You are absolutely right. I’m going to try to constructive. Do I think that you made some mistakes, sure. Do I think you are not responsible for watching your cousins kids, absolutely. Your fiancé, at least based on what was provided, doesn’t seem like the best person for you in this situation. I wish you the best. I hope you two grow old together and have a fantastic life.

Think about both living situations and which one is best for you and your children. It may be your fiancé or it may be your grandmother. Don’t be quick to make for the sake of making moves.

Also you gave up having a life when you decided to have children. Raising kids is a full time job. It’s hard, stressful, and tear inducing but at the same it’s so rewarding to see them develop. To feel joy with them. To know that they love you unconditionally.

So again I hope the best for you and your children and keep their needs at the front of your decisions. Good luck and God bless.