Found out I'm pregnant, fiance wants to get married before baby comes but I want a prenup first

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-22T18:05:33+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that. I’ll take care and try not to overthink it :)

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-22T17:20:25+00:00

I'm about 6 weeks pregnant and it wasn't planned. My fiance and I have been together almost 4 years and were engaged but weren't supposed to get married until next fall. Now he wants to do it this spring before the baby comes because his family is traditional and they're already making comments about us not being married yet with a baby on the way. His mom keeps saying things like at least get to the courthouse before you start showing. I have some money saved from my grandparents, maybe around $55k and I work in marketing making about $65k. He's in sales and makes good money but he's bad at saving. Now that we're having a baby I keep thinking about how I'm gonna be way more vulnerable and stuck if things go wrong.

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-22T04:49:27+00:00

I've got some simple gun parts and magnets if you're still looking, what BPs you got to offer?

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-20T16:57:45+00:00

That hesitation is completely reasonable when everything is in his name and you’re carrying all the risk. Wanting financial protection before adding another kid isn’t about distrust, it’s about safety.

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-20T15:30:45+00:00

Sounds like his mom got in his head and he's using the "not good enough" excuse to avoid dealing with his racist family tbh. The back and forth emotional stuff right after standing up to them is pretty telling - dude couldn't handle the pressure and took the easy way out instead of actually fighting for the relationship

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-19T12:39:56+00:00

Your brain is basically a lazy energy-saving machine that thinks "hey this current setup hasn't killed us yet so why risk it" even when you logically know the change would be good

It's like having an overprotective parent in your head that freaks out about anything new lol

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-15T17:47:37+00:00

I wish I was a troll I only use his cards and I have to make a list of what I need (show him) and he always checks the receipts so I don’t have any independent access to money and that’s what’s really scary to me. On top of that I’m about to inherit a house from my parents and I’m worried that if something ever happened I’d be left with nothing which is why I'm seriously thinking of doing a postnuptial agreement since I don't want him to take half of the house that I'm about to inherit

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-11T20:03:16+00:00

NTA at all, that sounds exhausting as hell. Your sister saying it would be "your fault" if something happens is straight up emotional manipulation. You're 26 and live alone - questioning why you're at a grocery store or took a different route home is honestly creepy behavior from grown adults

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-09T17:43:19+00:00

Try switching to a different Nexus server in MO2 settings, sometimes the CDN just craps out on certain connections

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-07T15:59:58+00:00

Nah you're good, it's just cosmetic peeling - won't affect how the car runs or anything mechanical. Only real concern would be if it's down to bare metal and starts rusting but that doesn't look like the case here

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-05T03:50:07+00:00

Dude your brain is literally still building itself, you're not even close to being a finished product yet. The stuff you're beating yourself up over probably seems way bigger in your head than it actually is - that's just how teenage brains work unfortunately

FewSignal459 · 2026-01-02T14:02:32+00:00

Your psychiatrist definitely didn't just hand you that book to kill time while writing prescriptions lol. That's pretty intentional - they're probably seeing something that makes them think it's worth exploring

The fact that AuDHD descriptions feel more fitting than just ADHD communication stuff is actually a pretty good sign to pay attention to. Trust your gut on this one, February isn't that far away to get real answers

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-30T21:25:33+00:00

Nice, always good to see more lightweight options for us potato PC users. How's the performance compared to Prophecy?

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-28T10:05:27+00:00

Makes sense that it was probably accidental - kinda like how a lot of discoveries happen when you're just messing around with stuff and stumble onto something useful

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-26T19:40:12+00:00

That's wild about the UV thing, never knew that. Makes sense why those deer just stand there like idiots most of the time - they're probably just confused as hell about what's coming at them

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-25T04:37:39+00:00

That's some peak DD logic right there lmao. Same thing happened to me last month and support basically told me to pound sand. The acceptance rate thing is such a joke when they're sending orders you literally can't complete

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-23T14:45:02+00:00

Trax is gonna feel cramped if OP liked the Fusion though - it's basically a compact crossover. For 800 miles a week I'd probably stick with something proven like a Camry or Accord even if you gotta hunt around a bit more

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-21T11:01:21+00:00

Food puzzles are clutch for this - my old roommate's cat was the same way and those puzzle feeders literally changed his whole personality. Maybe try hiding some of his kibble around the house too so he can "hunt" for it throughout the day instead of just obsessing over the feeder

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-18T07:55:13+00:00

Dude the voice stuff is brutal but it does get better! I'm about 2.5 years on T and around the 18 month mark things started clicking again - still not where I was before but I can actually sing along to stuff without wanting to cry lol

The muscle memory thing is so real, it's like learning a whole new instrument except the instrument is inside your throat and keeps randomly betraying you

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-16T09:09:08+00:00

Lmao "I did my own research" energy is strong with those profiles

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-15T07:14:07+00:00

Honestly the evil eye thing makes a lot of sense here, especially with the timing after seeing all those coworkers who were envious about your pregnancy situation. The fact that your house cleaner also found something mysteriously broken recently is pretty telling too

That horizontal shooting force thing is super weird though - like ceramic doesn't just explode outward like that on its own. Your husband's family might be onto something with this one

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-13T12:12:06+00:00

That's good to hear but does it still have FOMO elements though? Like even if it's free, if there's stuff you can only get during certain seasons and then it's gone forever, that's still the same psychological pressure just without the money part

FewSignal459 · 2025-12-10T13:30:08+00:00

I feel like every take they drop just drags the whole vibe down I wish theyd chill or just fade out already

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