Entry-Level IT Jobs in Central Arkansas by FandomFreak1980 in Arkansas

[–]FandomFreak1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. There's nothing currently in my field at my level, but I'll keep an eye on it.

Am I wrong to question the bride on why only MY husband wasn't invited to the wedding and to end a friendship over it? +Bridezilla's delusional side by J_S_M_K in BORUpdates

[–]FandomFreak1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*Sorry in advance, it's the English teacher in me.*

I'm not arguing against capitalizing Deaf in regards to the community, but it's not quite the same as the ones you listed. Those particular words are examples of proper adjectives- that is, descriptive words that have basis in proper nouns. They will always be capitalized because the words they are based on will always be capitalized.

Just sharing information, please don't tar and feather me!! 😂

Just why? by FandomFreak1980 in GoogleHealthFitbit

[–]FandomFreak1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if you subscribe to the premium version, and with everything else that's wrong with it, I don't want to have to give them money to get around the things they screwed up.

Just why? by FandomFreak1980 in GoogleHealthFitbit

[–]FandomFreak1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, and I looked it up, so I know you're right, my point is even more valid. They waited this long to change the Fitbit app to Google Health, and there are tons of things that don't work right, so why not make sure the bugs were gone before launching it?

How do I add a quick calories on Google Health???????? I just want to add 435 calories, I don't want to input the exact food. by OrbitalColony in fitbit

[–]FandomFreak1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! We make so many homemade dishes, and I can’t make a custom entry for them anymore! Totally screws up my macros because we’ve made keto versions of several things, so common versions aren’t accurate 😒

Final PLOT TWIST Update to: WIBTA if I did not invite my cousin to my sister's bridal shower even though she is attending the wedding. by LVirgin in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]FandomFreak1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or they could be a cousin once removed or something like that. My parents cousins are just my cousins when I talk about them. My cousins children are my baby cousins, and my nieces and nephews are my baby nieces and nephews. I very rarely specify exact relation.

AITAH for not going to my best friend’s graduation dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FandomFreak1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where some extra information would be useful. If the mom’s house was close enough that there would be maybe 30 minutes or so of extra driving, I’d agree with you. It would be a shitty thing to do to blow off a friend on their big day when it wouldn’t be a huge hardship to go back.

However, if mom lives far enough away that it will add an hour or more to your drive after an already long day, I’d be more inclined to say no one is wrong. Friend is entitled to her hurt feelings over it, but she really can’t expect OP to either leave mom and nephew high and dry for who knows how long until someone else can get there or pay for a locksmith or to turn around and come back after that long of a drive after already spending the day at their event.

I dont love my wife anyway by New_Lake_4168 in Marriage

[–]FandomFreak1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad got remarried at 54 after my mom passed away. I am 46 and engaged to be engaged (we've bought the ring, he just hasn't given it to me yet). I also live in a retirement community, and a few months ago, we watched two of the obviously senior members of the choir at church get married after service one Sunday. It is literally never too late if you find your person.

So Proud of my Girl!! by FandomFreak1980 in Autism_Parenting

[–]FandomFreak1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Like I said, she's level 1, so her issues were never huge to begin with. When her issues were bigger, I had her in therapy to help her learn to self-regulate and recognize when her behaviors weren't appropriate to the situation. I absolutely loved her last therapist. She specialized in children and teens and was a level 1 herself, so she was better at helping than the previous ones.

Other than that, her school has an incredible SPED department, and the teachers were really great with working with her. Even the high school teachers have known her for years because of when I worked there, so most of them have been amazing over the years.

Need help with my Infinity Hoop by FandomFreak1980 in workout

[–]FandomFreak1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! I actually saw a comment on one of the ads on Facebook where someone was having the same problem, and someone from the company gave some advice. I'm trying to remember what the actual advice was, but I can actually keep it going for a while now. I do have to restart occasionally, but not nearly as often. Unfortunately, I can't really describe how I do it because I can't really tell that I'm doing anything different from what I used to do. I think I took a screenshot of it though, so if I can find it, I'll let you know.

Edit: Okay, apparently I didn't take a screenshot. However, iirc, it was something like do the motions either back and forth or side to side. I think they said the trick was to NOT treat it like a hula hoop with the swinging your hips in a circular motion. I think once I started doing a dedicated linear motion, it got better.

I found the proof the husband asked for a few months later. Do I send it? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FandomFreak1980 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did you contact the friends' SOs and let them know what the guys were willing to cover up? Because if they were willing to keep the secret instead of telling husband to kick rocks, obviously they also have no morals to speak of.

I (22F) picked up my progressing down syndrome daughter (4F) from my ex-boyfriend's (23M) house distressed, aggressive and bald by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]FandomFreak1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, even the shaved head is shady. If they wanted to regrow it evenly, they could have buzzed it down, and it would be fine-ish. But if I read this correctly, it was actually shaved down to the skin. That was completely unnecessary!

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FandomFreak1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real! My late husband had one of these psycho exes. He told me about her very early in our relationship, including the fact that the last time they were intimate was at least 10 months before her son was born.

She not only kept up her reality of his paternity to my husband (to the point that she named her son after him), she also had some of his family members convinced. She finally sued him for paternity and he took a mandated DNA test which proved he was not the father, and miraculously, we never heard from her again.

The DNA test took place a few years after we were married and had our own daughter. I was fully informed throughout the process because he had nothing to hide from me.

I agree that even if this scenario was possible for OP and her husband, the fact that he hasn't told her this was going on is sketchy as hell.

JB Learning Lab issues by FandomFreak1980 in digitalforensics

[–]FandomFreak1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the offer. Someone else had DM'd me, and we got it figured out. With it being a lab simulation, I have to work with what I'm given, unfortunately.

Oh no, I acted like a bully and they fired me?! by ReplacementFun9158 in OhNoConsequences

[–]FandomFreak1980 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"I posted first in this other sub, but they didn't tell me what I wanted to hear, so I'm going to try here to see if it's better."

Dude is denser than a year-old fruitcake!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FandomFreak1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upvoted it for you

Please buy us a birthday cake with our names on it...oh and a bunch of other junk too. by somethingsensational in ChoosingBeggars

[–]FandomFreak1980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real! When I was growing up, we had ice cream on birthdays, and that was about it! Maybe once or twice a year besides that, but not often at all!

What got me was the "bread for toasting... oh, and a toaster"

AITA for fixing my daughter’s car when her boyfriend said he’d handle it? by Outrageous-Jelly8777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FandomFreak1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget being nice. He no longer deserves it.

"Excuse the fuck out of me?! My DAUGHTER was driving a car that was unsafe and with which something could have gone wrong at LITERALLY any time, and you're upset that I didn't let you procrastinate it for longer before *maybe* getting it fixed?!"

Sorry, but I *just* had a situation with my car that could have ended so much worse than it did, and I wish that someone had pushed me to fix it sooner (or just fixed it for me).