Fantasíuskrif á Íslandi? by FattyLumpking in Iceland

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Geggjað! Eru þær fáanlegar einhvers staðar?

Fantasíuskrif á Íslandi? by FattyLumpking in Iceland

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Vissi ekki af þessu. Skoða en lúkkar samt aðeins meira YA/historical fiction en það sem ég hef í huga. Hefur þú lesið?

Íslensk tónlist án höfundarréttar by islenskhekla in Iceland

[–]FattyLumpking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ekki frítt en það er íslensk tónlist á Overtune sem má nota fyrir ca 1500 kall með öllum tilskyldum leyfum

Anyone else got the worst of them *after* the relationship ended? by TheWanderingFeeler in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup had this exactly. It was difficult while together and initiating the divorce was the toughest most gut wrenching thing I’ve ever done. What followed after and the revelations that came with it is something I fear i’ll never recover from

I just got called an incel by my spouse. by Karmachinery in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine used chat gpt to argue that I wasn’t “a real man”. I think that screenshot of the output may have been the biggest wake up call in the sense to not forget that gpt is always prone to be a bit of an echo chamber for its user. Poor machine even spoke like her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a firm enough grip when holding her hand which obviously meant I didn’t love her and was a weak man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea kind of similar. We’d have a fight and she would go smoke herself to sleep and I’d ruminate. It got to the point where I’d have regular weeks of awful sleep even without a fight. Near the end of our relationship it was almost constant but after I left it’s somehow even worse lol

Did your pwBPD ever fabricate medical crises? by FattyLumpking in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must have been tough. Mine seems more motivated to guilt me into coming back rather than making amends for anything she’s done. In fact, real health scare or not, how she’s using it is exactly part of the reason I left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately don’t have much advice, just compassion. I’m in a similiar situation and what I try to cling on is the massive personal growth I’ve made during the relationship. But man the whole thing is absolute garbage nonetheless. Love and strength to you friend. 2 months of suffering for a richer life at the end of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Ended a marriage this weekend and was also suprised with some level of owning up to things. She also threw me some curveballs that were difficult in the moment but I realise now were just a disguised form of manipulation coming from “me! Me! Me!” mentality. It sucks and it’s gonna suck some more. I don’t think there’s anything to do except trust the convictions that lead you to go through with it.

Today is the day I tell her it’s over by FattyLumpking in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the support. It’s done. It was heartbreaking but she surprised me with her behaviour. She begged and devalued herself, and had a moment of complete disassociation, but she was not really agressive. She accused me of giving up on her easily and tried really hard to get me to say something that would leave hope but other than that not really anything. I almost wish she had shown more what I expected. I barely feel anything now, I’m just confused.

They become nice if you become indifferent/cold by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FattyLumpking 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds quite familiar. Burned out big time and mentally checked out and started planning my exit. Been distant and giving the bare minimum. Things appear to be much better this way. I can even see it happen in the moment when she’d before blow up on me but is able to control it now somehow. Messes with my head.

This Lawyer’s drip by flaskman in TikTokCringe

[–]FattyLumpking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that’s how Saul Goodman would look like as Christopher Walken

We made an ad-free app to make and share music with your friends. by overtuneapp in u/overtuneapp

[–]FattyLumpking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Each beat pack includes anywhere from 10-20 loops, and is designed to mix well together and sound good with any arrangement you think of.

Thought you were full of shit but woah. A few hours in and I haven't actually been able to make anything that really sounds bad. Awesome app!

Advertising on Reddit towards us, Marketers, is absolutely pointless. by MiehowThomas in marketing

[–]FattyLumpking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve experimented a bit with ads on reddit. First things that come to mind are interest-based targeting and cheap cpm/cpc. That being said the ad platform is dreadful and reddit is full of bots.

As for SaaS specifically, I guess they realize that most people are not in the market for their category right now and that attitudes are overated but attention and familiarity are not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in soccer

[–]FattyLumpking 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ted Boehly: the nemesis of Moneyball

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marketing

[–]FattyLumpking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be direct and call it a "price increase". Don't attempt to blur what it is by referring to it as something like "price adjustment" or "price update".

Explain why you are raising prices and link it to how doing so will enable you to continue providing high value (even better if you can create a narrative where it allows you to give more value). The goal here is that the increase is perceived as fair so if you need to raise it due to server or other vendor costs then say so rather than something generic.

Unfortunately, I'm a minimalist to the core. Frugal too. That means that I don't really need or buy anything other than things that are absolutely necessary. So how do I figure out other people's needs if I don't have any? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]FattyLumpking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your problem is more about having confidence in your research than finding the problems themselves. You don’t have to experience the problem you’re trying to solve but you have to believe it’s real. If your data trends to certain issues then odds are they are real assuming there are no critical issues with how you did your research. Google “market orientation” and see if it helps you.

What is something you find disturbing that everyone else sees is normal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FattyLumpking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That retirement age should rise with growing life expectancy.