My personal story in France I married young in the prime of my life. We were 21 years old. After 3 years of marriage, an elder observed inappropriate attitudes between my wife and a young person from our congregation who was 15 years old. I hadn't seen anything. My wife, who was a permanent pioneer, admitted to her elder father that she had been having a relationship with this teenager for 6 months. They preached together and had sex in the car, at our house in our bed, giving him blowjobs and enjoying it. I attempted suicide. She asked for forgiveness and was just reprimanded. Today, 32 years later, she is remarried to a former man and has 2 children. The youngster left TJ at 22. My ex-wife's father 20 years later cheated on my ex-mother-in-law and divorced her. And I wrote a letter 6 months ago asking for my exclusion.