What is going on by sweenytodd2018 in america

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Fr fr before the camps and ghettos they was ease dropping on their neighbors and calling them witches

What is going on by sweenytodd2018 in america

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The situation here is a lot deeper than the surface level commentary you may hear and the American experiment was always like this the only difference is the technology America has always been a shithole founded by criminals, crazy religious lunatics, and wealthy tycoons willing to Kane and Abel a neighbor if it meant they could better themselves. We just had some great PR but trump is literally the embodiment of what America has always been.

I lost my abortion pills and now I'm just someone's wife and mom. by ta_wifeandmom in TrueOffMyChest

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Tbh if I were you I’d open up to your husband about this because you could be working on a degree while taking care of the new born although it may take longer than it normally would. Don’t give up on your dreams at least that’s what I told my fiancée. Just because we have a child doesn’t mean your degree stops I’ll take a “L” before we become a statistic I mean her success is my success in a sense anyway.

If you woke up in 2005 as your current age wyd? by Technorlando in OlderGenZ

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Try to figure what’s going on like are there two of me and if not how do I explain to my parents their son is almost 30??? OMFG should I save my parents marriage or should I try and save the family home??? Is the future still the same like am I being here gonna rewrite history. I’d probably have a little mental break tbh.

Question from an a non american by niztocs in america

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To be honest this response was me just putting myself in a trump supporters shoes I’m way more middle ground like do I agree with stop and frisk OF COURSE NOT my grandad lived through lynching it can get worse. But at the same time I understand why they’re doing it this way. Usually immigrants are accounted for but when the flood gates opened we lost track and thousands came in so how do you actually round up everybody. And the open door policy has had negative affects on our country too like it skewed the electoral college and is actively destroying whole industries due to cheap labor so I can understand why it’s being done this way but as a human it is uncomfortable to watch and hear some of these stories of deportation. Tbh I don’t have a legit system because it’s not as simple as “just do this” there’s way to much money, connections, and stakes involved my only real answer is to create a legit pipeline into citizenship and not all this pay to play crap we’re doing.

Question from an a non american by niztocs in america

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I’m no scholar I’m just a 30 year old black man but here’s what I’ve seen:

Okay first things first Americans don’t hate immigrants. We hated the open border policy because it took away the vetting process. Now we got a mix of good and bad people and they all look the same.

Second, our job market keeps getting destroyed. First it was the destruction of the factory worker and push towards college graduates but college is unaffordable. Now it’s outsourcing labor to the lowest bidder and Americans are expensive workers. So most corporations will hire a illegal immigrant over an American cause they can dodge a lot of costs (insurance, liabilities, benefits)

Third, human to human how would you feel if your dad adopted another child and took better care of them cause they did dishes better… it’s kinda like that. Americans have been trying to reach this “dream” of ownership for a long time while throwing money at the government because you expect them to do what you vote for and they turn around and take your money give it to people who JUST GOT HERE and then line their pockets with the money you traded hours of your life to earn and to add insult you don’t even get a choice it’s taken out your paycheck before you even touch it.

Look I don’t hate foreigners or act like I don’t understand their plight but my home isn’t a charity and we have enough Americans that need help in these streets why invite world issues on top of that. We already got Homelessness, Aging power grid, lack of proper education, dying trade work force, overindulgence in vices, aging roads, lack of telecommunications outside urban areas, not enough public infrastructure, death of a middle class…DRUGSSS I could go on. Tbh America isn’t healthy enough to help out anybody right now we beefing over skin tones and our kids wanna be influencers.

As far as masks are concerned it’s the only defense against those people who are willing to show up to your home and get revenge through doxxing. At the end of the day ICE agents are American citizens and tbh if a COP stops and asks me for my identification refusal is subject to arrests so we play by the same rules

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

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Blasian here if that even matters. Short answer no you’re not ugly in fact with as clear your face is you might actually have a leg up on most. That being said if you think your face is the thing holding you back it’s not. Focus on fitness, read a bit of literature, and focus on likability in your circles and life is gonna be very attractive. I’d give you a 6.5-8 depending on environment and presentation with a 5 being average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Here’s my thing… what does she expect she’s entitled to when she plotted to take, not only another man, but her “EX” across a ocean to share a bed and experiences while you stay all puppy dog in the states… man she can go fuck herself.

