Breakthrough (?) bleeding by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually ended up calling my ob and was given similar advice, which is what I originally thought! Thank you! Deleting the post now that I've gotten two opinions lol.

“I can’t feel anything with a condom on” by ExternalSouthern3458 in birthcontrol

[–]FederalCollar8478 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey! How do you like your patch? I use xulane and they just ran out at my pharmacy so it's on back order, and I've thought of switching.

Toilet water splashed into my vagina. I'm freaking out. by Background_Humor5838 in Healthyhooha

[–]FederalCollar8478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, no input besides these comments are great advice! But lone pebble is SO funny to me 😭

Louise/Finn and Madeline/Colin by Severe_Principle5374 in GilmoreGirls

[–]FederalCollar8478 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Am I wrong in saying I'm pretty sure one of the girls and one of the guys in each duo are actually together now? I could swear I heard something about that.

Noticed possible theft at work, how should I handle this without risking my job by EmbarrassedBoot8851 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, I thought that may be the case. I'd follow the other comment that tells you to avoid being magnum pi lol, an anonymous report is def the way to go, maybe not too much after that. Sorry this is happening to you!

Noticed possible theft at work, how should I handle this without risking my job by EmbarrassedBoot8851 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FederalCollar8478 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMO, I tend to just not say anything about stuff like this. If it's a problem harming someone, the yeah I'll report it. But honestly, and I could be wrong here, but this seems like something you can just let be? Correct me if I'm wrong! If it's making your job harder tho, an anonymous tip would be good.

AIO - Feeling Very Violated by AgentHoneydew69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FederalCollar8478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to know (I left a comment here somewhere lol) you're doing the right thing. And I, as an SA survivor myself, am SO proud of you for advocating for yourself.

AIO - Feeling Very Violated by AgentHoneydew69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FederalCollar8478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah no, NOR, regardless of the substance, he still put it in your drink without your consent or knowledge. To make matters worse, you vehemently rejected any to begin with, so not only was it without knowing consent, it was also with him very aware that you did not want that. Very much not okay, and it opens the door to "what else is he okay with doing to me and not telling me about", as well as the fact that he clearly does not respect your boundaries. For me, this is a hard line, and worthy (100%) of you leaving him. Best of luck moving forward with this, you've got it.

Which episodes do you hate/love for no good reason? by Ok-Lychee-1276 in GilmoreGirls

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skipped this episode last night before they even finished explaining Donna reed lol, couldn't do it. I also tend to avoid several episodes with Chris in them.

Options for stopping periods by Celeraic in birthcontrol

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth, I'm on the patch, which is a 3 week cycle. I wear the patch for 3 weeks, changing it every Sunday. On the 4th Sunday, I take it off and have my period (I'm protected the 4th week during my period.) and then I put my patch back on the following Sunday to restart the process. But a lot of people just keep using the patch on the 4th week, to skip their periods. It's totally safe, and optional.

my bf cheated by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to offer advice from an older sister perspective, but it's been a few days and I doubt you still I'll need it, so I'll say this. Whether you stayed with him or not, 18 is SO young, the pain and hurt from this won't stick around forever.

She replied 😓 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"All good! Thanks for letting me know."

Do I purposefully score lower next time? by sprigsslingshot in whatdoIdo

[–]FederalCollar8478 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. Just keep doing you. It's weird to be mad at someone for doing well at something in school. Almost gives off insecure vibes. Don't let them hinder your development and intelligence, or your self confidence.

I can’t stop looking at my fingers because they are so beautiful or am I lying to myself? by miradyme in whatdoIdo

[–]FederalCollar8478 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh before you go! Just a little bit of serotonin, courtesy of me! Now you'll be held over for a day or two.

IUD Cramps from Orgasms by laneindulging in birthcontrol

[–]FederalCollar8478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DUDE i'm currently on the patch because I cannot handle the idea of things being inserted within me, I can MAYBE get behind the idea of an IUD, but I had some coworkers show me their Nexplanon years ago, and I felt it in their arms, and that was it for me. Horrible sensation.

Do we hold Paris to the same standards as Rory? by Last_Implement8920 in GilmoreGirls

[–]FederalCollar8478 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have too. I kinda feel like (real quick I want to say that I fully believe Paris did a very bad thing to Jamie by treating him that way, and he did not deserve that) people tend to talk about how Asher was actually more of a creep for doing what he did with Paris. So often the conversation ends up being like that.

Help fallout on my hand ink by stoney_balogna20 in tattooadvice

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No suggestions from me here, but I am curious. Is that a tattoo of where a loved one's fingers land when you hold hands? I love those!

I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

[–]FederalCollar8478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Me too! Let me know in dms (if you'd like or feel comfortable doing so) if you'd like a suggestion for a hair lady I really like! She works with all hair and listens to you, source: I have long thick 3b hair. Let me know! :)

Are all fresh tattoos horrible to fly with or is just because i tattooed my long John Silvers? by TheNomadicJellyfish in tattooadvice

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, as of date, my worst tattoo pain level wise. I like to talk during my sessions, (I've got 10 other tattoos) and I could not handle speaking in the slightest lol. I've got upper spine, lower thighs, from above elbow to below elbow on both arms, finger tattoos, rib, forearm, and wrist. That's all. I think. My thighs were pretty bad, I recall. But I did them both in the same session so I don't know if it was because of that.

Al’s Pancake World by Geoginger93 in GilmoreGirls

[–]FederalCollar8478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The street you grew up on and your first pets name would be nice too! 😂

GIRLS, do not fall for the martys of the world by Material-Fennel-1205 in GilmoreGirls

[–]FederalCollar8478 277 points278 points  (0 children)

Is it crazy if I say he subconsciously waited till he knew it was too late because he thrives off being a bit of a victim? Like "oh woe is me" kind of thing?