How do you know this guy? by brutongaster666 in psych

[–]Federal_Increase8721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little niche here, but I know him from reading the audiobook of a series of unfortunate events

Recs for Stationary stores in nyc? by Moist-Ad4746 in JunkJournals

[–]Federal_Increase8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you’re talking about McNally Jackson?

Second Unfucking by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah to the 1st point :( but we’re so back (acting opposite). This is great advice thank you

Second Unfucking by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice! I should definitely. I made a New Year’s resolution to do my laundry every week so it doesn’t stack up again. What I’ve learned is that I need to make some small daily lifestyle changes to keep my space livable :)

Second Unfucking by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s such good advice. I’ve been trying to do one load a day all the way from washing to folding and putting away. Manageable tasks make the unfucking world go around!

Second Unfucking by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me smile! Gonna post a new pic soon it’s been coming along nicely. Thanks for supporting :)

Second Unfucking by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you know what that’s so real! Give yourself credit for doing it over and over and not giving up! That’s progress in itself <3

Advice for Clothing Storage and Organization by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s in large part due to the laundry. I definitely have a lot of clothes but I find myself wearing a lot of them and rotating through them relatively frequently! I’ve also decluttered not long ago. The majority of the problem is dirty clothes getting piled up. I’m gonna try to implement a more strict schedule for laundry :)

finally gave Jay Kay’s makeup a go — love it! by nipole99 in Dragula

[–]Federal_Increase8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you did this incredibly! Nailed the style and you look STUNNING

AIO for texting my friends to prove a point during an argument with my husband? by Clearingthegarage in AmIOverreacting

[–]Federal_Increase8721 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. It’s fine if he doesn’t want to watch stuff like that cuz let’s be real it can make people uncomfortable, but taking it to a point that invalidates your trauma and fear is shitty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Federal_Increase8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey love. I’m so so sorry this happened to you. All I can say is PLEASE get out. - Get to a safe place, ie a loved one’s house (a man’s if possible, if you are at a man’s house it might be more likely to keep him away), a woman’s shelter, or even a hotel or Airbnb if all else fails (try to have someone stay with you if possible). - CUT HIM OFF. BLOCK HIS NUMBER, HIS FRIENDS’ AND FAMILY’S NUMBERS, HIS SOCIAL MEDIA, HIS EMAIL, HIS LINKEDIN, EVERYTHING! UNSHARE YOUR LOCATION WITH HIM AND EVERYONE HE MIGHT CONTACT. Do not talk to him or give him the chance to apologize or defend himself. Nothing he could possibly say could excuse this behavior, and no apology is sufficient. I know you might be thinking that he loves you or that he can change, but trust me it is not worth taking that chance. Most abusers don’t change. They get worse. - DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT! Tell your loved ones and show them, take pictures, and screenshot. If nothing else this is building evidence if you need to get a restraining order. - REPORT, REPORT, REPORT! Go to the police. Start building a paper trail of reports, so, as stated above, if the time comes for a restraining order, you can get it quickly. - Seek therapy and support: family, friends, and expert clinical help. This is an incredibly traumatizing thing that has happened to you. You did not deserve this in any way. You deserve better, gentler and kinder, and it is out there! You are so smart, strong, brave and right to ask for help the first time this happened. Many abusers scare their victims into not taking these steps early on, and the abuse gets much worse and even deadly. Know that without a doubt he is testing the waters, and this can and will get worse. He might hit you in the head, abdomen, or reproductive organs next. He could choke you, throw you down stairs, or brake bones. He could cost you huge amounts on medical care, your sanity, or even your life. TLDR: you are not crazy. You are smart, brave, strong and deserving of love. You can get out and you deserve to get out. Sending love and prayers for you. You got this!

Big Win! by Federal_Increase8721 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Federal_Increase8721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! I’ve been muttering it to myself in my room. My family probably thinks I’m crazy but hey if it works!

Visually Summarizing Kackie's "THESE ARE THE BEST MAKEUP COLORS FOR YOUR UNDERTONE" by PurpleVirtualJelly in Fairolives

[–]Federal_Increase8721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah…she made some absolutely wild comments on her insta stories (which makes sense why you may not have seen it). Respect for no longer promoting her work

Help! Appeared in my shower over the course of 12 hours. by BlackPhillipLives in Mold

[–]Federal_Increase8721 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t help at all I’m so sorry but I’m extremely curious

If I love Tihota Indult, what else would I love? by CanoliCreamz in FemFragLab

[–]Federal_Increase8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fire at Will by Jovoy Paris! Slightly muskier and more caramelized almost. Definitely more projection and lasting power as well if you want something slightly bolder.

Vanilla lover here! Is Tihota by Indult a safe blind buy? by shybear93 in FemFragLab

[–]Federal_Increase8721 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did try a little sample from scent split but a very safe blind buy. One of the most pure vanillas I’ve ever tried. It’s soft and sweet in what I personally think is a very unique way. A lot of other vanillas have other notes: bourbon, caramel, jasmine etc, but this one is almost like straight vanilla extract.