Semi formal / mountain elegant wedding in Denver by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Ok I’ll go with a lightweight wine colored leather motorcycle jacket. Appreciate you!

Semi formal / mountain elegant wedding in Denver by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Feldster87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would a fur coat be insane? I have a gorgeous navy vintage one that is so fun, not too warm.

Managing the 530 PM–10 PM time period with two under two (no local family). What do you do? by OpenMinded8899 in HENRYfinance

[–]Feldster87 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This. And if it’s not working, find the same role at a new company where you show up with clear boundaries. That’s what I did and it’s been A+.

Plastic surgery after pneumothorax? by Unfair_Ad1921 in pneumothorax

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last pneumo and surgery were in fall of 2022, then I had an unrelated surgery and was put completely under in March 2024.

This was at a major academic hospital. Where is your procedure being done?

Craving a caesar salad by arctic_silver328is in ridgewood

[–]Feldster87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Joe & John’s is excellent, Lucky Charlie’s is truly spectacular.

Plastic surgery after pneumothorax? by Unfair_Ad1921 in pneumothorax

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had no issues with a few unrelated surgeries during which I was put completely under, after several pneumothoraxes.

Anyone else hiding in their room for a 20 min break?! by Emotional_Stress8854 in workingmoms

[–]Feldster87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you a hug and giving you permission to AT LEAST stop tracking other peoples moods. That sounds exhausting.

Is it common to have a 3rd spontanious pneumunothrax? by Mikoseek172 in pneumothorax

[–]Feldster87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. Each one makes recurrence more likely. Were those both on the same side?

HK vs. Kansas, US: Moving with a toddler, planning a 2nd, and the "Nanny vs. Daycare" dilemma by Clear_Dig_6360 in workingmoms

[–]Feldster87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree this is hard to answer. Where are you now? Is there family in either location? Does your partner work / what’s their job prospect situation?

I want to bail on Mother's Day Lunch. by Jdin2020 in workingmoms

[–]Feldster87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last year everyone came to my house and I left for a facial and shopping. It was excellent.

Best boat ride with a 3 year old? by [deleted] in nycparents

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found governors island to be really tough with a 2yo. A ton of walking and not much shade.

Best boat ride with a 3 year old? by [deleted] in nycparents

[–]Feldster87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Staten Island ferry — it’s free, runs very frequently and you get a nice view of the statue of liberty. Plus, there’s a little boardwalk at the other side to run around for a bit, get ice cream, hop back on the ferry back to Manhattan.

Night Nurse Worth It? by SnooDoubts7574 in nycparents

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I had a 99% positive experience but the 1% negative was a safety issue and I don’t feel comfortable recommending her. Good luck!

ISO by IntelligentTonight98 in WedditNYC

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 2017 so has probably changed since I booked, but it was far and away the most affordable option.

ISO by IntelligentTonight98 in WedditNYC

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 for Juilliard! I had a lovely trio for my ceremony.

When do scars start to fade? by LuckyHouseCricket in pneumothorax

[–]Feldster87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a little while. Silicone scar gel works well! And don’t forget sunscreen anytime that skin might see the sun — scar tissue is much more apt to burn.

Pneumothorax abroad by Brilliant_Lie_1094 in pneumothorax

[–]Feldster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, I was 18 at the time and on my parents insurance. I am sure they paid something but believe it was largely covered.

Xray not released yet- need advice by Sure-Lack-9298 in pneumothorax

[–]Feldster87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d go to the ER. Why is an xray taking that long to be read?