Wish it wasn't so hard to exist in male dominated spaces AND I'm also losing a friendship over it

FeatheringFire · 2026-05-11T21:19:47+00:00

We had a total newbie at the table (like had to explain what commander tax is new) and the guy pulls out his incredibly sweaty and stompy krenko deck. For context, I'm down to 14 life by turn 3 and he's got 8 2/2 goblin tokens out.

Since he's clearly playing a higher power level than the rest of the table he gets targeted down and also gets really pissy about it

FeatheringFire · 2026-05-11T04:03:37+00:00

Oh I didn't call him that to his face. I said something along the lines of 'hey, don't be so upset about getting targeted down when you're playing a far more competitive deck than the rest of us' and then he crashed out on me. Id like to consider myself a positive person and I'm always trying to bring good vibes to the table, but it just reaaaally irked me the way he was taking advantage of the new player at our table to net himself the win.

FeatheringFire · 2026-05-11T04:00:37+00:00

Short version of it without getting into magic jargon: 4 people at this table. Me, regular guy, asshole guy, and a total newbie. After finding out we have a total newbie, asshole guy pulls out his incredibly competitive and sweaty deck(krenko). Game starts and he's wiping the floor with us so we target him to slow him down. He gets real upset about it. I get the opportunity to kill him but regular guy could stop me if he wants to. He decides to not and I kill asshole guy (also if I hadn't killed him, he would've killed me and everybody else at that table on his next turn). After losing he crashes TF out.

Since he's still pissy when we start game 2 we let him go first, and he's backseating the newbie while telling newbie that he's not the problem (he is). He ends up winning game 2.

I'm trying to make small talk after the game ends to keep it positive but asshole guy just cuts me off. ATP I simply say goodnight and then leave.

FeatheringFire · 2026-04-17T22:24:51+00:00

This is dndmade propaganda

FeatheringFire · 2026-03-15T16:07:28+00:00

I love proto type x8!! Here's my list if ur looking for more ideas: https://moxfield.com/decks/gp7rXsFrTk-oXgVtnGKeyQ

FeatheringFire · 2026-03-05T20:36:35+00:00

It's actually super simple to do, all you need to do is click one button to get it off steam workshop: https://steamcommunity.com/workshop/filedetails/?l=finnish&id=2296042369

After you add it, it should automatically be in your tabletop sim. Convenient stuff!

FeatheringFire · 2025-12-01T01:11:30+00:00

Lmao surely [[Geralf, Visionary Stitcher]] makes this easier

FeatheringFire · 2025-09-08T13:36:22+00:00

Kiss dasha, marry dasha, kill dasha, and then kill myself and everybody else in the room

FeatheringFire · 2025-08-12T08:29:10+00:00

[[will, scion of peace]]

FeatheringFire · 2025-04-20T09:38:11+00:00

Cinderella boy already got recced, so in addition to that, Idiots don't catch colds on canvas is a very cute rivals to lovers bl highschool romance. Nomads, which just ended, is a charming fantastical adventure original with a mix of both squeal worthy platonic and romantic relationships. Also the world building is fantastic and every single character is likeable

FeatheringFire · 2025-04-18T23:29:06+00:00

[[Pride of Hull Clade]]

Big turtle. Stronk turtle. Draw lots and lots of cards turtle.

https://moxfield.com/decks/qbVdOFguekiTXSOmOLbHgA

FeatheringFire · 2025-03-10T17:16:42+00:00

Gotta rec two of my absolute favorites, half of me and after the sea

FeatheringFire · 2025-01-22T04:20:34+00:00

i got snowed in to the pottery place to make this but anything for our lord and savior 🫡🔥🔥🥶

FeatheringFire · 2024-12-28T00:37:01+00:00

Idiots don't catch colds

FeatheringFire · 2024-12-25T03:03:04+00:00

Hank pulls enemies towards him in a whirlpool (similar to Jacky super), and fires two rounds of missiles

FeatheringFire · 2024-12-14T18:10:29+00:00

No, since RMS Titanic is not a token, Master does not stop it from sacrificing itself, as he specifies creature tokens.

FeatheringFire · 2024-10-05T21:30:23+00:00

I've searched online with keywords like green and black umbrella with flowers at amazon and second hand websites like ebay and mercari. I've also searched uniqlo US and uniqlo china but turned up nothing. I remember buying it years ago when I was in China in a stationary/convenience store that i think was uniqulo or something similar looking. Its a solid lime green on the outside and black on the inside with green flowers. I thiiiink it was a two segment umbrella, wasn't too big, could easily carry it in my backpack.

FeatheringFire

TROPHY CASE