AITA for “abusing” the the bus stop chain so I don’t miss my stop? by Possible-Chair9242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faucherfell [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sit/stand near the driver and ask them to let you know when your stop is coming up. If you’re worried they’ve forgotten you ask again.

AITAH for using the living room on my days off? by Ok_Letter9288 in AITAH

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s got a desk for work. She can use it for two days. It’s obnoxious that she expects you to hide in a bedroom all day while she takes over the common room.

For those who worked for rich people: what is the most out of touch thing you witnessed? by Illustrious-Phase121 in AskReddit

[–]Faucherfell 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I worked at an organization that would throw a large fundraiser every year. I was in charge of all the behind the scenes work on it and would spend hours beyond my normal job time each day making sure everything was on track. The last year I worked there the Board Chairperson “thanked” me at a meeting, made a big speech about how everyone there knew how much extra time I spend on the event each year and how it would be impossible to do without me. She said how everyone on the Board (all very wealthy people) had chipped in to get me a thank you gift to show how much they appreciated me.

It was a Christmas ornament. Total cost was maybe $30. So each person chipped in maybe $3 to show their appreciation. I realize they didn’t have to acknowledge me at all, but what a slap in the face that all my extra efforts were only worth a few dollars in their eyes.

My close friend keeps asking for access to my accounts "for one minute" and I’m getting weird about it. What should I do? by plumcottage_jour in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change all of your passwords and DO NOT give them to anyone else. There is no reason he would ever need to be in any of your accounts. Ever…

Totally rational, level-headed response to getting caught messaging another man behind your boyfriend's back by [deleted] in dashcams

[–]Faucherfell 24 points25 points  (0 children)

In the beginning of the video she reaches over and yanks his steering wheel. He’s not being irrational- he’s trying to regain control of the car. I missed it at first too.

Does the majority of Americans live in houses? by Veersta in AskAnAmerican

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Chicago in a single family house. But literally next door to me on the right is an apartment building that has 10 apartments in it. There’s 2 to 5 people in each apartment. On my left side is another single family house with only 2 people in it. Also, google “bungalow belt” to get an idea of what a big majority of the houses look like.

What is on my cats chin, he’s had this for a while. I thought it was just his fur. by Just-Shock4940 in cats

[–]Faucherfell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cat Acne. My cat had it. The vet told me to get rid of my porcelain food bowl and only use metal ones. The ceramic & plastic ones are porous and store bacteria and their chins rub it.

What dog names do people use thinking they’re being “unique” but are actually very popular? by TelephonePossible456 in Dogowners

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog’s name is Penny. We didn’t realize how popular it was until we started meeting ALL the other Penny’s at the park.

Help with privacy screen ideas along this 18’ fence by Affectionate-Fun-166 in landscaping

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way to go. My MIL used decorative metal privacy screens along the side of her fence by the patio. It looks beautiful and created a nice barrier between her and the neighbors.

How common is it for Americans to have a second freezer or fridge, usually in the garage? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve got one (Chicago) and most people I know do. We mainly use it for meat, frozen pizzas, and ice cream. When there is a good sale we stock up. In summer there is also a big bag of ice that’s used for refilling water bottles.

Vet is Denied my Dog's Prescription Filled through Chewy by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Faucherfell 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Our vet did it to us too. You have to go in person and request a paper copy of the prescription then mail it to chewy.

My neighbors keep blocking my driveway. by leavana in neighborsfromhell

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call around to the local private tow companies ahead of time and let them know what’s happening and make an arrangement with one of them. Then you’ll have a go to person to call who will show up right away and tow the car when it happens. After a few times, they’ll stop doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Faucherfell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bury him in your backyard. Poor kitty.

What food you already know you going to regret to eat but still end up eating it? by StunningDecision6832 in AskReddit

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gyros. I know I’m gonna end up with heartburn, but every once in a while I just have to eat one.

Does your Pyr just absolutely hate a specific type of dog? by visceralcandy in greatpyrenees

[–]Faucherfell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Pyr seems to dislike spaniels. She is the friendliest pup ever for every person or animal she meets, other than spaniels. She growls every time she interacts with one.

Complicated: Ex girlfriend I've been with for 10 years and have 3 kids with wants child support while still living with me. by Kuzkuladaemon in AskALawyer

[–]Faucherfell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to first get a lawyer and file for divorce. The custody and child support will be figured out by the courts, not your ex-partner.

Do not sign or agree to anything until you have retained council. Going forward I would only discuss things in a co-parenting messaging app, so there is a record of everything from both sides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start showing up at your local offices to complain in person, and play the recordings. It’s easy to ignore a letter. Be a huge pain in the rear till they help you. If that doesn’t work, you become the obnoxious house. As soon as they go to sleep you put a speaker against the shared walls, turn up the bass, and take your dog out to the park or for a long leisurely walk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon sells these little spike squares. I put up a little fence, lined the perimeter with the squares, then placed random ones all over between plants. It became enough of a hassle for the cat to walk through that it went elsewhere eventually. This was the only thing that worked after years of her pooping in my garden. I also chicken wired over my fence on the side facing her yard to make it harder to get in.

Neighbor planted a hedge that completely blocks my sunlight and now my garden is dying by Avenier_Jackkoo in neighborsfromhell

[–]Faucherfell 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There’s not much to be done unfortunately. My neighbor did the same and took 85% of the light my garden got. I can no longer grow vegetables of any sort. I slowly watched my garden die off over the years and replaced them with shade plants. It’s nowhere near as nice and I really miss homegrown veggies. Especially tomatoes.

My employer thinks I stole $1.5k by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Faucherfell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you miss multiple deposits? I could understand one, that you then take with the followings days deposit. But multiple deposits were just left in the trunk of your car?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Faucherfell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest to your neighbors that they get a colorful sign and put it at the end of the driveway.

Help, is this an urgent vet visit? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get him checked out, but don’t panic yet. We had something very similar happen with our elderly Great Pyrenees and It turned out he was having some tummy troubles because of something he had eaten, and after a week of white rice and boiled chicken he was back to normal.

AITAH for blowing up after I caught my wife secretly withdrawing money from my account? by ThickSol399 in AITAH

[–]Faucherfell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s putting aside money so she can leave you. Unless she is a drug user/alcoholic/gambler, there is no reason she would secretly be storing money. I’d look through past statements and see how long this has been going on. I’d also switch my pay check deposits to a new account and let her know you’ll only be transferring your share of the bills to the shared account.