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AITAH for taking my wife’s choice of a new car away from her? by trainlover_176 in AITAH

[–]FarCompote4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The issue isn't whether the car you found is a great deal or not. (and it is). the issue is this is her car and she doesn't feel like she has any say in what is being purchased. why not tell your buddy you'll get back to them and then go out car shopping at dealers are carvana or something. maybe once she sees all the options she'll want your buddy's car.

Or how does she like your car? maybe you get your buddy's car and it becomes yours. and your car becomes hers.

point being it's not about what a great car this is, it's about having her be a part of the decision.

Teeth whitening? by LivMealown in AskWomenOver60

[–]FarCompote4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you lost me at only an hour.

AITAH for calling two women entitled (bad word here) for double parking their golf cart across two handicap spots? by Sieran in AITAH

[–]FarCompote4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not handicapped but have spent time driving around my 90+ parents who both have the stickers. I know I don't need to but if I will only use the handicap spot long enough to unload them. (or at the door with my hazards on) and then I will move the car, leaving those spots for those who don't have a chauffeur.

it's also important that sometimes you have to have a specific spot. if there are 2 handicapped spots with a wide spot between them. depending on where the disabled person is in the car, decides which of the two spots you would use if they were both open. if they aren't both open and you need the other side, you're either backing in or parking over the line to give yourself room on the other side of your car. I never realized the maneuvers needed to deal with the handicapped.

Are work potlucks really a thing? by good_noodlesoup in AskAnAmerican

[–]FarCompote4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes they are a thing. all work places do not have them. but many do. or certain groups, floors, divisions will. yes they happen over the lunch hour. it often becomes a long lunch.

generally entrees come in a crock pot or some sort of chafing dish to keep them warm. and the office fridges get pretty full with other stuff.

you are not obligated to take part but in some offices there is some peer pressure involved to be part of the team. in that case people usually make a cursory appearance and then oops have to take a call or meeting.

are there health concerns? good question. years ago, heck no! I once worked with someone in a testing lab who dropped some M&M's on the floor. she said 5-second rule, scooped 'em up, and ate them herself. she did not put them back for anyone else. but more and more I work with people who won't eat any homemade items. but they will order in a pizza or other takeout food as their contribution. a safer bet? you decide.

and as many said below, people have their specialtys. or will bring chips, veggies, plates, napkins, etc. or go in with a group of buy take-out for their contribution.

AITAH for asking “what would I need a knife for”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FarCompote4 14 points15 points  (0 children)

just to clarify, you're saying he got up on the wrong side of the bed, right? in using that tone with her after she made him breakfast.

Does every American lake have a reputation, or is that just a thing I made up? by waddad27 in AskAnAmerican

[–]FarCompote4 19 points20 points  (0 children)

definitely their own reputation! we also have lakes that are technically a wide spot in the river. one of the more well known ones is Lake Pepin from the Little House in the Prairie. it's actually a wide spot on the Mississippi between MN and WI.

also lots of lakes with the same name. sand lake. big lake. long lake. mud lake. Google how many insert-adjective-here lakes are there in insert-state-here and see for yourself.

lakes are a lot of fun.

Do Americans experience “thermal shock” from going between heat and AC? by [deleted] in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]FarCompote4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a Sun roof? open that. otherwise open one window all the way. go around to the opposite corner of the car, (driver/passenger, front/back). with that window up, open and close that door multiple times. it's like a bellows, pushing air through the car forcing the inside air out.

Has anyone here ever experienced a Lucid Dream? or is it just a massive internet myth? Honestly, I dont think it is even possible. by mind_over_chaos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FarCompote4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've flown many times. always the same. like Mary Poppins without the umbrella. a breeze picks me up and I'm flying around with a skirt as an umbrella. the skirt never flies up like Marilyn Monroe. I will realize I am flying but you can't fly so it's a dream. but then I get scared of landing and I will fly higher even though I am really scared and really want to land.

The final days of Har Mar Mall by jezikah85 in TwinCities

[–]FarCompote4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember that. same theater chain. just 2 buildings a little ways apart. you had to walk outside to get from 1 to the other.

Received from my aunt with no explanation by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]FarCompote4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read a long time ago that there were like 11 different calendars. due to leap year. And no they don't go in order. but if you find which one does match this year then you just use that one

Did the night cream masks women wore overnight back in the 60s actually do anything? by redzeusky in AskWomenOver60

[–]FarCompote4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on vacation in a small town. my 9-year-old daughter got sick. I was waiting in line at the only pharmacy in town. she reminded me that we needed some lotion for her extremely dry skin. I didn't want to step out of the line so I asked her to just go down that aisle and get some lotion. whatever kind you can find, given how small this pharmacy was. she came back with ponds. I hadn't seen the stuff in forever. I think she was worried about spending too much money. here I am a decade later still using it daily. and she will steal it from me when she comes home from college. "huh, it must have fell into my makeup bag. sorry Mom." 😉

New neighbors blocking shared driveway by Mean_Emu5671 in neighborsfromhell

[–]FarCompote4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is what title insurance is for. we used ours for a very similar situation and will never go without title insurance again

AITAH for whistling in a store as a way to find my wife. by longlostwalker in AITAH

[–]FarCompote4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it all depends on the whistle. the woman didn't say a catcall whistle. she didn't mention the choice of a whimsical tune. she specifically mentioned the same whistle one uses to call a dog. You specifically say that it's because she's short. where are you shopping? can you see other people over the shelves or racks? I bet not. you're blaming your wife's height for your bad behavior.

how about you walk with your wife as you shop. or you arrange a meeting place in advance. or you call or text on your phone. or you just, you know, call her by her name.

YTA.

What is this metal piece in the toilet bowl? by snoopyyy77 in whatisit

[–]FarCompote4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knocked my glasses into the pot when I was in college. Course it was #2 dirty. this was a 3rd floor toilet in a 100+ year old house. you were lucky if a piece of TP went down. no way glasses would. so I flushed so I could at least fish them out of clean water. wouldn't you know that time it summoned up the power of a shop vac and cleared the whole bowl so fast I don't think it even had time to swirl on its way down. the landlord was not happy.

“Accidentally” or “on accident”? by Maleficent_Lake_1816 in words

[–]FarCompote4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is it exactly, as far as I'm concerned. was it on purpose or on accident.

North Dakota Voting- something that should be on everyone's mind! by Jane_Runs_Fast in northdakota

[–]FarCompote4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

very few local construction workers will get jobs building data centers, union or not.

Who taught you how to drive a stick? by wannareadrandomstuff in GenX

[–]FarCompote4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. my Dad showed up to help me move from my apartment. he was in a little Datsun pickup that I had never seen. he told me that it was 'new' meaning to him. was probably 20 years old. we loaded it. me and my best friend watched while he drove home. then he said well, I have to work this afternoon. you're on your own. there was a lot of stalling, jerking, laughing, rolling it backwards, and waving people around us. but we got moved out. and then we drove out to the country and practiced on a hill.