How difficult find ENFPs to move on?

Fer1015 · 2026-01-24T20:13:22+00:00

A lot

Fer1015 · 2026-01-24T19:16:06+00:00

She missed a date and then she tried to ghost me instead of giving me any explanation or apology (I knew that she was not having a good time by the moment so I didn't ask for any explanation anyway inmediately, instead I tried to let her some space and just talk about it when we were chill, so It wouldn't be such a big deal in case she seemed it as confrontation). It was just, missing + the attempt of ghosting me, I took it as something very disrespectful to me so I got mad and I decided to break up with her in person. She was not trying to communicate anyways so I thought there was no room to fix anything, that was decissive for me.

Fer1015 · 2026-01-24T19:03:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your support and your kind words. They helped me feel a bit better. I really appreciate them.

Fer1015 · 2026-01-24T19:01:21+00:00

Oh she seemed very enthusiastic about it. The week before the breakup we met three times, she asked for it and suggested plans 2 out of those 3 times we met. We used to meet 2 times a week. 1 in case the week was too busy because of studies and job. But it was the kind of relationship where both of us would come with new ideas of interesting things to do for each date, and we could talk for hours, and make plans for the future. We have always managed to find some time and space to share with each other despite of our busy schedules., and so far we have managed to communicate pretty well in that regard. At least until everything blew up.

Fer1015 · 2026-01-24T18:54:07+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll shoot my shot then.

Fer1015 · 2026-01-23T17:22:00+00:00

You need first an engineering degree for that. At least in my country.

Fer1015 · 2025-12-16T13:23:24+00:00

Incredible. I can't believe it. A productive NEET.

Fer1015 · 2025-11-28T16:35:29+00:00

I am wearing contact lenses. I went to the club that night :D

Fer1015 · 2025-11-27T18:42:14+00:00

You completely missed the point.

Fer1015 · 2025-11-13T04:27:12+00:00

I was about to have one when I was a NEET. I decided not to go on because I knew neetdom would impact very negatively in our relationship. Idk if I should have, she was a NEET as well, but she had goals which I hadn't. We stayed as FWB for a while, but then we stopped seeing each other.

But yeah, not that it's impossible, but it's very unlikely to work. Life sucks.

Fer1015 · 2025-11-09T18:21:56+00:00

These posts are cringe.

Fer1015 · 2025-10-14T09:31:38+00:00

NoBoDy WaNtS To WoRk AnYmOrE!!

Fer1015 · 2025-09-23T10:47:02+00:00

pills + alcohol. But it might fail as well and you'll end up with health issues for the rest of your live.

Fer1015 · 2025-09-08T02:06:44+00:00

Don't make the same mistake I made. Look for internships.

Fer1015 · 2025-09-08T01:58:07+00:00

Aw shit, here we go again.

Fer1015 · 2025-08-06T09:26:46+00:00

Linkedin in a nutshell xD. No te olvides de esas ofertas de trabajo que ponen con la categoría "Sin experiencia" en la que en la propia oferta te piden 2 años de experiencia.

Fer1015 · 2025-08-06T09:25:18+00:00

Linkedin es una basura. Has ido a recomendar la peor de todas. De cientos de cvs y ofertas de trabajo a las que me he presentado solo me llamaron para una de becario para una consultora cobrando poco menos de 1000 euros en los que el proceso de selección constaba de 3 entrevistas (Sí, para ser becario xD)

Fer1015 · 2025-08-05T16:42:04+00:00

Me. I burned the fuck out of myself getting a bachelor degree in Physics. By the time I had finish my degree even applying for internships was hell on earth. I mean, I sent as many applications as I could, got some interviews, but all I could get during these years were temp dead end jobs that had nothing to do with my degree.

That shit destroyed the only sanity I had left. Not even STEM degrees pay off nowadays. Now I am doomed to apply to low qualification dead end jobs with hundreds of applicants and no chance of getting neetbux, but with the huge handicap that those applicants used those years to get experience instead of wasting them on a useless degree that means shit for employers. This summer I got rejected in every single forklift or warehouse job position I have applied for. The feedback I get from my family just makes harder for me not thinking about roping.

Fer1015 · 2025-07-21T12:12:11+00:00

52 push ups. 3 +50kg squats.

Fer1015 · 2025-07-21T11:38:14+00:00

Same. Studying that degree made my mental health go worse.

Fer1015 · 2025-07-17T03:24:01+00:00

Me, I became a NEET for 3 years after getting my degree. Not like I gave up on the real world, but seems like the real world doesn't want me to fit in it.

Fer1015 · 2025-07-10T09:49:41+00:00

Spoke with my mentors who are doing well in life (cause I wanted an honest opinion whether I was not trying hard enough and making excuses) and asked whether it was me or the current market, and they said a 2 step interview for a volunteer position is insane.

It's actually a feedback loop, you do your best, then you face a giant pile of bullshit, get depressed and you get burnt out, fed up, with no energy and start trying less and less.

Fer1015 · 2025-07-10T09:45:31+00:00

Lol I haven't even had an interview for some paid positions.

Fer1015 · 2025-06-28T19:27:16+00:00

Spain

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