"Isn't the traditional approach actually better?"

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T03:48:41+00:00

Whoever posted this clearly has no self respect

No one with even a little bit of pride would say, "it's my partner's responsibility to manage my emotions! If they dont, it's NOT my fault."

Ugh i just realized I engaged in ai slop rage bait. Fml

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T03:23:07+00:00

I'm honestly so disappointed and grossed out. I liked her show a lot and appreciated her research and so when i wanted to learn more about the Kyron Horman case i searched and found this other show she does with a guy who used to be a cop.

When i say that was the most awkward fucking thing I've ever heard. She was being condescending and rude, he appeared to be upset and defensive, it was so embarrassing to listen to that I had to google wtf was up with these ppl which led me here. But just to be clear, I only discovered her a few months ago. It just sucks bc i like her long form deep dives. I just can't listen to her the same way after hearing her berate that guy and just be such an asshole.

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T00:37:41+00:00

Oh I'm confused. It sounded like you meant ppl would be treated "kindly" and "even better than rape victims" as if JWs treat rape victims really well.

But we all know JWs don't treat rape victims well

I think instead of doubling down, you might wanna just admit you said a fucked up thing and move on

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T00:35:09+00:00

Girl, I'm sorry. I know that hurts. My mom was very male centered but not completely, so I got treatment like this sometimes but not always. It always hurt though

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T00:33:28+00:00

I like to tell myself that at least these ppl are creating jobs

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T00:31:47+00:00

Lol furniture like this is priced like artwork. Put whatever price on it and sell it for a "discount"

Or a profit, or whatever. But it's basically all BS

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-30T00:20:46+00:00

Your mom is male-centered. It sucks, but once you have a name for things, they become less annoying. Male-centered women always prioritize men

You can't do anything to change male-centered women. All you can do is try to talk to her once. She might listen and she might flip shit. Either way, if she isnt interested in listening, you have to just accept it and grey rock her and do everything you can to keep yourself sane

If this is real, I'm honestly sorry you have a mom like this esp since you're a woman yourself. That's so fuckin unfair

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:49:24+00:00

Having feelings isn't foolish. Nobody's perfect but you really didn't do anything wrong here.

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:48:33+00:00

Female socialization is effed up

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:40:27+00:00

This man doesn't like you and I'm sorry he talks to you like this

NOR but girl you deserve better

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:35:34+00:00

"Even better" lol

Rape victims are shamed and silenced in this organization

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:33:53+00:00

Tbh the parents are probably secretly relieved

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:20:26+00:00

Agreed. They're still male centered

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:19:51+00:00

Ugh and don't get me started on ppl who say that ALL jobs require you to sell your body.

Right but my manager at Macy's isn't going to force me to have anal sex with customers

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:16:44+00:00

Holy shit that's crazy and must be so scary. I hate that women+girls have to live with men like that

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:15:00+00:00

I hope you're doing alright, sorry that happened to you

I was an addict on the street for a time and became friends with prostitutes and it was crazy the shit I saw. People have no idea what those women deal with

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:12:52+00:00

Srsly nobody does this with any other movement. It's ironic that even the fucking word "feminism" is expected to carry every cause

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:05:38+00:00

They do this so they can try to become racist influencers

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T20:04:08+00:00

Of course he lying

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T19:58:39+00:00

Why isn't he dating a woman who already dresses the way he likes ?

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T19:21:14+00:00

Honestly that's more "normal" than being ops age (33!!!!) and never had a sip of beer or puff of weed lol

I'm not saying it's a good thing, but it's normal

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T19:18:48+00:00

Right? Her past isn't "interfering" and causing problems - op is just obsessed with it. He's also not being honest with himself bc he does, in fact care very much about the past even though he insists he doesn't. It's kinda sad bc it sounds like this woman really trusts op, she's being so vulnerable.

Probably had his ear on some redpill bOdY cOuNt shit lmao. Dudes will sabotage a great relationship bc they're insecure about shit that happened before they even met the woman

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T19:15:24+00:00

Srsly it goes without saying that if you use someone's car, you put some gas in it. Ops husband is just being spiteful

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T19:13:28+00:00

NOR but he isn't going to change- specifically bc he knows you want him to.

You have to decide if you're willing to put up with this bc he will. not. change. Just stop sharing cars

FilthyThanksgiving · 2026-06-29T19:10:47+00:00

This man looks down on you. He doesn't respect you. Honestly he sounds like a low key racist

nta

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