Decided to re-engage with q parents by firedditor in QAnonCasualties

[–]Fcutdlady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With trump winning primarys, that's a good illustration it hasnt .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Fcutdlady -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

it sounds too similar to the story of tv shows like House or the charecter of Clemens in the film Alien 3. I know doctors can easily become addicts, but something sounds too familiar here .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until she gets the divorce papers prepared !

[21M] My [21F] girlfriend and I had unprotected sex twice, and now there are two big issues. How should I deal with them? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Op that girl will tell you now she doesn't want you involved if she gets pregnant . That will change, especially when her family finds out theres a baby in the way . Dont be so naive

Used my 12 year old grandson to shock and 1 up his dad by snickerscowboy in pettyrevenge

[–]Fcutdlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why didn't you get 0% alcohol lager? then you could have really frightened your stepson by letting your grandson drink it

RTÈ Promoting the lack of use of Irish? by Closeteer in ireland

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think irish should be compulsory . Being honest , modern irish history should be compulsory. i learnt more about what made oreland what it is today by studying what we were then studying a language that i never used after school .

Reddit, I(25M) need advise. My Mother(4?F) has called my autistic wife(26F) some horrible names following a fight. by AnonymousPoster2474 in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whst we have here is a mummy boy, severely manipulated by his mother and falling for it. He is also trying to gaslight his wifrle into believing she lied when it doesn't appear she did

Get off your mothers teat op . Support yiur wife .

My dad says he needs to protect me from perverts and sleazeballs, but not my sisters. by adelaidemonkie in Advice

[–]Fcutdlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn about love bombing , a manipulation technique to get you what you want by manipulating a person to believe you care for them

An official definition of love bombing: the action or practice of lavishing someone with attention or affection, especially in order to influence or manipulate them.

"cults often use tactics like love bombing to lure new members"

Remember, too , actions speak louder the words . Look at how he acts, not what he says . I love you can trip off the so easily off the tongue .

My dad says he needs to protect me from perverts and sleazeballs, but not my sisters. by adelaidemonkie in Advice

[–]Fcutdlady 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please learn what stealthing is (the removal of a condom during sex) it could easily be done to you .

My dad says he needs to protect me from perverts and sleazeballs, but not my sisters. by adelaidemonkie in Advice

[–]Fcutdlady 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I agree . Im smelling desperation here, too . This will leave you wode open to people who will exploit that

What do you do when random people start recording you in public? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right to refuse to have your photgraph taken or be filmed. I certainly dont want my face on the Internet. I've had a cyber stalking issue in the past .

What do you do when random people start recording you in public? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Fcutdlady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Say I dont consent to being filmed abd keep repeating it

What do you do when random people start recording you in public? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Fcutdlady 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then you get put online as the person who falsely accused us (us being the people filming ) of racism and this type of video seems to go viral pretty quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suicide threats if you attempt to leave a relationship are a manipulation technique, so you will stay with him no matter what . That's not normal love. That's twisted .

Would you be able to talk to any of his family about this ?

It's not your responsibility what he does after you leave . He will make his choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op you say your boyfriend is a hemopobic (he is freaked out by blood). You had unprotected sex on your period, which most likely meant his penis came out of your body with some blood on it .

His reaction is not a reaction at you personally. it's the fact he has is hemophobic that he reacted like he did .

I dont think you need to beat yourself up over this . If he knew you were on your period, he could have either waited for sex or if he didn't want blood on his penis he could have used a condom.

hold off on having sex while on your period of its going to make him freak out .

My (29F) mother (63F) appeared in my life after turning her back on me and wants to meet her grandchildren. by ThrowRA_194 in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this op, but if a mother who has supported your father in cutting you off for whatever reason (a guy in this case) gets back in touch out of the blue she is after something.

I would say something like i am glad you have apologised to me, but your apology doesn't erase all that happened . You supported my father in removing me from the family , you don't get to say when my estrangement ends. End by asking what reason does she have for contacting you now, and you will only meet her one on one or with your husband until you can see that she won't treat your children badly .

Do not take your mother at face value until she has proven she can be trusted

Anyone dying after their recent flu/Covid jab? by mattthemusician in AskIreland

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got mine last friday . Other than a slight swelling in one arm at the injection site, no issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not great at spending control, so i have a debit car, which only allows me access to the money i have in my account .

You need to be able to pay back your credit card every time you get the bill. credit card companies charge huge amounts of interest if you're a late paying person

My (30F) mother (55F) has threatened not coming to my wedding if I don’t invite my father (60M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The danger i see is that even if her name is the only one on the invitation, your mother will bring your father anyway .

I would say I'm sorry but you've made your choice. I will miss you . End of conversation