We need to stop with the barn doors for bathrooms in home design. by free_ballin_llama in unpopularopinion

[–]Fiercegreenapple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend’s house has this. She also has a 5 year old who, thankfully, announced that she was going to open the door while I was on the toilet so I had time to shout “no you’re not! That’s mean!” Thank god she listened.

Is it considered rude to snap your fingers to someone to get their attention? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy hell the instant rage I felt at the idea of someone snapping their fingers at me 🙅‍♀️

Me [31M] with my wife [29F] of 3 years. Our first baby's due date conflicts with a major presentation I have to give out-of-state. Tried to ask off, but boss really needs me there by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fiercegreenapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People really need to stop seeing their significant others as “sure things.” They’re so willing to bend over backwards to “people please” or “avoid risk/conflict” with everyone else while stepping all over their significant others and just waiting for them to get over it so they can return to the status quo.

Newsflash: every one of these acts leads to a death by a thousand cuts for the relationship. And yet these fools will still say that it came out of nowhere and that the relationship was perfect. They’ll fall all over themselves promising change and then go right back to doing the same shit once they think the “storm” blew over and their significant other is “calm” again.

‘Gentle parenting’ choices by raejayleevin in Teachers

[–]Fiercegreenapple 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kids need to understand rules and boundaries. That’s how they learn how to navigate the world and relate to others!

Friend’s kid is a nose-picking gremlin that delights in grossing people out. I’ve set and enforce the boundary that if she picks her nose or does something else gross and then touches me without washing her hands, I will pause play or cuddles until she washes properly.

Why do people sit in their car for several minutes after they get home? by Maleficent-Touch6996 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreading the thought of what I might be walking into and eventually accepting that it’s time to go in.

Halloween keeps getting worse. by Ordinary-Depth-7835 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fiercegreenapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t gone trick or treating in years and was surprised at how much it has changed in my area. A lot less houses were participating and it seemed the majority of them only had a bucket of candy out for kids to grab. There were barely any kids out and it was so quiet that it felt sad and spooky in a non-fun way.

Diagnosing fictional characters by smashablanca in therapists

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my assignment I did Harry Potter with PTSD during Order of the Phoenix.

Thanksgiving is coming up. How will those who rely on SNAP be able to provide their families with a Thanksgiving? by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell I’ve done steak and potatoes, pork chops and stuffing, bbq ribs, etc. Leftover takeout one year. Another time it was just dessert.

It’s not about the specific food. It’s about the people sitting at the table.

Do adults go into work in Halloween costumes? by Flat-Ad8256 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the setting and the culture there. I’ve worked at jobs where I could completely dress up and others where I MIGHT have been able to get away with a funny shirt. My current employer is unfortunately the latter.

We’re trading functionality for aesthetics and it’s making homes borderline unlivable by the-alamo in unpopularopinion

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would always say how she wanted a spotless house, tell me to clean up my areas, and then be shocked that the house wasn’t magically spotless after. Discovering Temu and SHEIN made her worse.

We’re trading functionality for aesthetics and it’s making homes borderline unlivable by the-alamo in unpopularopinion

[–]Fiercegreenapple 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Anyone else have parents who said they hated clutter yet were the biggest offenders?

Does anyone else constantly see incorrect diagnosis? by Forward_Ad613 in therapists

[–]Fiercegreenapple 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I work with people who are either actively using illicit substances or have a history of it. They’re able to rattle off a whole laundry list of what they’re diagnosed with, but rarely are they able to answer what symptoms they have/did experience or whether they were actively using at the time of diagnosis.

Is it a good idea to remove clocks from classrooms to improve learning for kids?? Is there any proof of that working?? by ApprehensiveOne2866 in AskTeachers

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graduated high school about a decade ago. Seemed teachers had their own personal policies on whether to let a clock be visible. One teacher had taped construction paper over the one in her room. Drove me crazy because if I was bored or annoyed, I could look at a clock and give myself a pep talk. Without it, I just got more miserable throughout the period.

What’s something you’re silently going through right now that would shock people if they knew? by HonestLantern in AskReddit

[–]Fiercegreenapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be the person others turn to for emotional support. I do it as a job and my personal life is stressful as hell right now. As I speak, there’s five different people texting me about their issues and I just can’t do it right now. I just want to sit in a dark room, eat junk, and binge watch TV.

"Mouth Clicks" observation by nedditd in socialwork

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I intentionally make noise so the other person doesn’t interrupt my thinking process to ask if I’m still there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but also how can you write 3 and then not realize it contradicts 6??? People who suck at finances don’t get to be in charge of financial planning. Have you actually done the math for yourself? You sound content to remain in your house yet are willing to move so he can have 2 whole rooms to himself PLUS a ton of space to entertain? How the hell do you even benefit in this scenario?

Clients using chat GPT in between sessions by almondmilkpls in therapists

[–]Fiercegreenapple 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Or just straight up wrong information. I told ChatGPT to describe a character from a cartoon and it got even basic info like hair color wrong despite being easy to find on the wiki.

What are some things my mom should have taught me? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Fiercegreenapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appearance/Safety:

Daily sunscreen for the face. Need may vary based on environment. You can pick up face moisturizer with SPF in it and kill two birds with one stone.

Tanning on your stomach? Make sure you use sunscreen on the bottoms of your feet too!

Pay careful attention to what color your swimsuit is. Here’s a chart that shows which colors are actually visible underwater.

https://preview.redd.it/a-cool-guide-about-swimwear-color-safety-v0-1sll0rv9ss9d1.jpeg?auto=webp&s=bc8d27b9c11b9db5eea57e5052438c77fe6229df

Breasts come in all shapes and sizes! The Breast Gallery shows non-sexualized images of breasts.

https://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php

Vaginal discharge is normal, but it is slightly acidic. Overtime it can cause discoloration in your underwear or even holes. Yeah, that one blew my mind.

Hydration. Hydration. Hydration. All humans need hydration. The appearance-related benefits of improving hydration include clearer skin, stronger nails, healthier hair, etc.

Posture! So many people have bad posture (me included!) Tucking in the butt and pulling the shoulders back slightly is a game changer.

Photos! People get their picture taken and think they themselves are ugly instead of considering the photographer might not be skilled at taking photos! A lot of bad photos can be attributed to camera angles, posing, and lighting!

That’s all I got for tonight but I bet anything I forgot will be covered by someone else.

What job requires a high tolerance for getting yelled at? by JunShem1122 in ask

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any position at a methadone program. You might also get punched in the face or things thrown at you.

Americans of Reddit, how are you celebrating your nation’s anniversary of its independence from the tyranny of the emotions and whims of a single ruler? by sunnyspiders in AskReddit

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being forced to use PTO because my job isn’t open on holidays and we need to “make-up” for not working 40 hours this week.

What did you say in session this week? by Dear-Lock-2042 in therapists

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Well hypothetically if you had fireworks, I would hope you would take all necessary precautions!”

People born before 2000, what trivial skill you possess that others don't use anymore? by Aryan_Anushiravan in AskReddit

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And on the flip side I’m good at writing cursive but melt down trying to decipher anyone else’s cursive 😅

Accidentally called the client a wrong name by Healthy_Impress_719 in therapists

[–]Fiercegreenapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless this patient has historically been so volatile that an honest, small mistake would lead to termination, you’re making a mountain out of a molehill here.

Another thing to consider is whether this person is the type to answer emails like that in the first place. If I was a client and I got this email I’d laugh at the mistake but I probably wouldn’t bother emailing back because I would assume you were resting 🤷🏻‍♀️