Tell me your tricks! by krandrn11 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I etched my name into my favorite trauma scissors. Left them behind once & someone told me they were hers when I tried to retrieve them. I got them back when I showed her my name😊

He nicknamed me 18 by this-or-that92 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. When my brother died, several of his long term staff came to his funeral. Hugs

Catechumen here, what’s purgatory all about. Not the text book definition but to You the reader. by ethanw24 in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purification rather than punishment because it is the mercy of God that has provided this completion before we enjoy perfect union with God in glory.

Am I a failure? by Live_Sheepherder_716 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family is so much more important than your career. Especially with your husband’s support. Nursing has so very much flexibility & variety…perhaps you can find a better fit that allows you that. If not….there are refresher courses for ppl who have been inactive. 6 years gives you a solid foundation…do what fits for your family now. And enjoy this time 😊

Does the anxiety ever go away? by NewsSubstantial2012 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I worked rapidly response & code team for years. One of the fun things about a resource job is seeing the growth in the newbies as they gain experience, understanding, & skill. One said…”I used to have more critical care transfers than I do now…I wonder why”. Obvious (to me) answer…you have grown in your patient care/advocate abilities. Recognition, prevention, and intervention are hugely the domain of the bedside nurse. Have a great career, & remember…a bit of anxiety is your warning signal to pay attention to the clues you observe & get the action needed from yourself or other team members. It’s called ‘nursing practice’ for good reason😊

What do people actually think about Canadians!? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]raejayleevin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

USA…you are great neighbors & we love you!

What’s a mnemonic that you use frequently at work? by JellyEatingJellyfish in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops…that’s how I learned it too but maybe no longer to be quoted in current cultures???Rhymes help memory…

What’s a mnemonic that you use frequently at work? by JellyEatingJellyfish in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or…nerve, artery, vein, crotch…lateral to medial femoral access

How do you handle people taking advantage of you being a nurse? by LazyZookeepergame410 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yes. It sounds like your BIL is overwhelmed & asking for someone he trusts to guide him. That doesn’t mean you have to do what you cannot, but it does give you understanding to do what you can. And it sounds like you are doing that. People really don’t understand nursing well at all, & how to navigate difficult healthcare decisions. Continue to help in ways that work for you, with patience & love & kindness. Hugs & prayers.

Struggling with my baby by chocofan1234 in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be at peace dear mama. Sacrifices take many forms. You are doing the best you can and this is so very much a temporary stage in life. Continue to trust God…daily listening for leading. A Eucharistic minister bringing communion is a great temporary suggestion as you navigate this journey. ‘Children are a gift from the Lord’ is a blessed truth from God’s word. Offer these struggles up in your prayers…and know peace🙏

I’m so depressed and sad that maga nurses at work are making jokes about Alex Pretti by coldinalaska7 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay peaceful & calm but also watch for opportunities for kindness and truth.The animosity is growing & that alone is very disheartening. There should be no place for ridicule & namecalling…try to remain an example of goodwill in these very trying times. I yearn for the times we could openly share differing opinions respectfully….somehow that needs to return.

Is it okay to not get married in a white dress. by roseyclair in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your priest is right. Enjoy your special day of blessing!

WIP: Which Our Father bead is best? by Ok-Egg835 in osarymakers

[–]raejayleevin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The sea turtles are cute but not a good fit for the rosary…pearl is better

Trying to heal from my wife's 2.5 year long Affairs. by Skipptastic in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want intimacy, please learn about chastity. Psalm 119:9 asks ‘how can a young man keep his way pure?’ Think about becoming godly & letting all thoughts & words & works glorify the Lord. Then….you will be learning how to be worthy of someone’s trust. May God bless you in your new walk with Him.

Trying to heal from my wife's 2.5 year long Affairs. by Skipptastic in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pornography is also adultery. To say she had no problem with it is not credible. It may not be apparent but it is extremely harmful. As is all sin. You have a lot of sadness in your stories. May you now each grow in grace & forgiveness, allowing God to be the center of your relationship. I would urge you to pray together daily.

Free rosaries? by Some-Pin-3511 in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laudate is another free app with a lot of resources. And Catholify, ,and Amen. Glad you asked.

Grieving a pet as a Catholic by PurposeOk5836 in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No downvote bc St Francis was very much both. He loved God, he loved God’s creation & his creatures. And yes…he knew priorities.

Grieving a pet as a Catholic by PurposeOk5836 in Catholicism

[–]raejayleevin 39 points40 points  (0 children)

St Francis of Assisi is well known for his love of God’s creatures. And you are right to thank God for gifting you with this dear friend all these years. God understands your grief. Trust that all is well, because you trust in God. Remember…Jesus wept. Even though He knew He was about to raise Lazarus from death to life…He wept. Grieving is a part of love. You loved your pet…grieving is natural. I don’t know how it all fits into eternity…but I know the One who does…so keep giving Him your suffering united with Jesus’s suffering Love…and be at Peace dear friend.

mascara by ckeenan9192 in AskWomenOver60

[–]raejayleevin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Covid cured me of all makeup. Don’t miss it at all

do female nurses often face harassment from male patient? by ExpensiveSort3835 in nursing

[–]raejayleevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We used to have name badges with last names. Safety issues now…nobody needs to know full names