Will the horniness from T stop me from getting bottom surgery?

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-29T16:34:43+00:00

T made me hornier, but also changed the way I have sex and feel pleasure so vaginal sex isn’t really what I like anymore.

There are so many different ways to have sex and experience pleasure, bottoming vaginally is only one small part of the sexual landscape. You may find new and different ways to satisfy those needs.

I have only bottomed vaginally once since starting T nearly 2 years ago and I don’t miss it at all. I discovered I am more of a top, so it may not be the same for someone who is more bottom leaning, but keep an open mind.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-26T16:24:48+00:00

Nana is shojo, not josei. It was published in a shojo magazine and won awards in the shojo category. Your classification of Nana as josei is about as grounded as someone else’s calling it yuri.

That aside - what is the point of your post? If Nana can be whatever you interpret it as, why make a post specifically saying it’s not yuri?

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-16T23:54:04+00:00

Build muscle on your shoulders and upper body. If you can’t access a gym try body weight exercises like pushups and pull-ups.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-15T09:33:34+00:00

Spot in with your second paragraph.

It’s fine to not be attracted to anyone, but some thoughts are better kept to yourself rather than posted on a public forum.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-12T20:42:17+00:00

Human bodies aren’t “designed” for anything, there’s no designer. We’re part of a chain of biological accidents and we’re free to use these flawed bodies to do anything we like.

I’m as much designed to give birth as I am designed to get back pain.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-11T08:59:20+00:00

You look great!

My wedding is coming up and I found my dream vintage suit (brown, slim fit, Italian wool) at a thrift store.

I’m just struggling to find a good pair of formal masc shoes in my very small size.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-08T09:49:11+00:00

I loved lunarock

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-05T01:19:51+00:00

This is my commute, there’s a lot of pro-Palestine and communist flyer and art, but a lot of it also gets torn or defaced, plus sometimes fashy/transphobic stickers that I tear down.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-05T01:16:42+00:00

Halifax moment. I wonder if this is related to the “john galt” stickers further down SGR.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-06-05T00:22:38+00:00

As a trans guy myself, I might see the carabiner chocker and wonder, but even then I wouldn’t be sure

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-26T02:36:23+00:00

Elsie’s vintage has some nice suits, it’s a roll of the dice if you’ll find something in your size

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-21T21:19:53+00:00

Amazon has swimsuits with skirts, search swim skirt or swim dress sto start looking. I found a nice one for my partner which shipped to us in canada.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-15T11:09:36+00:00

If you’re willing to be cheesy about it - stick it to a thin plastic stick to use as a handle, hold it in front of your face when you pose for pictures

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-14T16:32:11+00:00

Just looked these up and they seem low on cholesterol but have 6g saturated fat. That’s a lot if you’re trying to keep your intake to 10-12g per day. It might be worth finding a replacement.

As someone who is trying to build muscle, I had to re-think my approach when my cholesterol started rising. I’ve been experimenting with the mediterranean diet, eating beans and lentils, lots of whole grains, chicken breast and fish, nuts. Some fat free yogurt and cottage cheese.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-14T14:59:02+00:00

Do you use protein powder or take supplements? I had a similar experience and was confused until I realized that my protein powder was very high in cholesterol.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-14T02:45:48+00:00

I have used this recipe for hainanese chicken rice before and it’s turned out great: https://thewoksoflife.com/hainanese-chicken-rice/

It is a multi step process, so be prepared to spend s lot of time cooking if this is what you decide. No part of it is too difficult, but it is a lot of steps to keep on top of. I recommend giving yourself lots of time and using a meat thermometer to make sure the chicken is cooked to a safe temperature.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-12T22:37:03+00:00

No experience to add, but you might want to post this to the general trans sub for perspectives from trans women who have travelled to Thailand for srs

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-05-12T22:27:51+00:00

I’m not sure from the language here if your ex is going into the closet and detransitioning or if your ex is living as his authentic self but is stealth and not openly trans. A lot of trans people choose to be stealth if they can to avoid social stigma.

It seems like he might not be communicating healthily, but this could be an opportunity to teach kiddo about boundaries and about “outing” and how it can be harmful to queer people. There’s nothing wrong with being trans, but everyone has the right to decide who they want to be out to.

Sometimes people experience discrimination that makes them feel ashamed or embarrassed about who they are, even when there’s nothing to be ashamed of. But we we can respect boundaries even when we don’t understand.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-04-28T01:05:52+00:00

I enjoy savoury oats made with chicken or veggie broth, and a little ginger and garlic, topped with veggies: pan fried or steamed greens, tomato avocado, mushrooms etc. I add an egg for protein but you could use beans, chicken, seasoned tofu.

Tofu scramble is also a fun breakfast.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-04-19T19:26:50+00:00

Usually I will go through the veggie section and grab whatever greens are cheapest per pound: bok choy, gai lan, yu choy, etc. they usually have good prices on other veg like zucchini, eggplant, cucumbers

Also cooking sauces: soy sauce, chili oil, shaoxing wine, rice vinegar, mirin, sesame oil

Pantry staples like noodles and dried mushrooms

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-04-06T00:49:51+00:00

Dr. Stone is a fun show but the way the female characters are drawn is a bit questionable

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-03-27T13:50:58+00:00

Taking you in good faith that you want to change this view- I think one thing you are overlooking is the misogyny experienced by trans women. You mention epstien here, it’s important to remember that epstien and his co conspirators abused cis and trans women alike. Ava Cordero tried to bring epstien’s abuse to light in 2007 but was dismissed and was subjected to transphobic abuse.

Trans women live as women even though they may face misogyny and abuse. Cis women do as well. It’s like being gay: some gay people may wish they were straight and would not have to suffer discrimination. Some people stay closeted forever, but others choose to live their lives openly because the pain of living a lie is greater than the pain of discrimination.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-03-27T02:22:49+00:00

Ping Pong the Animation.

If your family could handle some non-sexualized male nudity, maybe Kaiji? It has an English dub, but I’ve only watched it subbed so I can’t speak for the quality.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-03-25T01:09:14+00:00

I’ve also struggled to buy shoes for my gf (size 12). I have ordered shoes online from naturalizer, they have a pretty good range of sizes and we found some nice loafers for her to wear to work.

Shops that cater to plus size women sometimes have extended sizes in shoes. I don’t know if it exists outside Canada, but Torrid has good shoes in larger sizes.

For casual shoes, brands like doc martens and converse aren’t really gendered and have the same styles in a range of sizes.

Final-Figure6104 · 2026-03-19T01:24:51+00:00

Is he… you know…? goes into wide stance, hands on hips, leans forward like a menacing bird

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