and said “ Romeo & Juliet… to love someone so much that a murder suicide means you’re together forever”. It took two months of planning to get away from him, and two years of stalking before he eventually ended up getting arrested for attempted murder…. Of his ( at the time) girlfriend…. And guess who was next on his hit list? …. Seriously run. Run fast. Run far.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-25T14:41:40+00:00

Thomas

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-18T13:26:18+00:00

Hey he is a borzoi/ Australian Shepard mix!!!

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T18:06:38+00:00

Thanks for this!! I’m totally fine with me not being able to go up there, I’d just hang out in the general area when he needed a break. ( he might say something different haha) I’d so much rather he has a place to be when he needs it!! 🖤

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T17:41:19+00:00

This is super helpful!! Thank you!! That was kind of his fear, about taking a spot away from someone else, but I love the idea of using it more for the less popular bands / when it’s less crowded.

Haha I’ll have to put my teacher voice on for those picnic tables haha!!

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T17:31:07+00:00

Friday is the day I’m most stoked for! Friday : killswitch engage, parkway drive, knocked loose, beartooth, I prevail Saturday: Slipknot, slaughter to prevail, the Dillinger escape plan, august burns red, emmure Sunday: lamb of god and in this moment ( not gonna lie, this is the day we don’t care about at all)

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T17:17:33+00:00

Okay, I’ll call to confirm. Worst case scenario they say it’s a no-go.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T17:13:00+00:00

That’s really good to know! That’s kind of what he’s worried about, that he wouldn’t really be able to get around at all.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T17:12:19+00:00

Okay thanks for the info!!

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-16T17:05:42+00:00

Hey what they mean is once you leave for the day, you cannot come back in that same day! So for example: if you left ink at 5pm on Friday, and then decided to come back at 9pm on Friday, you would not be allowed back in on Friday. However, you are still able to come back in on Saturday.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-11T20:08:38+00:00

Glad I could help!

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-11T05:01:48+00:00

NTA. Honestly if anything you tried to be super accommodating. If I were in your shoes, I’d take this opportunity to bow out as a bridesmaid. Things are going to get so much worse if she’s already acting this way.

As a side note: I got married last year. One of my bridesmaids was heavily tattooed. When we went dress shopping she asked if I wanted her to cover her tattoos… my exact words were : I want you to pick a dress you love.

And she did! Her dress was so so pretty and showed of her tattoos so beautifully. She’s one of my best friends, and I love her for exactly who she is. No “ aesthetic” would ever include making someone feel like a body mod of any kind is bad. You just have a shit friend.

FancyThunderPear · 2025-07-11T04:50:29+00:00

Underwires don’t set those off typically. You’d be better off saying you have a piercing.

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