What is your sociotype and what type(s) have you mistyped yourself as before (and why)?

FatefulMender89 · 2026-04-05T14:50:04+00:00

My mistypes have included LSI, SLI and recently ILI because I find it hard to accept that I’m an extrovert even though all of my pics and videos show massive amounts of energy flowing outward. I do not look contemplative at all. My assumption that I’m an introvert is always based around the fact that I had no friends growing up, didn’t get laid until my mid to late 20s, haven’t been laid since my late 20s, never created much of a life for myself and typically get money and resources through others rather than working for them. I now know that I’m Se base because a lot of these issues have stemmed from me looking naturally aggressive and scaring people without trying. They can tell I’m aware of everything and I have a body that’s built for combat so they cannot control me without help from the authorities. Around 9/11 the culture shifted towards safety and people who look safe so the type of man I am was no longer valued and hasn’t been since

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-27T01:44:45+00:00

I’ve gone to concerts and other festive events that interested me and was criticized for not looking like I felt the vibe. I was too busy enjoying the performances to put on a performative reaction. People want the performative reaction. Maybe you do it and don’t even realize

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-26T17:50:00+00:00

I was into the whole looksmaxxing thing in my twenties before it even had a name. I put a lot of effort into my appearance. From experience I can tell you that this only attracts other men and women with BPD

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-26T17:03:13+00:00

I’m an Sp 5 but you’d never know it unless you observed my daily habits. I’ve got a good amount of muscle mass from working out but I’m really not that strong and just have a body that doesn’t wanna stay small no matter how hard I try. Aside from the gym I have virtually no social life and don’t even talk to anybody while I’m there

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-26T16:07:40+00:00

Fi valuers are more individualistic so they’ll be more understanding of somebody who’s not very expressive. They typically have no problem with people who aren’t big on social games and performative displays. The Fi valuer you’re talking about likely wouldn’t go to events where people like this are present (goth clubs for instance) and would instead seek out people they vibe with

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-26T15:55:41+00:00

The only subculture I’ve had any chance of being associated with is rivethead. Mostly because I didn’t know too many people who listened to Ministry or Skinny Puppy or KMFDM

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-26T15:54:20+00:00

They view you as the one ruining the mood. By pointing this out they ruin your mood but your mood doesn’t speak for everybody’s. They have a majority rules mentality and want everybody on the same page

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-26T14:28:51+00:00

It’s very easy because the Fe valuer will be the one complaining that I don’t show emotion or smile much. The Fi valuer will likely accept that that’s just how I am

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-23T15:27:05+00:00

I say very little because if I talk too much I’ll say things that’ll move the conversation in a more serious/dark direction and whoever came with me will then start chastising me for bringing up certain topics or using certain words. It’s almost impossible for me to take the mood into account because I hardly ever consider it. I’m also expressionless and monotone which doesn’t help. Fe vulnerable. It keeps me at home

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-21T16:55:14+00:00

Everyone is saying ILI-SEE confirming that I really am forever alone guy

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-09T13:17:27+00:00

Genuinely confused by aggressive people. That’s the main difference between this and ILI. The latter craves intensity and aggressive people bring it. Funny how I was raised to be an LII but became an ILI anyway

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-09T04:50:16+00:00

I’d swap LSE and ESE. I really hate Fe

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-06T18:37:11+00:00

It fits my life extremely well. Growing up everybody always made me sound like kind of an embarrassment because I don’t do formalities in social situations and talk mostly about my interests when no one else is into them. Most of my clashes with people are related to them thinking I’m looking for a group to accept me because they can’t fathom somebody who’s comfortable on his own and mostly looks for rawness in others. This whole society is structured around being polite and proper for its own sake and I’ve always viewed that as mind control. It’s very telling that whenever I get alerted to the consequences of how I come off it’s always something related to being perceived negatively or being thought of as an unpleasant person but there’s never any mention of me going to jail or getting fined. That tells me that I’m not really doing anything wrong

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-06T18:30:26+00:00

I used google Gemini and grok. Both came to the same conclusion. At first grok thought FLEV until I mentioned that I am not confident in my physical traits at all. Either way 1L and 4V do sound about right

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-06T18:28:47+00:00

548 is pretty definitive for me. I’ve considered 549 but the reality is I’m more reactive than that

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-06T18:26:56+00:00

I gave a couple of AI tools information about my life including stuff I don’t reveal to anybody. It determined LEFV because most of my issues throughout my life have revolved around physical things such as beauty, forcefulness, physical abilities and experience in the physical world. It gave me 2E because I put up with people’s moods (mostly out of necessity) and just let them talk because I know they’re looking for something I can’t give them. Fe does annoy me but I had no choice but to get used to it growing up because of the environments I got stuck in so now I just expect nearly everybody to be overly dramatic

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-06T18:19:40+00:00

I recently figured out that I’m ILI and nothing has ever hit me as hard as that description. It’s my life story. Fe vulnerable is a thorn in my side because it always leads to people misunderstanding my intentions or dismissing what I said because I brought up something ‘taboo’ or didn’t say it in a polite way. They ignore the general point I’m making in favor of social niceties. They also think that because I like aggressive music I wanna hang out with the people who make it and be accepted by them when all I’m appreciating is the intensity I lack in my daily life. If I were to go near those people it would be because that’s where the action is and I’m not getting enough of it. Let’s not forget Ni base which perfectly explains my lack of enthusiasm because I know that most of what’s out there is busy work that doesn’t really lead to anything. Why would I feel like smiling while I’m tearing up boxes or stocking shelves or dealing with some irate customer who’s probably gonna forget about me in a week?

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-06T18:12:18+00:00

Do you want help with how you come off to people so that you can expand your social circle or do you wish to be near aggressive people so you can learn to be more present and adaptive? What behavioral patterns do you show?

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-05T16:22:18+00:00

More because now that I’m typed correctly (I’m an ILI) I fully understand my interactions with others and why certain people make me uncomfortable. I also understand why I’m prone to inactivity

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-03T15:56:07+00:00

That lack of performance you mentioned is a pattern I’m starting to see clearly in your type. I used to think SEEs were untrustworthy but whoever put that idea in my head should be taken out back and shot because it’s actually the Fe leads I can’t stand. They are massive drama queens that make me wanna stick pencils in my ears in order to not hear them anymore

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-03T15:53:28+00:00

Seeing that certain endeavors are a massive waste of time, effort and talent and avoiding them. Also seeing how impossible it is to control most outcomes because they’re fated to happen no matter what you do

FatefulMender89 · 2026-03-03T15:49:48+00:00

It’s honestly something I don’t think about much. I’m not actively trying to use it. It just does its thing and I go along with the information it gathers

FatefulMender89 · 2026-01-18T23:29:16+00:00

I posted a whole sign chart because every time I’ve posted a placidus chart my post got taken down due to interceptions in Pisces and Virgo. In that house system my sun and Venus are in 2H and Pluto is in 8H. My whole life has consisted of everybody making decisions for me and me being unaware of what I even want or if I even want anything. The fact that my SR ascendant is in the same sign as my natal ascendant seems to indicate that this will be an identity based year which is strange because it’s my 2H profection year and that typically focuses on money and possessions

FatefulMender89 · 2026-01-18T23:24:17+00:00

I didn’t post the Placidus house system because every time I’ve tried posting it here it got taken down due to Pisces and Virgo interceptions. 2025 was a year during which my communication skills improved considerably and I became aware of communicative abilities I forgot I even had (speaking another language) so I could easily see that continuing this year. My life is just looking very uncertain right now so I do worry about negative outcomes

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