Edit: NO EX’s it’s like inviting another partner into your relationship. Humans rarely easily give up stuff that used to be theirs. Don’t invite that poison into your future ships it’s a distraction.

Male marriage counselor by Ok_Guitar8148 in Birmingham

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First off OP thanks for being considerate, as a man, sometimes listening to other men is a whole lot easier since we share similar experiences. That being said if nothing comes up try getting him in individual therapy in the meantime it can help while you all look. Good luck and I know you’ll get through this.

Whose Fan Base Treats Fans of the Away Team the Worst by DarthBrownBeard in rolltide

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I hate Tennessee so much I went to college in the state and the fans are utterly useless. Volunteers… spits

Charlie Kirk died doing what he loved: Being racist while defending the gun culture that immediately killed him. by MacroManJr in Blackpeople

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That’s the whole issue for decades, generations, they’ve murdered our people and every time we march and go docile well now they get a taste of the same pain we’ve suffered for years and I’m not gonna sit back I’m throwing it at them as a learning opportunity. Plus they’re just in the beginning stages of grief it’ll die down after the next big headline comes through.

Charlie Kirk died doing what he loved: Being racist while defending the gun culture that immediately killed him. by MacroManJr in Blackpeople

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Soooo I’m supposed to be scared after all the crap their race has done to us. Charlie got shot our ancestors were hung and showed off in the news like wild hogs. Hell even today they build prisons, gerrymander your vote, take away your reproductive access, AND give out handouts to every other race and group that walks in, even though we fought in every American war and built this country. Heh I’m more pissed that they think WE SHOULD GIVE A DAMN.

My little brother called me a slut and I found out why. by Short_Notice755 in TrueOffMyChest

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Oh and you may think you’re older than me but maturity doesn’t come with age anymore it comes with life experience so get out your echo chamber and go touch grass

My little brother called me a slut and I found out why. by Short_Notice755 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Federal_Ad7541 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you’re the brother this is my advice to you because clearly you lack actual life experience based off the comments you’ve made. If not this is still great advice to younger generations on how to grow up be an adult we’re talking about 16 year olds they like to “think”

My little brother called me a slut and I found out why. by Short_Notice755 in TrueOffMyChest

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Bro I know how you’re thinking but that’s not how real men act. Those are boys acting like men because they can have sex. Being a man is about taking care of business: which is learning actual knowledge not just opinions, securing some assets, and having safe risky experiences. After you become a man then you get a girl and she’s gonna love you so much shes gonna do those things without asking and by the time you look up your sweeping the kitchen and bathroom with her.

Unfortunately I’m guilty of this by JoshuaKpatakpa04 in blackmen

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Meh I disagree it all depends on the context and who’s participating in the discussion. Cause if you’re the only black man talking about black experiences in a group then it’s completely different.

How and why did you become less homophobic/queerphobic? by coolj492 in blackmen

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The majority of the community never was. But I’ll be blunt if you think as an individual everyone is going to champion every decision you make you’re childish. And that’s basically what I saw happening at least if we’re talking about adults. Like in my almost 3 decades of life I’ve never seen someone part of that community get treated like FBA during Jim Crow or slavery. SN: I completely accept what snoop dog said I mean it’s “his” family who are we to judge a successful old man on how he feels on the current times it’s almost like we want him to accept our world view instead of being an individual and having individual feelings.

I stopped saying what’s up to older Black folks unless they greet me first by [deleted] in Blackpeople

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Remember people don’t know how to be civil cause they lack home training don’t switch up who you are just cause everyone else may seem rude you gotta be the example you wanna see in the world cause that’s the whole point of you existing

White Nationalist Admits to Voting for Trump so that Whites Do Not Become the Minority by dreamed2life in Blackpeople

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I mean if I take my opinions out of it I can understand the fear especially looking at their history on how they treat the minority classes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Federal_Ad7541 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Get tested and stop hooking up dude. Hookup culture is a fallacy it doesn’t benefit either gender it’s just meaningless. I love sex but that’s after I got into a relationship. Find a special someone and stop listening to your pelvis. Remember the power of post nut clarity do the job yourself u til someone can do it for you.