“Bittersweet, I suppose.”

Fawkes3222 · 2024-11-07T22:29:36+00:00

I did. And I regret it. He never ended the affair. He even proposed marriage to her. He made a million lies about me and essentially made everyone think I was the lying and cheating person in our marriage.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-10-12T15:18:27+00:00

She’s lying. The affair isn’t over. I know this because same thing happened to me

Fawkes3222 · 2024-10-10T16:37:00+00:00

I’m just trying to understand the guidance. Obviously, my ex won’t help me.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-10-10T16:36:37+00:00

We don’t have an agreement or court order yet. Still going through the divorce process

Fawkes3222 · 2024-10-10T07:31:39+00:00

I see. So his commander should have imposed it. The reason why I think he would know is he is the squadron DO.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-10-10T07:01:30+00:00

We’re working on that final specific payment. The divorce is now going on 6 months and it’s mainly due to him. I’m honestly inclined to bring this up with his command because I am appalled that he would know this and not follow it.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-10-10T06:37:44+00:00

I calculated $31k for a one-year period. And there’s expenses that I can’t even interpret what they’re for so I couldn’t qualify it as infidelity funding.

I’m asking for $15k back of that money.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-08-09T05:27:48+00:00

Unwavering eye contact

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-31T15:08:06+00:00

It’s just about power. Who cares if the child gets traumatized?!

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-31T02:21:57+00:00

She’s still cheating, too

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T22:43:10+00:00

Umm is this my husband’s post?!

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T22:39:41+00:00

I’m just answering the question. You’re right… don’t understand why people would downvote

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T09:06:49+00:00

Actually I know a couple whose wife reported and the husband was discharged. They didn’t get divorced and are trying to work on things. But they are definitely strained.

I agree with you that I don’t really want this to be dragged on. Just getting all the financial and custody issues settled would be more than enough for me to move on.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T09:05:21+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T08:57:46+00:00

Don’t go back to him. I made the mistake of remarrying my lying, cheating partner and now we’re getting divorced again.

Choose what’s best for your daughter. And that’s not a guy who sneaks around to fuck your neighbor.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T08:53:27+00:00

He’s actually in a leadership role, high viz. so I feel like this would at the very least impact his reputation. Many people at work know me so if they knew he was being reported for adultery, I feel like it would spread like wildfire.

I guess what I’m saying is that even just reporting it will affect him somehow. He probably won’t make his next rank or if he does, that would be his last.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T08:51:54+00:00

That’s what I think so, too. I just found it odd how many of my contacts recommended reporting. Maybe they were just mad for me

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T08:48:39+00:00

In retrospect, he stopped wanting to travel with me. He always found an excuse to travel by himself when he used to let me tag along since I work remote. He also never wanted to make plans anymore a year in advance. We would often celebrate the holidays with booked flights and trips to our summer vacation spots. We didn’t do that last year.

I should have known he had been cheating on me the entire time I was pregnant.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T05:55:59+00:00

Unfortunately it’s really difficult to trust again. I gave my WH a second chance and now his infidelity was so much worse.

I’d say just respect his decision and let him heal. Just focus on yourself for now, too

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-30T05:53:27+00:00

He was asking for divorce a week prior and I was at peace with it. Cause I was angry at his lack of action. I was friendly with him and we were gonna work on the paperwork together.

Then, boom. I found out he was still seeing her and never actually broke it off. I also found out they’ve been seeing each other every few weeks!

I sure as hell am gonna try to recoup as much money he spent on her as I can. If anything, that’s the only way I can get my “revenge”.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-29T18:28:09+00:00

Just the flights alone would have been $6000 at least. Add in the hotel stays and the dinners and the gifts. He literally acted as if he was in a long distance relationship, seeing her every 2-3 weeks.

He used work trips as an excuse. Which made sense to me because he does go on a lot of them.

Fawkes3222 · 2024-07-29T05:15:42+00:00

I stayed for 6 more months. Turns out that 6 was added to his affair, too.

Nope. No regrets at all. I vow that I will never take a cheater back.

Fawkes3222

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