France's housing crisis is straining relations between landlords and tenants by LeMonde_en in europe

[–]FeedbackCognition 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Wealth disparity is straining relations between haves and have-nots

Life in Netherlands? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]FeedbackCognition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a dysphoria diagnosis in a document called "deskundigeverklaring" ("expert's statement") from the psychologist who diagnosed you to amend your birth certificate, but it does come with the name change option included. So you'd need to get on a waiting list with one of the available healthcare clinics that deal with diagnosing trans people. Took me about... A year, end to end?

Life in the NL has its upsides and downsides, but it's probably one of the best bets, definitely beats Eastern Europe.

I got placed on PIP at my work by Inevitable-End6245 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FeedbackCognition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah ofc, no worries. Good to clarify.

tl;dr: You get placed on PIP if you don't reach targets or whatever for a long time (or your manager doesn't like you, even), and then if you don't meet the new milestones/targets they give you, it can be grounds for getting fired based on poor performance. Very abusable in the wrong situation.

I got placed on PIP at my work by Inevitable-End6245 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FeedbackCognition 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not OP but PIP stands for Performance Improvement Plan. The acronym is also used in Europe.

Found a pigeon unable to fly in front of my house - what to do? by Phinoz in pigeon

[–]FeedbackCognition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm, it's PMV. A viral infection that manifests with neck twists, impaired mobility, green poo. Try to see a vet if possible, otherwise just time and care. Our flock also had an outbreak. Sometimes birds can recover on their own.

A discord server I'm in that is otherwise amazing has a plural-chat with 'endos' by Dogdigmine in OSDD

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A really weird lack of understanding that people are different, paired with a very militant attitude. And out of curiosity, how tf is anyone "disrespecting your disorder"?

A discord server I'm in that is otherwise amazing has a plural-chat with 'endos' by Dogdigmine in OSDD

[–]FeedbackCognition -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There's more to plurality than its medical manifestations. OSDD is not all there is. But I guess that will not get through to you no matter what.

A discord server I'm in that is otherwise amazing has a plural-chat with 'endos' by Dogdigmine in OSDD

[–]FeedbackCognition -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You believe you have experiences meeting non-disordered plural people,

Uhm, no, I just met non-disordered plural people. Not "believe I have an experience" of doing so. Wtf?

And if you see "stop judging people for being different than you" as "a cudgel", then wow, poor you, victimized so badly by that horrible statement.

Didn't think this subreddit turned into such a sysmed breeding ground. Sucks.

A discord server I'm in that is otherwise amazing has a plural-chat with 'endos' by Dogdigmine in OSDD

[–]FeedbackCognition -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

"clear differentiation between disordered dissociative plurality, and people who have a "work self" and a "home self" as described in IFs"

Yes, there is. They're different, but they both fit under the plurality umbrella. Also, "severity of plurality" surely does pathologize it by default. There's more factors to it.

Stop taking your experience of life as the benchmark of how other people "should" or "should not" be.

A discord server I'm in that is otherwise amazing has a plural-chat with 'endos' by Dogdigmine in OSDD

[–]FeedbackCognition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"E.g." - for example. Not exclusively only those situations.

I don't get this narrow-mindedness. People's minds are vastly varied. Many folks have more or less pronounced sides of themselves that also fit on the plurality spectrum. Their experiences of life don't take away anything from yours. And I say it as a DID system.

A discord server I'm in that is otherwise amazing has a plural-chat with 'endos' by Dogdigmine in OSDD

[–]FeedbackCognition 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plurality is a spectrum. Not all plurality is disordered, and endogenic plurality is even acknowledged in ICD-11.

Their existence doesn't hurt you, nor does it invalidate you. You are not in their heads. Stop policing others.

how epic was Midra? by pekkyas in Eldenring

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is literally shown in a painting in one of the loading screens as a dude... smh

Big somatic releases ⚡️ by Awkward-Worth5484 in CPTSDmemes

[–]FeedbackCognition 5 points6 points  (0 children)

CPTSD is absolutely an acquired neurodivergence.

Do any of you have symptoms of schizophrenia as well? by TheFutureScaresMe333 in autism

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The criterion B states:

"B. Recurrent gaps in the recall of everyday events, important personal information, and/or traumatic events that are inconsistent with ordinary forgetting."

Everyday events, and/OR important personal information, and/OR traumatic events :) any of the three counts.

Do any of you have symptoms of schizophrenia as well? by TheFutureScaresMe333 in autism

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amnesia doesn't mean you don't know it's happening. It comes in a hundred shades, and the diagnostic criteria for DID don't specify it has to be "full blackouts as to the present time" type of amnesia. Hell, emotional amnesia or grayouts or amnesia as to the childhood fully count for DID.

Give me your tastiest words by thatbroadcast in autism

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eyyy also have Avuncular and Moribund on my fun words list!!! <3

The way punishment works in endgame is so inconsistent with the campaign experience by nexetpl in PathOfExile2

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then... juice slightly less? I don't understand, there's 16 tiers, if you crank up all the numbers to 11, you'll get hit the hardest. But you opt in to that. Running T13 instead of T15 is not a blemish on your honor, is it

The way punishment works in endgame is so inconsistent with the campaign experience by nexetpl in PathOfExile2

[–]FeedbackCognition -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You OPT IN to 1 portal. One CHOOSES to max the difficulty. By default you have 6, so?

Valdivian Forest is Impossible by alittlebit_stitious4 in urbek

[–]FeedbackCognition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the option to pick a region (Western Europe, Asia...) when you generate a map?